Identity Shifting: The Full Guide to Reinventing Your Life in 90 Days
A 5 hour 47 minute chalkboard compilation that stitches roughly a dozen earlier lessons on identity, pendulums, affirmations, visualization and surrender into one 90-day program.
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Big Idea
The argument in one line.
Results you get and keep are capped by the identity you hold, so lasting change comes from first detaching from the old self, then deliberately choosing and confirming a new one before the actions follow.
Who This Is For
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READ IF YOU ARE…
Someone stuck in a job they dislike who keeps planning an exit but never commits, and suspects the block is internal rather than a missing tactic.
A founder or freelancer whose revenue swings up and back down to the same baseline every few months and wants a model for why that keeps happening.
A person who has tried affirmations or visualization, felt like a fraud doing them, and wants a different way to phrase and ground them.
Someone already into Neville Goddard, Reality Transurfing or David Hawkins who wants those ideas pulled into one daily routine with journaling prompts.
A trader who knows their losses come from revenge trading, holding losers and forcing setups, and wants a mental frame for staying detached.
SKIP IF…
You want evidence. Quantum lifelines, karma across past lives, the placebo effect and brainwave claims are presented as settled fact with no sourcing.
You want business strategy. Every growth story here is credited to mindset, and the concrete tactics (hiring, a lower-ticket product) appear only as anecdotes.
You have limited time. This is a stitched compilation, so the May 2019 zero-revenue story, the LA mansion visualization and the tightrope metaphor each repeat three or more times.
Mentorship pitches bother you. There are at least eight calls to apply, join the email list, watch a free movie or buy brainwave audio.
TL;DR
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The video claims your income, health and relationships settle at whatever level your identity says is normal, so chasing outcomes (having) or grinding (doing) never sticks until being changes. The method runs in four pillars: awareness (audit the current self and step into witness mode), clarity (what plus why plus who equals how plus when), creation (center attention, then hold a 30-second vision of the target life), and coordination (lower importance on any one goal and breathe through fear instead of fighting it). Supporting tools include third-person, present-continuous affirmations backed by a nightly confirmation journal, visualizing the goal, the process and the failure scenario, hourly 'am I dreaming?' check-ins, and a 90-day public accountability thread.
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Cold open. Permanent change comes from identity, illustrated by the addict who quits once they stop seeing themselves as one. Origin claims: quit a 9-to-5, millionaire by 23, $9M in total sales.
03:10 – 15:56
02 · Principle 1: Become who you were meant to be
Goals that make your stomach tighten are borrowed from other people. Fate versus free will drawn as concentric circles, with the personal will sitting inside the larger outer intention. The $50K Hormozi trip and a record week while away.
15:56 – 24:00
03 · Principle 2: Pendulums
Group energy structures that feed on anger, fear and guilt, mapped onto the Hawkins scale. Constructive versus destructive pendulums, and 'should, must, have to' as the tell. Client Neil leaves medicine for coaching.
24:00 – 35:30
04 · Principle 3: All gas, no brakes
Wanting growth while fearing loss stalled the business at $1.1M to $1.3M a year until a lower-ticket product took it to $1.7M. $240K spent on development in one year, a bad Q2, Brene Brown's 'drop your armor', and client results from Mariam and Shams.
35:30 – 45:32
05 · Pillar 1: Awareness
A college heartbreak and The Power of Now introduce witness mode. Five-question audit of the current self: bad habits, recurring negative thoughts, traits you despise in others, regrets, and how you numb pain.
45:32 – 56:58
06 · Pillar 2: Clarity
Target fixation on the highway shows you move toward whatever you focus on. Formula: what plus why plus who equals how plus when. Four ideal-self questions on habits, dress, social presence and response to challenge.
56:58 – 1:11:34
07 · Pillar 3: Creation (film and script)
Reality as a film reel of possible frames. Center attention between the inner and outer screen with 'Who am I? Where am I? What am I doing?', then set intention with a 30-second vision. Expect things to fall apart around week two or three.
1:11:34 – 1:20:57
08 · Pillar 4: Coordination and the 90-day tracker
Selective unattachment over detachment. The chalk and tightrope metaphors for importance. 'Incremental surrender' breathwork, plus the daily 90-day tracking sheet and comment accountability thread.
1:20:57 – 1:46:11
09 · Self-reprogramming and dynamic affirmations
Thought plus emotion becomes belief, the RAS finds confirmations, and belief hardens into conviction. The affirmation-confirmation cycle, the middle-school guitar video trauma, and the 4x2 method of third-person, present-continuous affirmations read morning and night.
1:46:11 – 2:28:40
10 · Three visualizations: goal, process, failure
Visualize life after the goal across multiple scenes before sleep, visualize doing the next known step well, and visualize the failure scenario until it feels survivable, then reframe toward success. Stories of the first $300 coaching client, client Tia's $300K debt payoff, and hiring the first salesperson.
2:28:40 – 2:48:38
11 · Waking up in reality (Turiya)
The four yogic states of consciousness. The mind fails by trying to control the flow instead of its own movement within it. Hourly phone alarm asking 'am I dreaming or is this real?' for 30 days, with a nightly observation journal.
2:48:38 – 3:10:40
12 · The mirror cycle
Reality reflects identity (how you see yourself) and paradigm (what you think is possible). Most people observe first and form an attitude from it. The 1% choose the image first, observe proof, then let reality reflect it. Client Leal's $80K day and the four-minute-mile M-field story.
3:10:40 – 3:49:09
13 · Shadow work, karma and shifting lifelines
Four types of karma, and Hawkins' four ways of handling feelings (repression, suppression, expression, surrender). Three-step letting go. The 2019 choice between an engineering job and the business, May 2019's zero month, and an hourly unattach-vision-assume-review routine.
3:49:09 – 4:24:57
14 · The law of balance: tests and challenges
Darkness before the dawn, with Jim Carrey and Oprah as examples. Inner challenges (the identity thermostat) and outer ones (reality rearranging, pendulums pushing shame, guilt, fear, anger and pride). Three keys: keep importance low, see a blessing in disguise, let it burn.
4:24:57 – 4:56:52
15 · Speaking to yourself and the 90-day challenge
Witness mode before affirmations. Third-person affirmations with vivid language, then daily confirmations. Clients Bastion, Francois and Tia as proof. The 90-day comment thread: three confirmations, a score out of 10, and one thing to give tomorrow.
4:56:52 – 5:36:33
16 · Heart-mind coherence and self-inquiry
Outer intention works non-linearly, so give the mind a believable story and let the heart drive. Surround yourself with people already doing it. Self-inquiry questions, alpha windows at waking and sleep, and quitting caffeine for steadier focus.
5:36:33 – 5:47:13
17 · Guided coherence meditation and close
Six-count breathing, hand on heart, sending love to loved ones, people who hurt you and yourself, then feeling a big problem already solved. Closes with a pitch for the Mindwave brainwave audio.
Atomic Insights
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People who make money only to lose it, or lose weight only to regain it, never changed the identity that defines their normal, so they drift back to it.
Every belief you hold today will eventually become a limiting belief, because the identity that got you to one level cannot carry you to the next.
Phrase affirmations in the third person and present continuous tense ('Quazi attracts clients with ease') so the identity stays flexible instead of fixed.
An affirmation launches a new self-image, but a confirmation (noticing real evidence that it is true) is what makes the mind accept it.
Spend at least 51% of your attention on the outcome you want rather than your current circumstances, or progress will cancel itself out.
Visualize the failure scenario on purpose, accept that life goes on, then spend at least as long visualizing success, so fear stops draining your energy.
The words should, must and have to are a signal that someone else's expectations are running your choices.
Treating one goal as life-or-death makes you needy and controlling, which tends to push the outcome further away. Keep its importance level with the rest of your life.
Doubt and uncertainty during a big change are a sign you have left your comfort zone, not a sign you chose wrong.
Most people take their mood from their current reality and then get more of the same. Choose the attitude first and look for evidence of it.
Thoughts are not the problem to fix. One feeling generates a thousand thoughts that justify it, so work with the sensation in the body instead.
Close your eyes and visualize for about 30 seconds, then stop, because after that the judging mind starts editing what you are allowed to want.
Ask 'if I were my ideal self, which option would I pick?' and the answer is usually the more uncomfortable one.
How fast you recover from a setback is a better measure of growth than how rarely setbacks happen.
Hiring a first salesperson only happened after deliberately picturing the worst case (lost revenue, a damaged brand) and deciding it was survivable.
Takeaway
Change who you are before chasing what you want
WHAT TO LEARN
Lasting results come from choosing an identity on purpose, grounding it with daily evidence, and holding it loosely enough to survive the setbacks that follow any real change.
02Principle 1: Become who you were meant to be
Test any long-term goal by picturing it in detail. A light, open feeling suggests it is yours, while a tight stomach suggests it was handed to you.
Hold a clear direction but stay unattached to the exact route, and treat outcomes that beat your plan as proof you let go enough.
03Principle 2: Pendulums
Notice when should, must or have to drives a decision, and ask whether the expectation is yours or a group's.
Reframe obligations as choices you actually want to make, because grudging duty burns energy while willing effort does not.
04Principle 3: All gas, no brakes
Wanting growth while protecting what you have creates a stall, so check whether fear of loss is the real reason a decision keeps getting delayed.
At every big decision, name the part of you that wants to retreat and the part that knows the right move, then act with the second one.
05Pillar 1: Awareness
Before building a new identity, list your unhelpful habits, recurring negative thoughts, traits you despise in others, regrets and numbing behaviors.
Practice looking at your thoughts from the outside so a painful mood becomes something you observe rather than something you are.
06Pillar 2: Clarity
Get clear on what you want, why you want it emotionally, and who you would be once you have it. Gaps between the three show up as stalled progress.
Describe your ideal self's habits, clothes, social manner and response to pressure, then ask what that person would do at each decision point.
07Pillar 3: Creation (film and script)
Break autopilot by asking who am I, where am I and what am I doing, then spend 30 seconds picturing the next thing you want to experience.
Expect disruption in the first weeks after committing to a change, and keep going instead of reading the chaos as failure.
08Pillar 4: Coordination and the 90-day tracker
When a goal starts to feel life-or-death, deliberately lower its importance, because desperate wanting tends to push the outcome away.
Breathe into the tight spot in your body, welcome the feeling and exhale it out, repeating three to ten times until the charge drops.
09Self-reprogramming and dynamic affirmations
Write two affirmations each for health, wealth, relationships and spirituality in third person, present continuous tense, and read them on waking and before sleep.
Keep a nightly confirmation journal of anything that matched an affirmation, since evidence is what makes a new self-image feel believable.
Expect to outgrow every self-description you write and rewrite affirmations as each level becomes normal.
10Three visualizations: goal, process, failure
Spend more than half your attention on the outcome you want rather than checking current results, which mostly reinforces the gap.
Before acting, picture yourself doing the next known step well instead of worrying about steps you cannot see yet.
When fear spikes, picture the worst case happening and life continuing, then spend at least as long picturing success.
11Waking up in reality (Turiya)
Set an hourly alarm for 30 days and use it to step back from whatever has your attention and notice what you are actually doing.
Swap the urge to control an outcome for watching the urge itself, which builds the gap between reacting and responding.
12The mirror cycle
Decide the attitude you want before looking at your circumstances, then hunt for proof of it, instead of letting today's results set your mood.
Rate at night what share of your thoughts went to what you have and want versus what you lack and fear, and work that number up.
13Shadow work, karma and shifting lifelines
Handle negative thoughts by letting them be, feeling the underlying emotion and watching it, rather than pushing them away or acting them out.
You have surrendered something when your honest stance becomes 'fine if it happens, fine if it does not.'
14The law of balance: tests and challenges
Treat setbacks right after a big commitment as the cost of leaving your comfort zone, not evidence you chose wrong.
When something goes wrong, actively look for how it could turn out to help, and if you cannot, let it fall apart and rebuild.
15Speaking to yourself and the 90-day challenge
Use vivid, emotional language in affirmations so they produce a feeling rather than reading like a checklist.
Each night log three confirmations, a score out of 10, and one thing you will give tomorrow rather than something you hope to get.
16Heart-mind coherence and self-inquiry
Give your logical mind a believable path, often by spending time around people already doing what you want, so it stops vetoing the goal.
When a limiting thought appears, ask 'to whom does this occur?' and 'who am I?', then do the task without arguing with the thought.
Do vision work in the first and last ten minutes of the day, when the mind is calmest and most open.
Glossary
Terms worth knowing.
Pendulum
A term from Vadim Zeland's Reality Transurfing for a collective energy structure formed by any like-minded group (a team, religion, political movement, office culture) that feeds on members' attention, especially through anger, fear, guilt and pride.
Inner and outer intention
Reality Transurfing terms. Inner intention is personal effort to force a specific result through direct action. Outer intention is the larger, non-linear force that delivers outcomes when you choose the result and stop gripping the method.
Importance
In Reality Transurfing, the excess meaning you load onto a goal or fear. High importance creates tension and neediness that tends to produce the opposite of what you want.
Alternative space / lifelines
The Transurfing idea that every possible version of your life already exists as a set of potential paths, and your sustained thoughts and feelings determine which one you move along.
Reticular activating system (RAS)
A network in the brainstem that filters incoming sensory information and decides what reaches conscious attention. Here it is used to explain why you notice evidence for whatever you already believe.
Turiya
In Hindu Vedanta philosophy, the fourth state of consciousness beyond deep sleep, dreaming and waking. It describes pure witnessing awareness that stays constant underneath the other three.
Self-inquiry
A meditation method taught by Ramana Maharshi in which you ask 'to whom does this thought occur?' and then 'who am I?' to separate your sense of self from passing thoughts and roles.
Sanchita, Prarabdha, Agami and Kriyamana karma
Four categories of karma in yogic thought: the total store across lifetimes, the portion active in this life, actions that bear fruit in future lives, and actions with immediate consequences in this one.
Map of Consciousness
David R. Hawkins' scale ranking emotional states from shame (20) through courage (200) up to enlightenment (700 to 1000). Courage is treated as the line between draining and empowering states.
Morphogenetic field (M-field)
Rupert Sheldrake's hypothesis, cited by Hawkins, that once something is achieved by one member of a group it becomes easier for others. Used here with the four-minute-mile story.
Alpha brainwave state
A relaxed brain rhythm (roughly 8 to 12 Hz) common just after waking and just before sleep. The video treats these windows as the best time to program the subconscious.
Psycho-Cybernetics
Maxwell Maltz's 1960 self-help book arguing that self-image sets the limits of achievement and that the mind steers toward a clearly held target like a guidance system.
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Quasi here. For the last decade, I've been obsessed with learning what actually produces a permanent shift in people. From my research and experience, here's the conclusion I came to.
Most people never make a permanent change in their lives because they never access the core of their being that's actually responsible for making this shift. One analogy I can give you is when an addict finally quits addictive behavior, can you guess what happens? They actually finally get to the point where they stop viewing themselves as a smoker or drinker and view themselves as the kind of person who no longer engages in that behavior moving forward they shift their identity to no longer viewing themselves as an addict okay that's what makes the shift happen reality works in three main paradigms having doing being When we're stuck in having, we're chasing the next shiny object, hoping that it's going to make us become worthy.
So you say something like, when I get money, then I'll be worthy. Or when I lose weight, then I'll be worthy, right? Then what they find is they make the money only to lose it or lose the weight only to gain it back.
The shift doesn't stay because deep down, they actually don't feel or believe that they're worthy of that thing itself. It's the same reason people like Mike Tyson made $400 million but went bankrupt. Now, the next level above having is the doing level.
In that level, they believe that once they do something to have, then they will become worthy. Once I try this business opportunity and finally make money, then I will become worthy. You can see how this doing is actually a mask for having, and as such, it's still futile.
Now, finally, the level that most people ignore, the most intangible level, is... Once I decide that I'm worthy and then act from that place, that's when results will show. Have you noticed this?
When you finally make the decision to be the kind of person for whom it's natural, then the actions actually become natural. I first noticed this when I shifted my identity to view myself as someone who was a fit gym goer. Suddenly it felt unnatural for me to miss my workout days.
It felt unnatural for me to eat unhealthy. The results you get in your life and are able to keep all come down to identity this is what i've proven over the last seven years where i was able to quit a soul -sucking nine to five job and start a business and actually grow to nine million dollars becoming a millionaire by the age of 23 and living a life beyond my wildest dreams all because i shifted from the identity of a nine -to -five worker to the identity of a successful entrepreneur and then becoming a profitable trader a loving husband and a father i had to become the person first for all of these outcomes to have manifested in my life not only that I've been able to serve over 2 ,000 clients and I've seen some of the most profound shifts in our clients' lives all as a result of what I'm going to share with you today.
So in today's video, I'm going to share with you the ultimate blueprint, my life's work on identity shifting. And I promise you, if you take the time to study this in full, actually apply everything that I'm sharing here for the next 90 days, your life will never be the same again. So with that, let's get started.
Principle number one. So principle number one states, To have what you truly want, you must become who you were meant to be.
One of the biggest misconceptions people have about this journey is who they are is defective. Right now, this version of themselves is somehow defective and they need to become someone else, someone more confident, someone more intelligent, someone more X, Y, and Z quality that they perceive. This is a big misconception because they're admitting to themselves one main thing.
That who they are right now is not the correct version. So they must pretend to be someone that they're not And so I want you to look back at your life and think about the goals that you've wanted Most of the time you felt this pit in your stomach when you've envisioned a goal of making money and getting to this like career top and working hard and so that feeling of dis -ease or uneasiness within you is your subconscious telling you that this goal isn't right for you and who you are meant to be because if you envision the life that you truly want where you wake up with ease and you're doing the thing that you love and it doesn't feel like you're struggling against something that is the life that was meant for you so very easy way to discern your true goals from foreign goals, goals that you were conditioned to want, is when you envision a longer term future of what you would like to do, what you would like to experience, who you would like to hang out with, you know, what you want to have, what you want to do, and who you want to be.
When you think about those three things, what does it make you feel inside? Do you feel happy, joyous, those light feelings? Or do you feel like something is constricting within you?
You're like, oh, you know, I don't want to do that. but I believe I have to because society told me to. I don't want to work hard and then become the CEO of this company.
I don't want to, you know, work 80 hours a week because not everyone wants to grind 80 hours a week and work hard. Some people just want to enjoy the thing that they want to do. And I actually hate the word, I dislike the word working hard because it implies you're battling against someone.
Because hard work naturally follows if you're truly obsessed with something. So for example, if you ask Michael Jordan, there was a parent of a kid who was playing basketball.
And the parent asked Michael Jordan, like, hey, I want my son to be exceptional, the greatest of all time. What does he have to do? How does he get there?
And Michael Jordan said, fall in love with the game. Because when you fall in love with the game, you stop counting the hours that you put in. You're just obsessed with it, right?
So when someone says, oh, I have to work hard, it typically means that they have this mistaken idea that they need to fight against something. They're not free. They're trapped by this idea that they're holding onto.
So when you think about a long -term goal and you feel constricted inside, it just means you're holding onto a false idea that doesn't quite resonate with the true goal that you were meant to achieve, who you were meant to be. And this brings me to the idea of fate versus free will, a very big realization that I came to recently.
So if you take these two concentric circles in the middle, the smaller circle would be free will, which is your personal will, okay? This is our inner intention, the petty personal intention that we possess. I'm going to call this inner intent.
This larger circle is outer intention. which is fate or the godly intention. So a lot of people have this misconception that it's either fate or free will.
Why not both? Why can't you have the choice within the context of fate? You might be thinking, oh, but then God wants me to do something else.
God didn't want me to achieve this goal. God will never want something that you don't want. Because guess what?
This concentric circle, this bigger circle is actually, it encloses, encapsulates the smaller circle. Whatever you want, God wants for you and more.
This is what people fail to understand. And that's why it's so hard to surrender your will to a higher being. So to give you an example of my personal life, when I got started with this journey and I quit my corporate job to start making these videos because I was going to be miserable at a nine to five job, I You know took the leap quit my job started making youtube videos I had no idea how I was going to make it and my only goal at the time was The highest thing that I wanted was if I made a quarter of a million dollars a year 20k a month And I could just work from my laptop and just have freedom.
I would be so happy. You know, my life would be fucking perfect.
But I surrendered that to God and I just said, you know, I don't know what's going to happen. A year after, like a year and a half after I made that intention, not only did I go from absolute zero to starting a YouTube channel, growing it, working with clients. I had no idea what I was going to do and how I was monetize it.
Okay. I had no idea it was going to be coaching that I was going to be selling. And I started making a hundred thousand dollars a month.
I started making over a million a month, a million a year. And so then I was like, well, how did this happen? I didn't even intend for this to happen.
This is how it happened. I surrendered my petty intention to this higher intention for what God wanted for my life. And when little things didn't go my way, I didn't insist on trying to fight it.
Like, oh, why didn't this happen? You know, why did this obstacle arise? It wasn't supposed to happen like this.
I'm some master of manifestation and everything is supposed to go my way. So I'm now going to try to make it go my way. Instead of doing that, I just trusted, hey, maybe the higher power has something better in store for me.
Maybe. I don't know what I don't know. This mind is very limited.
Maybe God can see something for my life that I can't see, so I surrendered to it. A surefire way to move towards the life that is beyond your wildest dreams. To know that you're abiding by principle number one, you'll know that you have surrendered your personal intention to the higher outer intention when your life turns out better than you've imagined.
My life currently has turned out... way better than I could have ever imagined. To the point where I wake up in the morning, I'm like, holy crap, this must be a dream.
I can't believe this is real. This is wonderful. This is amazing.
I can't believe I get to do what I love every single day, make videos, watch my channel grow, make as much money as I want and serve clients and help clients get transformations and work with the team that I want to work with. And I get to take the time off some days in the middle of the day, just go and play golf and do whatever I want, hang out with my family.
Like this is absolutely perfect. This is better than I could have ever imagined it. And I never have to worry about money.
I have more, way more than I could ever need. So this could only happen because... I have allowed myself to become who I was meant to be.
Instead of trying to be someone who is this 20K a month version and try to make videos a particular way and fake myself and fake being this identity, I actually removed all the false conditionings of who society told me I should be. Oh, you have to be confident. Oh, you have to be an extrovert.
Oh, you have to be, you have to want to succeed. You have to want to make money. So there are very subtle layers of this, okay?
Very, very subtle layers of society. conditioning that get to each and every single one of us but the key i want you to take away is most of the time we use our free will to resist our fate what we were meant to have and i can guarantee you the thing that you were meant to have It's beyond your wildest dreams.
Like if you just surrender your will to God and you just trust that, hey, I don't know what I don't know. And the big epiphany I had that led me to this realization was when I was listening to Joe Rogan's podcast. And in it, he was saying, some guy asked him, oh, what vision do you have for your life?
What vision do you have for this podcast? He was like, I have no vision for this podcast and where it's going to go. The guy has like a $200, $300 million deal.
right? With Spotify, it's like, I have no vision for where this is going to go. I'm just taking it day by day.
And every single day I am focusing on being a better podcaster, being a better father, being a better worker outer, someone who goes to the gym, someone who's fit, being a better athlete, right? So he is so present to the moment and he's just focusing on taking it one day at a time. One day at a time and focusing on pure being instead of trying to do something better and try to have something like Oh next step is 500 million.
Next step is 1 billion. Let's get to 1 billion No, he's focusing on every single day. Let me just become 1 % better Let's take a day by day and put one foot in front of the other.
That's it And sure, you might have a grandiose vision of what your life looks like, but you're not attached to it because you are fully present to this moment and embodying who you would be in your ideal right now. You are being that version of yourself right now.
You are giving yourself permission to enjoy this sacred moment that is right now and be joyful right now. Feel the feelings that you would feel once you have the mansion, once you have the car, once you're out of debt. You feel those feelings right now.
And you view this moment as the journey as, hey, this is the fun movie. This is the game I'm playing. This is my current situation.
And I'm playing this game to improve my situation every single day. And I'm surrendering my will to God. And I know that what was meant to happen for me will happen.
I cannot have anything that I wasn't meant to have. Everything that I have, everything that belongs to me will come to me. There is no need to rush.
There is no need to fight against some invisible force. There is no need to insist. Just be as you are.
And this actually allows you to unattach from the doing paradigm where it's like, oh no, I must do something. I must do a technique, right? Because if I don't do anything, how is it going to happen?
If you're fully in being and you fully trust the flow of life and you operate as your ideal self and from the operation in and abiding in your ideal self. You feel like there is no need to do the uncomfortable thing. My next edge is to relax and stop doing, stop stressing and just take it easy.
You're going to find things are just going to work out. You're going to find connections, people you meet or opportunities that you just attract that fall on your lap just because you're in alignment with that. And I can't tell you the number of times it's happened in my life.
To give you a direct example of that, last week I took a trip to Vegas to spend a day with Homozy and his team. Maybe you know who Alex Homozy is, maybe you don't. But it's this big influencer who runs, you know, he runs this company called Acquisition .com.
I paid $50 ,000 to be in that room for one day, literally for one day. And I just spent Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, just away from work, completely surrendered. No going to my team meetings or whatever.
Turns out we hit a record week the previous week, even though I was gone half the week, right? We hit a $70 ,000 week and we've never done that before in one week. And so I talked to my manager.
I was like, what happened? I was gone. And she was like, well, you left.
Feels like everything just fell into place. I had a lot of synergy with our salespeople and everyone else in the company. And it just felt like you surrendered and all...
All of a sudden, everything fell into place. And that's because when I left, I just operated in pure being. I'm like, hey, if things go well, great.
If things don't, great. You know, I trust God and whatever was meant to happen will happen. And so that's the power of you surrendering your little intention, your inner intention to the grand outer intention.
Just trust that when you surrender to the flow of life, whatever you wanted, that and beyond bigger things will happen. So the key I want you to take away is to unite. your petty lower inner intention with the big outer intention, what God has intended for you.
So our free will is used to continually surrender this ego and what it wants to stop insisting on making everything go my way and stop trying to control and focus more on directing. Like, hey, it's okay if this didn't go my way. It's okay that I'm losing this game right now.
Even if I completely lose it all. Maybe it was meant to happen. Maybe something better will come from it.
It's your job to continually just remind yourself of that and continually keep on surrendering, keep on stepping into more and more ease. And that is maturity. That's something that's grown within me, especially over the last three months when we had a rough patch with business.
But the only block to that is the second principle that I'm going to discuss. The block that's preventing you from becoming your true self is a concept called pendulum.
So let's get to that right now. Before I get to that, I wanted to announce we have a few slots open if you wanted to work closer together with us. We're looking for 25 new clients.
If you want to apply to work closer together with me in our mentorship, you can click right here or go to realitycreator .com slash apply to fill up a short application to see if we would be a good fit to work together to take your life to the next level this year. So let's get to principle. number two pendulums.
So the second principle you must understand is the principle of pendulums. And these are collective like -minded forces. So if you imagine the concept of a pendulum, it swings.
The pendulum has a swing and it's swinging at a particular frequency. And this pendulum swing basically sucks your energy. It uses your energy to keep swinging.
What we want to do is suffocate that pendulum. Okay, so this is a metaphorical concept, but if you imagine all of the groups around you, groupthink, sports teams, religion, politics, sickness, everything is a pendulum. Everything is a like -minded energy that wants to continually suck your energy.
So have you ever found in your life where things are going really, really well and then all of a sudden someone throws a spanner in the works or something just happens and it sucks your energy? You know, you just get absorbed by it. When instead you could have just ignored it and moved on and it would have just dissipated.
But for you, you know, you just fall asleep and your mind just gets hijacked. The pendulum hijacks your mind and then you go into that negative feedback loop and then you get stuck in that feedback loop for weeks, if not months. I notice this in my business sometimes where things are going really well, but then one tiny little thing happens and I'm like, no, everything has to be perfect.
You know, I can't have one dissatisfied client. I can't have one negative review or I can't. Can't have this funnel breaking and this ad not working.
Everything must be perfect. And this insistence on perfection is what the pendulum uses to hijack your energy. Okay?
So the pendulum actually resonates at the frequency of anger, fear, shame, guilt, the lower energies. So if you have this scale of consciousness, anything below courage, courage is the neutral level. It resonates at pride.
It resonates at anger, shame, guilt. apathy and then it extracts the most energy at anger so society wants to keep you at anger because it can mobilize you and make you do things that after you do them you're like i don't know why the heck i did did that so if you look at mob mentality sometimes people get into mobs and do things where they can't justify why they did it.
And that's groupthink. It hijacks our consciousness. Your consciousness is hijacked and you do things that you don't know why you did it.
You become completely reactive because you have completely been absorbed by the influence of the pendulum, okay? So the number one reason a pendulum will prevent you from becoming your true self is because it convinces you that who you are truly and authentically is not good enough.
You have to be someone else. You have to be like the influences that you see. By the way, when someone gains the courage to be authentic and express their true selves, the pendulum has no choice but to put them at the top and they have other adherents.
They make them the star. Like for me, in my instance, I have created a pendulum and there are constructive pendulums and destructive ones, but this channel itself is an example of a pendulum where, you know, I have followers and people who follow this teaching, but I've only been able to do that because I have been authentic enough.
to present my content and walk my own path when you walk your own path for long enough the pendulum has no choice but to put you at the top and extract the energy of your adherence this is just the way of life like anything that you look at has a pendulum in operation you can never quite escape the the grasp of pendulums until you decide to retreat from society so the question is are you giving your energy to a constructive pendulum aka a pendulum that takes your energy and delivers you to your goal or are you giving it to a destructive pendulum a pendulum that takes your energy and then takes you away from your goals so for example there are certain groups where people gossip about stuff and it's a destructive pendulum because it doesn't quite get you to your goals and it just puts you in a more negative Like, you know, single moms who are super proud to talk about how they're single moms and they never want to get married and all men are shitty, right?
That's, I don't know why, that just came to the top of my mind. Or other gossip groups, right? Where men come together and, you know, talk shit about women and how evil they are.
Whatever it is, right? So these are all pendulums that may not serve you to where you want to get to. but then there are other constructive pendulums like business masterminds where you get in everyone gets into a mastermind and everyone's resonating at the same energy that forms a pendulum but it allows every single one of them to become more energized and get to the goal that they want to get to which is business success okay so How pendulums block you is when you start to want to express your true self, immediately you get shut down by some bully or someone else saying, ah, you can't be like that.
You have to be like me. Do as I do. That's the rule of the pendulum.
Copy me. When you copy me, you are not being authentic. You're not being who you were meant to be.
It's as simple as that. And the three words that you always have to watch out for is should, must, and have to, or need to. So what do people say?
I should get a job because... The thing I want to do will never pay. Pendulum convinced you of that.
I have to struggle for 40 years before I can finally live. I must become this kind of person to have what I want. And when you say these words, you come from a place of duty.
I dislike the word duty or coming from a place of duty because it implies that I do not want to do this. I have to do this. This is a duty.
I have to do this. But I can change my perspective to say, you know what? This may be something that I need to do right now, but I can still view it as something I genuinely want to do.
You see that? Now you're no longer resisting it and giving your resistance energy to the pendulum. Now you've let your guard down, become authentic, and you do it joyfully.
It doesn't matter what you do. It matters how you show up. I can make this video from a place of duty, like, oh, I have to make a video to make sure my sales team gets fed and we get enough leads and, you know, we get enough traffic on the channel and so my channel grows and so I make money.
Or I can be like, hey, okay, maybe I do need to make this video because I've committed to making one video, two videos a week. But what if I actually wanted to make this video? How would I make this video if I actually wanted to make this video?
What would I share in this video if I genuinely wanted to make this video? And now, because I'm focusing differently, I'm no longer resisting the pendulum. The pendulum can only feed on resistance energy.
When you fight the pendulum, you've lost. You have to refuse to play the pendulum's game. You basically suffocate the pendulum from swinging.
When you refuse to play its game and you say, no, no, no, I'm playing my own game. You can come in and try to interrupt, but I am playing my own game. And the main way to do that is to become hyper aware when should must haves.
Are running your life. So anytime I have a should must have I immediately wake up. That's the key Okay, you immediately wake up and you're like hold on.
This is what's happening. A pendulum is trying to hijack My thinking it's trying to make me do things that it wants me to do to extract my energy. I refuse I'm not playing that game.
I do this because I want to One of my clients, Neil, recently dealt with this when he was transitioning from his medical career to starting his own business. And he really, really struggled because his parents imposed their will on him.
And they were like, oh, you must do this. You have to do this. You should be a doctor.
You're a shame if you're not. But his heart wasn't in it. He didn't really want to do that.
He wanted to do his own coaching. After we helped him overcome that by waking up, taking control, and not letting guilt run his life but him being authentically himself now he has a successful coaching business now he's doing what he wants to do and he's and he enjoys it he's following the path that he wanted to follow and he's just gone gone from people pleasing and falling into his parents stories to doubling down on himself and living authentically when you live authentically you're going to achieve things that were once beyond your wildest dreams when you become who you're meant to be.
To have what you really want, you must first become who you were truly meant to be. Which brings me to the third principle, which is learning how to live with all gas and no brakes. The true key to shifting into your ideal self and who you're meant to be.
So let's get to that right now. The final principle. The most important one is learning how to shift into your ideal self But shifting into your ideal self is more of a dropping of your fake self because when you drop the fake When you when the clouds are removed the sun is free to shine forth.
Okay, so we're dropping the false conditioning and finally stepping into who we were meant to be so Oftentimes you're going to find that we hide Ourselves parts of ourselves that we're ashamed of and we waste time in doubts and hesitations. So what we do is we live with one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake we have so many clients who come in they're like hey i want to quit my job and gain freedom just like you did but intellectually they think about the money that they want to make and the freedom that they want but emotionally they're still stuck to ah i hate my job i want to get away from it they're not emotionally clear on why they truly want that freedom and what it would actually bring and they're not fully one with that they're still they still cannot get out of get away from this get away from this get away from this this sucks the debt sucks the money you know this the long work hours suck so their reality is that so there's a there's an incongruency between what they want and why they want it intellectual and emotional incongruency and because of that most people never ever move towards what they truly want
What there needs to be is full gas or full brakes, okay? To give you an example of this, when I started actually making $100 ,000 a month, I forgot this lesson, right? And I became very, very protective because this was the kind of money that I wasn't used to.
So I was very scared of taking risks and ruining it because deep down, I didn't feel like I deserved it. I didn't feel like I deserved making a million dollars a year because I was like, oh, I'm so young, you know? I literally, my first business that I tried...
I mean, the first business that I truly, truly tried became a massive success. I don't want to lose it. I love this.
I don't want to lose it. So now my intention is I want to grow it, but my intention is also I don't want to lose it. I have the gas on and the brakes on at the same time.
What do you think that does? That creates an internal incongruency. When thinking about growing it, my mentors were like, hey, you need to create an additional product.
And for years, they were telling me that. And I was like, no, no, no, I'm not going to do it until my business started to stagnate. We went from 100K a month to like 80K a month to even someone's doing 50K.
We never dropped below like a million a year, but it was fluctuating from 1 .1 to 1 .3 million a year. I was stagnant at that. Not a terrible place to be stuck at.
I know, but you still want to grow, right? You still want to play the game. You still want to grow.
If you're not growing, you die. So I was reluctant to create a new lower ticket product because I was like, Oh, what if this messes everything up? I had this irrational fear of it.
Like, I don't want to mess up something that's working. Let's just keep doing more of it, more of this. And so one day I just got so frustrated at having like the same thing happen in my business and stagnating and employee turnover because there wasn't any growth, right?
No one wants to work in a company that's just, just the same all the time. Like we're growing, we're moving forward. That's what's fun.
So I got sick and tired of it and I said, you know what? Fuck it, I'm gonna take this risk. I'm sick and tired of being stuck.
And typically that's how change happens, right? You get to a point of pain, deep pain. You're like, I'm sick and tired of this.
If I lose it all, fuck it, I lose it all. But I refuse to live like this. I refuse to live in protection mode.
I'm going to risk it. I'm going to be vulnerable. I'm going to finally drop my armor.
We launched the new product and right off the bat, like our first month was 100, fifty thousand hundred and eighty thousand dollar month and we started doing 200k a month and that was the first year the business actually broke past the 1 .3 million mark and we did 1 .7 million Right.
So it created a really good trajectory for us to grow. And I realized that I should have taken this risk two years ago. I was moving too slow because I was afraid.
And it's funny because a lot of the times business owners think they're lacking the right strategies and tactics. 99 % of the time, it's the limited mindset and perspective. They're holding on to something.
They're afraid of something. their fear is what's causing this some internal incongruency is causing what they're experiencing something they're holding to be true is causing the lack of growth that they're experiencing and i'm working very very closely with startup you know with a couple of startup founders who've raised like over 180 million right now and and what i'm noticing is the reason their business isn't getting the kind of traction that they want to see is because the partners aren't working congruently together the two partners are always clashing against each other right so there isn't a congruence and synergy in how they work and once they fix that I know it's going to take off because I gave them the analogy it's like if you watch premier league soccer there was a team Manchester United had a really great coach Sir Alex Ferguson who would take mediocre players make them work so well together and the team won championship after championship but then after he left the team had a lot of money because they won a lot of championships under him but after he retired
No one else was able to replicate that kind of success the team sucked and they started to bring in all these expensive really good players But these individuals were never the sum of the parts were never really greater than the whole working together in synergy So I told him like if you start if your whole team starts working synergistically together You're going to be like manchester united was back when they were winning championship after championship So this is the key, right?
This is the key that makes all the shift happen, the internal work. The external work is just a reflection. It's just an effect of the correct internal work.
So that's one thing I learned and the key I want you to take away from this is when are you living in protection? When you're making decisions, there's always two parts of you. When you're about to make a big critical decision, whether it be like making an investment in a program that you knew you had to or a business strategy or hiring someone key or quitting your job, Check in with yourself at that critical moment because you're going to notice one part of you is afraid and wants to retreat and another part of you knows this is the right thing to do.
Okay, this year, I actually spent the most I have on my business and personal development. So I'll pull it up over here. I shared this earlier with my email list.
I've spent over $240 ,000 on my personal development and investing in my business. And I've never spent that much in one year before. And every single time I made a decision to invest, I was actually afraid.
But I knew this was the right thing to do. And you know what? Not every single one of them has yielded a direct result yet.
But I know that down the line, one day, the lessons that I learned from it, I'm going to need. It's going to be reminders. My subconscious is still storing these memories, right?
So I say this because I made these decisions even though we had the worst Q2. of our business like it wasn't the worst ever but it was a really bad q2 compared to how good q1 was okay so and during that time we had a very big turnover in the business like everything was changing we had to you know let go of two people and then hire two new people and uh and everything you know and train them from scratch and so we were pretty much bleeding money and i've never seen that before in my business and so i was waking up every single day anxious in the middle of the night just cold sweats, like uncertain about the future.
And that's when I came to all of these realizations that, hey, this is just the game, but the game has now become too serious. And now I'm living in protection mode. This anxiety is telling me that I'm playing defense.
I'm closed off. And you can never receive if you're closed off. You can only receive if you're open, you're expansive and you take risks and you don't waste time in doubts and hesitation.
Doubt and hesitation is the biggest time waster. And even in the Bhagavad Gita, like there's a great saying on this. I can't remember right now, but I'll pull it.
up here. But doubts and hesitation are what's preventing you from experiencing the thing and receiving the thing that you want to receive that you know you deserve. And the only reason that's happening is because you're closed off.
You're not open. So one of the biggest lessons I learned, and I learned this from Brene Brown, is when you're confronted with a situation that is very, very uncomfortable, people have two reactions. They either puff up and try to be bigger than they are, or they shrink down.
Don't puff up. Don't shrink down. Drop your armor.
Allow yourself to be seen as you are. Be like a child. Allow yourself to be seen as you are.
Don't try to fake strength. Don't try to fake confidence. Don't try to, you know, don't try to play the victim either.
Just be in that moment. Get comfortable in losing. Get comfortable in the uncertainty.
Because most people, they try to hold on to certainty. If you live in certainty, you're going to experience what you have been experiencing. Begin living in uncertainty.
Take risks. Take leaps in your life. Walk uncharted terrains and you're going to see the kind of change that happens, the kind of growth that happens.
Always look for your next edge to take the leap off of, okay? It is an uncertainty that we find our true selves when we don't have mind -invented structures to hang on to. It's the structures of the ego that keep us stuck and little where we are.
But when we let go of our personal intention and unite it with the godly intention, the outer intention, and fate, we become... who we're meant to be. So to begin with, I want to share with you two success stories of ours that we've gotten last year of our customers.
Who's who've actually implemented the four pillars that I'm about to share with you right now. And the exercises, the exact exercises I will share with you and the 90 day protocol. So take a look at Mariam, Mariam.
had completely transformed her life. She was going through a really, really tough time last year, renting a room from a relative, waking up with a knot on her throat. And this was after the passing of her father.
She joined the program, completely changed her life, used this process of identity shifting to become a completely new person. And fast forward, she says, now I have my own beautiful home with my name on the deed, a thriving and successful business that I obtained licensing for in the most compliance heavy state, my own YouTube channel and school platform.
Lastly, I look and feel the. healthiest i've ever been in my life and i have an amazing support group she went from a really really tough time very deeply disturbing depressing time in her life and has completely turned it around imagine not being able to get up from bed in the morning and just do what you set out to do because you just feel so down you just feel so defeated by the world and then overcoming that it takes a big triumph of will it takes a complete identity shift and that's what Miriam was able to do and not only that as a result of doing this she started a brand new business that is now that's over the first six months has made around a hundred thousand, you know, around six figures.
We also have a client Shams who has completely transformed his life. And he went from being at 4k being overweight and his car detailing business, barely able to get by to within 12 months of implementing this, he scaled his income to $33 ,000 a month. And not only that he went from weighing 320 pounds to weighing 278 pounds and losing more.
He says, This 42 pound loss wasn't just about shedding weight. It was about gaining a new perspective on discipline and self care.
So in short, when we see transformations like this happening, it's because they have become a completely new person. Their identity has completely shifted. So with that, I'm really excited to share this with you that will allow you to make this shift happen.
So let's get started with pillar number one, awareness. So before you can make an identity shift, What needs to happen, the most fundamental thing that needs to happen is an unattachment from your current identity.
And the only way this can happen is by you stepping into the state of pure awareness that I am. Before you can say I am this, you must exist neutrally as I am. So awareness is always the very...
first step before we can make any kind of change the very first time i realized this was in my sophomore year of college when i was going through a very big heartbreak my very first big heartbreak and i remember this was around spring break of my sophomore year i just felt so depressed and i just felt these awful thoughts come up life -ending thoughts come up and I just couldn't live with myself and every time I would close my eyes I would feel this strong breaking sensation within my body as though I just I just felt hopeless and I didn't know anything at the time she was my world and all I knew was college and the girl I had a crush on and the girl you know I had this this fling with you know I never really talked about this before so it's kind of a raw topic for me to talk about but it was so far in the past I couldn't comfortably talk about it now that I've overcome it, I think.
Anyway, so long story short, what happened was I was at this very deep, dark moment in my life, but then I came across this book. called The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. And as I was reading this, it taught me about this concept of pain body attacks.
But more than that, it taught me about this concept of presence and how when we're not present to the moment, we become susceptible to pain body attacks. Our body just has these attacks that arise from the unconscious, things that we haven't dealt with, and it just hijacks our consciousness. So the key to overcoming that was to be in the moment and be in the now, to step away.
from the mind and its thoughts and the only way to do that is by Stepping into this state of the witness the watchful observer. Okay, and when I started to step into this watchful observer That's the only thing I shit you not.
That's the only thing that allowed me to break free from that toxic cycle I was going through. I remember I was on a drive to Montreal at the time with my parents and they were like, what's wrong? You seem really down.
And I couldn't tell them what was happening because, you know, I have Bangladeshi parents. They're very traditional. They wouldn't understand.
Like they would tell me, why are you focusing on women? Just go, go study, you know, like go get your college degree. So I couldn't really talk to anyone about this at the time.
So I was forced to deal with it on my own. And you know, when I started to begin watching these thoughts and not take so much ownership of why do I feel this way? I went from having those suicidal thoughts of, of, of life ending thoughts to these are just thoughts that are arising.
And that was the first time in my life. I had this realization that this, what was happening that I didn't choose is not me. This was not me.
This was simply just arising due to other external influences. Bodily egoic influences, but it doesn't have to be me and at that moment I realized that I could choose who I wanted to become so stepping into this true awareness But by first looking at myself rather than as myself was the most crucial thing So in order to make any kind of shift in your life to make an identity shift You can't do it with a full cup Your cup has to first be empty before you can fill it up consciously with what you want to fill it up with what most people do is they try to change who they are.
Trying to change who you are is the very definition of resistance. You're basically saying something is wrong with me. I must fight to change myself instead of accepting what was happening and you know, not unattaching from it and not taking ownership of it and saying, you know what, this is simply what's arising.
This is not me. Instead of trying to change who you are, you just ditch that old self and you choose who you would like to be instead, which is what I'm going to show you in pillar number two. But for this step, it is very, very crucial that you understand how to look at yourself from a third person perspective, instead of having such deep identification with your personal points of view, with your feelings, with your thoughts, with what's happening in the body, because this ultimately is not you.
You didn't choose everything. There's some parts of you you've chosen to construct. Other parts of you were just collected as you lived life and as you've had experiences.
Okay? So the crucial thing I want you to take away is before you can make any kind of shift, You must first empty your cup.
You cannot create a new identity when you're attached to your current identity So now i'm going to share with you a five step exercise a five question exercise that I want you to partake in right now And this will be in the guide that is attached right below this video You can just click on the link in the pinned comments to access that and let's get right to this five question exercise So the very purpose of this exercise is to become aware of the current self Okay.
We want to become aware of who is this version of me that exists right now that has been crafted. And in order to do that, we have to ask five simple questions. Number one, what habits do I have that are currently not serving me list three to five different habits that you find are not serving you anything that you do that you don't like procrastination.
You keep binging on junk food. You keep watching pornography or adult material that you don't want to watch or any kind of other habit you keep. You know, that is again procrastinating, putting things off till the last minute.
You keep getting angry and reacting. Whatever it is, these are just examples. You wake up late, etc.
List five habits that you have that are not serving you. Number two, what negative thoughts and feelings come up? Recurrently what negative thoughts have come up for you in a pattern in your life?
And this was very crucial for me to look at when I saw that depressing that that cycle of negative thoughts that came up for me That wasn't the first time I had those thoughts that event was just a trigger For those thoughts that have been lying latent within me to come up It showed me that that pain body attack was something that I was holding onto within my body from a very long time ago.
It might be even from previous lifetimes. Okay. But we want to get an awareness of what is happening.
This is very, very crucial. So list three to five negative thoughts and feelings you have noticed throughout your whole life. Number three, what qualities do I despise in other people?
Why you can list three to five. Look at qualities that you look at in other people that you absolutely despise. This might be people who brag too much, people who are lazy.
And chances are these are qualities that you despise within yourself. Why? Because you've grown up to believe these are negative qualities.
Someone has told you these are negative qualities, not aspirational qualities. And what happens is when we start to view it that way, it gets deeply stuffed down within our psyche and it becomes a shadow. And that shadow begins to live a life of its own until one day you have a quarter life crisis or a midlife crisis.
The pressure has built up so much. It starts to act out in psychosomatic ways, ways in which you wouldn't want it to act out. And it starts to affect your life.
okay so you must become aware of this now before it starts to haunt you in unconscious ways and as Carl Jung said until we make the unconscious conscious we will call it fate it will direct our life Okay, so what are the qualities that you despise in other people and why? Number four, what are some of the biggest mistakes this current self has made in the past that I regret?
What are some of the biggest mistakes or things or events that have happened, decisions that you made in the past that you still regret to this day? And again, I know this line of questioning seems negative, but you need to confront these demons before you can make any kind of change happen in your life. This is the number one thing we teach.
our clients how to do before they actually make a shift. We need to get to terms with this shadow self before we can make any kind of meaningful change happen. Okay.
And lastly, how do you cope with pain when you're going through pain and suffering? How do you escape it? What are your natural reactions to escaping it?
For me, I used to binge on sugary junk food. I would remember at the end of a workday. When I started my business, this was throughout the initial stages, at the end of the workday, to feel comfort, to feel that dopamine spike, I would sit down with like a big tub of ice cream or cookies and just turn on the TV and just eat my way into oblivion until I just felt so numb I couldn't do anything.
And then the next day I would feel horrible and I would berate myself after. It was like a very, it was a very, very toxic cycle. For you, what do you do?
Do you go on social media? Do you watch pornography? Do you, you know, maybe hit the vape or, you know, consume nicotine or, you know, smoke marijuana, like whatever it is, what do you do?
Just list that down honestly and truly and really look at it. This is going to be a very powerful exercise for you. It's going to be a big revelation for you because you're going to start to find things about yourself that you never knew and you didn't have this.
deep of a clarity on who this current self is. And so what we're doing is we're taking stuff out of our shadow and we're really looking at it. Okay.
We're really looking at this current self. And once you've done this, now you're ready. to make the shift into who you were meant to be.
And this is where pillar number two comes in. Pillar number two is clarity, defining your new self, the self that you have always dreamed of becoming, but it was always just one step ahead of you. You just couldn't reach it.
So let's get to doing that right now with pillar number two, clarity. So with clarity, Our goal is to get clear on who we want to become.
In 2025, this year, which version of myself do I want to embody? What you have to understand is within our whole psyche, the wholeness of our being, there exists multiple different personalities. There's the hero, the inner child, the inner parent, the shadow, the ego.
All of these personas, the anima, the animus, the female, the masculine, they all exist within us. But then sometimes there's an imbalance of one persona getting too strong. And it's typically the ego, the ego gets too strong.
And the other personas, they get stuffed down and it starts to haunt us in our lives. And Carl Jung always said, I would rather be whole than good. We believe that the ego is meant to be good because the ego is like, Oh, you know, fit into society, do the good thing, do the right thing.
It always tries to be good, but then it's always at the expense of your mental health and just wholeness in general. Okay. So the key here is to get clear on this new idea.
Identity who do you want to be moving forward? Because when we become who we're meant to be the doing naturally follows and the having ensues Okay, so to exemplify this I want to ask you do you remember a time? Maybe if you're old enough to drive or you have a license you've driven before being on the highway Driving in your lane and you look right next to you and you look at the lane right next to you and you see a car Just going and you just focus on avoiding that car next to you and the more you focus on avoiding it For some reason your steering wheel keeps moving towards that other car.
Isn't that crazy? Well that happens because we have this servo mechanism within us this target fixation We just move towards what we focus on life doesn't care about what we want or what we don't want.
It looks at the content of what we want and what we don't want. If we want more good things, we get more good things. If we don't want bad things, then we get bad things.
Do you see how that works? We get more of what we want, more of what we love and more of what we hate. Life doesn't care about the nature of our thoughts.
It cares about the purified content of it. And the more intensity we have in this nature, the more we love something. the more we get it.
The more we hate something, the more we get it. The intensity of our love and hatred is what brings that thing, the content, in abundance. So this is something you have to remember.
Now, why this is important is because we want to always have a clear picture of who we want to become, the ideal self that we want to become. And this becomes especially crucial in this 90 -day protocol that I'm going to share with you towards the end of this video, okay? So in order to have what we want, we must first become who?
We were meant to be but the formula for clarity is threefold. Okay, what? plus y plus who equals how plus when simple when you have intellectual clarity on what you want an emotional clarity why you want it and Identity level clarity on who you must become to achieve it when these three parts are congruent within you The how and when will naturally show up you will never have to even lift a finger For the how and when this is exactly what happened to me back in 2017, 2018, I had no clue what I wanted to do with my life.
I felt so lost. I was about to finish up my junior year around that time. You know, I just been to a summer internship at an engineering box plant and they offered me a really, really good job.
And they were like, okay, you get paid. 50 grand a year, health insurance, everything, secure job, everything a new graduate could ever dream of. It was right there for me.
But I remember going to that internship and just feeling so miserable and looking at my colleagues and they were trying to stick their arms in the machines to get workers comp and get out of there because it was just such a depressing environment to be in. And I remember journaling that time saying, is this it? Is this it for me?
Like, could this be my Fate there must be something more and I remember in august of 2018 or something. I I set a goal Of wanting to quit and starting my own business and making 20k a month august of I believe this is july actually july of 2018 I must have set this goal and I had no clue how that would happen Just a vague idea like maybe something to do with a youtube channel because i'd seen two of my friends at the time Making 10k a month with a youtube channel.
I just wanted financial freedom I wanted the freedom to do what I wanted when I wanted With whoever I wanted to be with my family my friends and just travel the world, right? I just wanted freedom that's one of my greatest values in life is just freedom of time and so I put that goal down not knowing what would happen and I focused every single day I visualized me being my ideal self waking up in a mansion in LA next to the woman of my dreams and I was single at the time having that red Ferrari I just visualized that every single night and I acted I pretended to be the person who would be worthy of achieving that.
I had the idea of starting up my YouTube channel at the end of 2017, December 31st, 2017. I started this YouTube channel and I published my very first video, Jan 1st, 2018. And then one thing after another just unfolded.
The how and when just showed itself. You know, I had someone reach out to me for coaching and back then I didn't even know coaching would be a viable option for all I knew I'd be selling merch on this channel. So everything just unfolded magically to the point where it led me from where I was to six, seven, seven years now later being here today.
having a business that generates multiple millions every single year, living in the house of my dreams, married to the woman of my dreams. I just had a son. Like I couldn't have imagined my life being like this today.
If you told me then that this is what my life would be like today, I would have laughed at you. I wouldn't have believed you. Right?
And this all happened because I was intellectually clear on what I wanted. I had a clear picture of what I wanted. I also knew why I wanted it.
That deep sense of, I want this time freedom. It feels so right for me. There's emotional clarity on it.
And also I was clear on who I wanted to be this version of myself that I would be when I'm effortlessly achieving that. okay what most people unfortunately do is they think they want one thing but then emotionally they're focused on something else they think they want the financial freedom but emotionally they're focused on getting away from their job and they keep focusing on who they currently are and reacting to this part of themselves this one point of part of themselves every single day like oh why am i like this why can't i quit These harmful toxic habits and then belittling themselves berating themselves not focusing on who they want to be, right?
Most people spend a lot of time very very much in the past they look at all of the mistakes they made in the past and regretting them all the failures and then blaming their current circumstances, blaming external world for where they are instead of focusing on what they would like to create in the next moment. The key feature that I've seen of all people who are wildly successful is they are visionaries.
They're always focused on creating the next moment. They're present and in the future instead of regretful people who regret the past and then blame the present. Reality creators are grateful for the present and are excited about the future.
I want you to write this down. Reality creators are grateful for the present moment and they're excited about what the future can bring. People who are slaves to their reality are regretful of the past and blame and are ungrateful for the present moment.
That's... Honestly a hallmark feature of what I've seen in these two types of people and so when you can fully get congruent Intellectually, I want this I want to quit my job and start my own business and have this kind of freedom This is what it would look like. I'd be making 20k a month.
That's where I'll be living etc This is what the picture looks like why I want it I want to experience that freedom and it feels so good to have that freedom Instead of focusing on what they don't want remember reality gives you more of what you want and more of what you don't want so when you confuse reality by picturing that freedom, but then Constantly thinking about your miserable job, then you've confused reality then reality will reflect that confusion to you You will move one step forward and then one step back Okay, and then finally this is the piece that most people miss is who must I become?
So now let's get to this piece because it's so intricate. I won't get to the what and why here because it's a lot more detailed. We do this with our clients in our program, but it's a lot more detailed and it just, even the who part is detailed, but I'm just going to give you everything you need now to make a shift and get immediate results with this.
So let's get to who, who must I become? So in order to understand who you must become, you simply need to ask yourself four questions. Number one, What are five habits your 2 .0 self has?
So understand that we're trying to create this picture of our ideal selves. Okay. So number one, what are the five habits that your ideal self would have?
Number two, how would your ideal self dress? Are there any distinguishing features? Like for me, my ideal self dresses simply wears a really nice wristwatch.
Um, that's somewhat expensive. Where's Comfortable clothing that fit very very well at nighttime.
He wears a blue light blocking. I wear glasses So for you, how does your ideal self dress? What's the hairstyle that your ideal self would have when you picture you being your ideal self?
Experiencing the what and experiencing the why who would you be? Write that down. How does this ideal self communicate with others in social settings?
How do you put yourself forward? Are you timid and shy or are you more confident? Are you more relaxed within your body?
How does this ideal self respond to challenges? This is a crucial one. So write down the answers to this.
We're just painting a picture of our ideal self. You can ask even more questions to get even clearer on who you would be. And the more clear you can get and the more creative you can get, the better it is.
Okay, so I want you to save these answers in the workbook Just just make sure you have it written down somewhere and now let's get to the next part So the final thing before we get to the next part, which will be creating The creation process, creating your ideal self step by step. The one key I would like to leave you off with in section number two clarity is define everything very, very clearly and in your daily life as you live it.
This is more of a dynamic exercise. Ask yourself, if I were my ideal self, what would I do and how would I do it? This is very crucial, especially when you're at turning points in your life.
A lot of the times my clients ask me questions about, Oh, quasi I'm presented with these two different options. Which one should I take? I asked them, if you were your ideal self, which option would the ideal self take more often than not?
It's always the most uncomfortable decision. It's never the comfortable one. Like, Oh, this is the most uncomfortable decision, but this is what my ideal self would do.
Well, then you have your answer cut out for you. Just ask yourself, what would your ideal self do? How would they show up here if you have a very important presentation to give if you have to create a video?
How would your ideal self show up to it? These are crucial questions to keep in mind before you execute on a task because that makes your intention which takes me to the next part the creation process how to step by step create this ideal self and Project your dream reality every single day and I can confidently say this process.
I've been doing again for the last eight years ever since i learned it and it's allowed me to systematically visualize my dream life into existence by the way before i get to the next part if you would like to work closer together with me and my team in our personal mentorship To have us handhold you through this process to create your ideal self in 2025 and make 2025 your year, just go to realitycreator .com slash apply to fill up a short application to work with us.
All you need to do is just fill it up. It's like a 10 question survey and you can schedule a free one -on -one consultation call to see if it would be a good fit. I'll get to more on that later, but I just wanted to announce this right now for those of you who are watching.
So now let's get to the creation part of this. Now, what I want you to understand is you can only create that which you already are. You can only create who you already are.
If you can't conceive of something, then it wasn't meant for you. If you can conceive of something, then it was meant for you. So what the creation process does is it utilizes a model of reality.
I like to call the film and script model. So how the film and script model of reality works is if we have this reality. And we have our current reality and these are potential outcomes in the in the quantum realm, right?
These are all one two three potential outcomes that can be manifested This is our current and these are different. These are different scripts the the path before it reaches this Particular frame of reality and we are in this current frame. So if you imagine a projector or a film reel There's different frames in this film reel currently One frame is being illuminated and that's why you're experiencing this current life.
This current frame is illuminated based on your thoughts and your feelings, your mind and your heart. Whatever your mind and heart are congruent in, this, this congruency, the what, why and who is what manifests this current reality. Your intellectual, your mind, heart and identity is what's manifesting your current reality.
Okay, now what dictates future realities to be manifested is also determined by what thoughts feelings and identity you project in the next moment, so this Projection is changed by two control functions It's affected by two control functions that we all possess and these two control functions are attention and intention So to create something we have to tap back into awareness and this is the magic of it.
This is how everything That we've learned just now so far how it all comes together and plays a part We have to first become empty with attention to create our new intention Okay, so the two control functions attention and intention that determines which script will play To manifest that frame that you want to experience a life line in which you're wealthy rich, a lifeline in which you're completely broke, a lifeline in which you're dead, a lifeline in which you are wealthier than you could have ever imagined.
And you have everything that you want. They all exist. These are all potential outcomes in the quantum space that is manifested by what, why, and who.
Okay. Most people, what they do is they focus on the actions, but the actions, if they're created from this current state of being, there's no point. It's kind of like a hamster running around in circles.
If you keep acting from your current state of consciousness, then you will keep manifesting your current state of consciousness. Nothing will change. Now, yes, you can take massive enough action that it completely shocks your psyche to change the what, why, and who, but why not just begin at the source?
Why not just begin with your character, with what, why, and who your internal world to create the external? Why do it? You know, the, the more erratic, the highest disturbance, the highest, the most imbalanced way.
Why not just do it the most efficient way? And that's what I want to show you here. So what we want to do, the very first step is we need to unattach from this current reality because this current reality already has a script in play.
Remember one script has led to this current reality. Okay. So if we assume for simplicity's sake, and I know this is getting a little bit complex, so I want you to bear with me.
If we assume that this script, this is the same script. That means the script that's running right now is leading you. To this frame.
So let's say in your current lifeline. You were at a nine -to -five job that you hate that gives you no freedom in your life This is the script that's playing that's led to this particular frame today. Well, if this script keeps playing then you are Likely to stay in this lifeline or in this script and the future frame will look somewhat similar to this You would just be older right?
It wouldn't be that much different if we want to go to a drastically different lifeline. We want to make a shift in lifelines some people Talk about this and call it the 5d or making a shift in timelines This is the same concept if we want to make a shift within lifelines to to move the railroad tracks to a new Lifeline a new intention has to come in a new script has to play but in order to play the new script We have to unattach from this current script and that's where attention comes in and this is the one exercise We encourage all of our we make it mandatory for our clients to do because it's the most powerful exercise you can do So the very first step you need to center your attention.
Why? I want you to think about this. Have you ever woken up in a dream and you were lucid dreaming and you realize you could control everything in the dream?
Why could you do that? Because you realize you're in dreaming. What would happen if the actors or the characters in a play all of a sudden just woke up?
They just woke up and they realized they were in a play. Well, none of it would be serious anymore, right? All of the conflict that they were facing, it wouldn't, it would just be.
meager it would just be just oh you know this is just a play happening it wouldn't be so personal all the problems in your life wouldn't be so personal it wouldn't feel like a life or death at every single moment what a liberating way to live wouldn't that be a great way to live if not every single event that happens gives you so much anxiety and just makes you feel like you're gonna die how great would that be you would be free And this is what the ancient yogis talked about.
They talked about ending this illusion of Maya. And how can you do that? By tapping into that reference point.
So in dream, if we wake up, reality is the reference point of waking up in a dream, right? This physical reality is the reference point of waking up in a dream. When we wake up in a dream, we wake up to reality.
What happens when I wake up in reality? What am I waking up to? That's what I want to talk to you about.
When we center our attention, We wake up to the highest possible reality the truth the oneness the I am okay, and the way to do that You can do this right now is when you unattach From anything that's happening internally and anything that you're so focused on externally if i'm very preoccupied with a task right now And it's just draining all of my attention.
It's it's absurd. I'm absorbed into this task If i'm in my head right now, and I just keep thinking thoughts i'm absorbed here. So typically There are two screens that we have that we get absorbed into this inner screen of thoughts and the outer screen of the world The key is to become between in to come in between two screens to have our attention in between these two screens That's when we can wake up.
We're neither on the outer screen or the inner screen, but we are watching both We are the watcher of both. We are the witness. We are that I am the yogis talked about this a long time ago They said this world came to be First, from nothingness.
Nothingness became aware of itself. Awareness became conscious and became localized. Consciousness became the mind.
There was movement within consciousness which caused mind. And then the mind created the body. And that's why the placebo effect exists.
Because the mind creates these illnesses, right? The mind creates the body. And so this is the cycle from nothingness to this physical world forming.
It's that... Nothingness, that awareness, that formlessness that created it all. And that's what we want to tap back into.
That's what people, you know, some people call God, the highest divine being that ever can be conceived of. So to tap into awareness, all you simply have to do is ask yourself three questions. Who am I?
Where am I? And what am I doing? So if right now I ask these questions, who am I?
I'm this character called quasi. Identify with this character as quasi, this body, this mind. Where am I?
Spatially, I'm aware that I'm in this room making this video. What am I doing making this video? Well now that I can see myself I see myself and I see my reality.
I've woken up It's the realization the realization is what wakes you up I can see, I can witness myself, this character in the third person. It's almost like I'm not it.
There is a pure witnessing and watching just like we did in awareness. And this is why it's so crucial because now this is a dynamic exercise to tab back into awareness and look at the character. So even now, as this video is being made, I see this character speak and make this video.
It's simply spontaneously coming out. And as you start to do this exercise, you're going to find that your eyes kind of light up and you get this new sense of energy. You know, it's almost like you're no longer resisting or being so deliberate.
Things are just flowing out and you're simply witnessing. There is a flow and a sense of ease in your life. That's what happens when you truly center your attention.
You unattach from the script. So now that we've unattached from the script by centering our attention, we have the choice. Which reality we want to create and so this is where intention comes in.
So the next part of this is to utilize Intention and so what you want to do from here is to begin Visualizing you ask yourself the three questions you unattach from everything and then you close your eyes and visualize for just 30 seconds at the very least about the next moment you want to create the next thing you would like to experience or it could be a goal far ahead in advance and what we do When we do that is we attune our thought energy attunes to the frequency of this target lifeline.
Okay. The script hasn't been put in place yet. We simply attune to this frame, that energy of this frame.
And as we do it enough, slowly, the shift happens slowly. There's a, there's a moving of this script to that script. And you'll start to notice like just little changes happening that are out of the ordinary in your reality.
You know, maybe Something will happen on your daily ride to work that will take you another way. Or maybe a mishap will happen.
Something crazy will happen. Maybe you'll get fired from your job and you're going to be like, oh my God, this is the worst thing in the world. But is it?
What if it was a blessing in disguise? By the way, all of our clients, whenever they join, we see this like all the time. By week three, week two, week three, they go through this tumultuous period.
Like, oh no, everything's falling apart. I don't know what to do. I'm so anxious.
I'm so nervous. This wasn't meant to happen. You know, I joined this program like I was supposed to get this, this and this.
It's part of the process. This has to happen. This is reality revitalizing itself so that you can move towards what you want.
For how do you know this wasn't God's will? How do you know that this is not what was meant to happen so that you could be delivered to this? Reality is cleaning up the mess so that you can move towards that.
All you need to do is keep persisting. And this is where most people fail because they make the intention, they begin visualizing what they want, like I did every single night before bed. And I had a ton of challenges, a ton of challenges come up.
When I quit, you know, I went all in my business and then my business was doing okay at the start. And then all of a sudden it plummeted. And my parents were like, what are you doing every single day?
You know, they were just hounding on me, especially my dad would be like, did you make a sale today? And I remember the month of May, 2019 was the worst month ever in business. And that was the month I was supposed to make 5k to prove to my parents that I can replace my job with my own income.
And I failed to do that because I made zero that month. Right. And I had a dark night of the soul.
that month, one night, and I just broke down in tears, crying on the floor, like just not knowing what to do. One of our clients recently came on, she had this exact same thing happen. And now she manifested her dream job remote so that she can work on our art.
But I remember every single day she would come on the call, be like quasi, I don't know what to do. Like, you know, I'm living at home with my parents and they keep hounding down on me. You know, I just, I joined the program.
I really wanted the shift to happen. It took her around eight, nine months. for her to magically find this new job, be able to move out and they're flying out.
They flew her out with this new job. It was obscene. You know, she came on the call.
She came back on our group calls one day after like eight, nine months. She's like, yeah, you know, I, everything shifted for me in my life. And it's crazy how that works.
You just, all you need to do is persist. Your mission is to just don't let the light die. Don't let the light die.
Keep it alive. Keep it burning. Keep the flame burning.
Just focus on what you want. It will come. Forget about the how.
Forget about the how and when. If nothing's going your way, then just assume this was meant to happen. Assume this was God's way of making it happen.
And that's exactly what will happen when you assume that. Okay? So this is the attention and intention exercise that will change your life.
One of our clients, Lars, used this. And within a few short months of working with us, he made his first ever $200 ,000 a month in his business. He's a chiropractor.
And he attributes his success. And by the way, he did this while working 70 % less. He attributes his success to this vision work, right?
To focusing on this ideal every single day and just persisting, persisting despite whatever happens. And that's, it's typically like all the time, whenever you make an intention, this is what happens before the shift actually happens. God seemingly messes everything up.
Nothing makes sense. You feel lost. You're going to feel lost in your life.
And you don't know why. You don't know why you feel this way. And everything seems to be in shambles.
Because that's when we become open to receiving. If everything were normal, we wouldn't be open. We'd be closed off.
Because we become comfortable. We never grow in comfort. It's in discomfort that we grow.
The Buddha said, life is suffering. Why? Because the very act of living is painful.
Without pain, we wouldn't be alive. When are you the most comfortable? When you're dead.
Not when you're alive. Think about it. Who is the most comfortable?
The dead. There is no pain. But when you're alive, there is pain.
And that's the beauty of life. That is one of the bittersweet joys of life, this pain. And that's how we grow.
There's growing pains. So now, finally, pillar number four. When you shift and create this new identity, when you focus on this goal with intention, you will find that you are becoming this ideal self every single day, okay?
But when these challenges come up, most people fail. Because they fall back to their old selves and their old patterns. So now it's crucial that you ground yourself in your new identity And this is where coordination comes in So the key to mastering coordination is to maintain your inner balance and have Cultivate what I like to call selective unattachment not detachment.
There is a very significant difference between detachment and unattachment. Detachment is an unconscious process.
We run away from whatever it is that we're struggling with. Unattachment is a choice. You choose to unattach yourself.
You choose to take a break. So when you do that, what happens is your thought energy doesn't become so concentrated and it doesn't create an imbalance in the field of nature. When our thought energy becomes obsessed with one target and one goal, that thing, the lifeline that we're chasing after, We do two things.
We established a reality that I really want this to the universe in terms of energy. It means I do not already have this because if you had it, you wouldn't want it so much. You would already assume it's done and that it's yours.
But the very fact that you keep thirsting for it, chasing after it, have you ever noticed how whatever you chase after your whole life just runs away from you? Anything you chase after, you're waiting for a deal to close a big deal to close. The more You keep thinking about it, the more you keep waiting for it, the more it seems like the other party keeps delaying.
Maybe you like a girl or a guy and you're waiting for a text and you keep thinking about them. The more you keep checking your phone, the more empty it seems. The more you keep wanting that job, the further it runs away from you.
Why? It's because of this thought energy. When thought energy becomes too concentrated, it does two things.
Number one, establishes the reality you're not worthy because you're assuming that it's not yours because you keep wanting it. I want means I do not have. I desire means I do not have.
The second thing it does is it creates an imbalance in the field of nature. And nature takes the path of least resistance to balance something out. So what I mean by that is, let's imagine gravitational potential energy.
Let's say I take this chalk from ground level up to here. What does it want to do? It wants to move to the lowest elevation.
Every time you raise something up, Newton's law of gravitation, you give it gravitational potential energy. When I drop it, It gets converted to kinetic energy.
This gravitational potential gets converted to kinetic energy This is an unstable equilibrium for this chalk because it wants to fall down. It's unstable up here It wants to grow to the most stable energetic state Just like that your thought energy wants to get to the most The the field of the universe wants to get to the most energetically stable state when you put so much importance and meaning on one goal And you make it your life's mission.
I will achieve this. I must have this. I will fight until I achieve this.
What happens is you give it too much meaning. You put it on a pedestal. Anything you put on a pedestal has no choice but to look down upon you.
And so when you create this imbalance in the field of nature with your thought energy, you create a thought potential. Nature wants to come in. To balance this and we don't really know how nature will balance it But most of the time it balances it out by taking the thing that you want away from you further and further So if you think about a man walking a tightrope for the first time on a very high precipice when that man looks down He's going to feel fear even with experienced tightrope walkers But if the tightrope were on the ground right or like a thin beam were on the ground and they were walking it they would just Stroll across it because hey, I can't fall but now all of a sudden when it's on a such a high precipice There's a lot more fear a lot more fear of death a fear of plunging into their own death, right?
So when this man is walking the tightrope or the beam the you know, wouldn't beam whatever you want to call it They feel a lot of fear and now what's interesting is when they cross to the other side Finally, they feel exhausted because a lot of their intention energy was getting sucked into creating this importance or feeding it to fear.
They were focused on don't fall, don't fall, don't fall. Instead of move to the other side, move to the other side. So when you feel drained in your daily life, it's mostly because you've been internally fighting demons.
You've been resisting your whole day. You, your body has been tight, right? You've been focusing on something that you don't want, that you want to avoid.
That's why you feel exhausted at the end of the day, or even in the middle of the day, you feel so fatigued. Your energy levels have been sucked by the fears, by the resistances, by holding onto that important thing. So what's the solution?
The solution to preventing this from happening is to maintain balance by lowering importance. So the question is, how do we lower importance? The most powerful method that I've been able to teach my clients of lowering importance, because most importance, you know, you can just say, oh, you know, just stop thinking about it.
What good does that do? You can stop, try to stop thinking about it, but the thoughts are never the problem. It's the feelings.
One feeling produces a thousand thoughts that try to justify the presence of that feeling. When you feel anxious, you're like, oh, okay, maybe I feel anxious because my check that I wanted didn't come in in the mail or whatever it is, right? Like you just invent things.
You try to justify why you feel anxious. So instead of trying to work with the thoughts, go straight into the body. But whatever you feel, and typically for most people, it's anywhere in the solar plexus region to the gut.
They feel this very constricted feeling in their gut. And there's a great book on this called Letting Go by David R. Hawkins.
He talks about this method of letting go, but how we like to do it with our clients is through a breathwork exercise. So whenever you feel a strong, tense feeling within your body, you are waiting for an outcome or anything. You simply breathe into that feeling.
You take a deep breath in through your nose and you imagine that feeling getting stronger and stronger. You're breathing into it and you're moving through it. And then you exhale it out into the world.
And you do this anywhere from, you know, three to 10 times or however long it takes. This is a method I like to call incremental surrender where surrendering it in increments. What you'll notice is when you take this deep breath, it has a relaxing feel to it, but then the fear comes back again because it still hasn't been fully dealt with.
So every time it comes in, feel into it. Feel grateful for it. Give it a mental embrace.
Thank you for existing. Thank you for coming up. The fact that it's coming up is actually a very good sign.
That means you're becoming conscious. You're not numb anymore. You're growing.
You're alive. Remember, to feel pain means to be alive. So when you feel this pain, you're alive.
You're growing. You're becoming your ideal self. The old is clearing itself out so that there is space.
For the new okay, this is the number one way to reduce importance three simple steps Locate where it is in your body breathe in into it with your nose Give it a mental embrace feel grateful for it. Exhale it out into the world Imagine that it flows out of you and into the world The other thing you could do is also when you exhale you could feel it circulate around your body.
The only issue is the energy is stagnant within our body, which blocks the flow of energy. Have you ever noticed when you feel anxiety, it kind of like comes up, but then it gets stopped. The energy gets blocked at the heart or the gut.
Like it just can't rise your energy meridians on flowing properly. That's what happens. So the one or two things you could do is either blow it out or just feel it circulate, feel it circulate around your body as though the channels are clearing up.
So now for your 90 day exercise, this 90 day protocol, I want you to use this journal every single day, this guy that we've created, look at it every single morning, and there's going to be a tracking sheet, a 90 day tracking sheet. I want you to look at it every morning and in the morning and look at who you were being and who you want to become.
Just notice a clear distinction between each. This is important. There has to be a separation between each, but spend a little bit more time focusing on who you want to be.
Okay. And remember, the keys for the day.
When you make your decisions, when you feel anxiety or when you want to center your attention, visualize these exercises, different trigger points during the day to use them. And at the end of the day at nighttime, I want you to come back to it and tick, do a tick on day one done. Okay.
At day two done. And then write your thoughts of how the day actually went. Just subjective thoughts on how the day went and a rating out of 10 on how you did.
This is going to be very, very crucial. And after that, what I would like for you to do is come back to this and create an accountability thread, like 90 day accountability thread, and then just copy and paste everything that you've written down for the end of the day, your end of day review here. And you can just keep commenting every single day for your own thread, for your own accountability thread.
And I'm really excited for you to take advantage of this and you'll be able to use this every single day. And I'm looking forward to your success. The first thing that you have to understand in order to reprogram your subconscious mind, is the self reprogramming cycle.
This is one of the first things that I had to fully understand for myself that allowed me to go from being that employee mindset, living paycheck to paycheck, and just being programmed by society to seek a job and thinking and believing that this was the only way for me to go to transitioning into an entrepreneur. Being responsible for my own income and actually being able to grow that to seven figures once I understood this I was able to completely reprogram myself Now there's three main parts to this three main levels to this.
So let's get started with it Initially, you'll notice that it begins with a thought it begins with an outgoing thought some stimulus is presented to you Which we can call a thought when someone says Now is a terrible time to make money. Now is a terrible time to start up an online business.
The economy is going through a downturn. It's a recession, blah, blah, blah. Now is a terrible time to buy a house.
There's inflation. The interest rates are really high. That's what the sheep say, right?
And we listen to it and we start to fear it and believe it. So what is it that takes that thought, a stimulus that we're presented with and turns it into an actual belief? That we hold to be true Here's where it gets interesting when a thought is met an outgoing thought is met with emotion or a feeling if you combine it Then it becomes a belief Let's take a moment to reflect on this when you have an incoming thought from your environment that says now is a terrible time to start up an online business because the economy is going through X, Y, and Z.
Therefore I should be, I should really hold on tightly to my money and you know, not take any risks right now. You start to feel fearful about it. You're very, very afraid of what could happen with the economy and you become very, very protective.
This emotion of fear in conjunction with the thought of the economy collapsing becomes a belief. You actually start to believe it. Our nervous system, can't tell between what's imagined and what's real.
If we feel it deep down in our nervous system, we start to really accept it to be real. Both the unconscious and the subconscious mind, our whole entire being accepts this as real. It accepts it to be reality.
We become identified with it. We question all of the beliefs that we have, except the ones that we hold to be true. The ones that we don't see the ones that we operate from the ones that are actual real convictions.
What's interesting though, is that a belief can still be changed. It's not too late for a belief to be changed as long as you can identify and be aware of beliefs or limiting beliefs that you're operating from. They have a potential to be changed.
Now let's talk about what happens to the rest of this cycle when it actually becomes a hypnotic unconscious rhythm and a way of living. Once you have this belief that The economy's in terrible condition.
It's a terrible time to start up an online business. There is something in your subconscious mind called the reticular activating system, the RAS. Once it's held to be a belief, once we have emotion and thought together operating as one, your RAS gets programmed to notice more instances of where this is true, where this belief is true.
So now you'll start to see Instances occurring in your life where you get more bills and you get more problems You attract more negative people who keep talking about how the economy is terrible and it starts to fuel this paranoia you start to notice more and more instances you get more and more of Confirmations and once we have confirmations The game is pretty much over this then becomes a conviction that this economy is doomed to collapse It fully becomes a hypnotic rhythm like Napoleon Hill would call it.
A hypnotic rhythm is something that we never questioned that we can't really break out of. And unfortunately for a lot of people, because they've lived a certain way and they've lived unconsciously a certain way, they've held certain convictions to be true and they can't break free from it. There is a clear mechanism that allows us to break free from this.
And in part two, I'm going to share this with you, but for part one, it is very, very important that you understand this. self reprogramming cycle and how it operates. To give you a concrete example of how I was able to use this to break out of that nine to five employee mindset.
Initially, I chose the thought that I wanted. of me being an entrepreneur, me being a great video maker. Then I started to feel what it would be like to be an entrepreneur, to be responsible for making money, making sales, and also making videos and these videos getting thousands and thousands of views.
And then I started to consciously look for confirmation of it, which is what I will show you in this next part. Once you start to consciously look for confirmations, you change the inner conversations that you were having with yourself, the stories that you were telling yourself, how you speak to yourself, dictates what reality you experience.
Because who's the closest to you? Who are we the most open to? And who do we listen to the most?
Someone outside? Or the stories that we tell ourselves every single day? So we need to change what default story and what default conversations are happening here.
How we speak to ourselves dictates what reality we experience. So this next part we have to understand is the affirmation confirmation cycle in order to break free of the hypnotic pattern. Remember before we talked about the three different levels through which we go through when it begins as a thought evolves into a belief.
And finally the nail in the coffin is when it becomes a conviction. The question becomes, how can we speak to ourselves in a way that can induce a permanent change in our lives.
I've been obsessed with getting a permanent change, not a temporary one. I've seen so many people, so many entrepreneurs that I've worked with who go through revenue rollercoasters. One month they do so much, you know, they do 50, 40, 80 K months and then the next month they go back down to 20, 10, zero.
They almost seem to self -sabotage. And I've always noticed that this happens because they have an internal baseline. In life, we don't get what we want.
We get what we're willing to tolerate. They're willing to tolerate that 10K a month. Their internal thermostat is set to 10K a month.
That's why they always return back to that no matter how high they go. It really has to do with the internal conversations that you have with yourself. I want you to think about people who are genuinely confident.
Do you think genuinely confident people go around telling themselves that they're confident? I'm a confident person. They don't have and puff their chests.
Like they're a confident person. They don't need to tell themselves they're confident. They've already accepted this as true.
Remember the conviction that we never questioned it. Just, I just am. I don't question it.
When you've become one with the thing. that you want to create in your life. The thing that you want to manifest in your life.
You act from that place. When I am acting from this place, there is no separation. I don't have to tell myself that I am that thing.
You have to tell yourself until you become that thing. And this is how we do it. The first part, how we get started with a new program, a new way of programming ourselves is with an affirmation.
A lot of you are very, very familiar with this, but We do it differently here because I've found that doing it this way, as opposed to another way makes it more effective. So whenever I tell myself something, I'm confident or in my instance, I'm a really good video maker.
Initially, when I started off making YouTube videos, I was extremely, extremely unconfident because back when I was in middle school, I used to make YouTube videos about guitar tutorials. And one day in a tutorial class, like where all your classmates gather around, someone showed the teacher, my YouTube videos, and they pulled it up on screen, like of me doing my guitar tutorials.
And I just remember being so embarrassed. You know, I just remember that feeling of humiliation and it kind of traumatized me. And then years later, around 10, 12 years later, I decided to start up my own YouTube channel.
And I remember that trauma and it blocking me. So then I crafted these affirmations where I was like, quasi is an amazing video maker. Uh, my video impacts thousands and thousands of people and just telling myself all of this every single day.
But when I told myself this every single day, it didn't really feel real. I didn't really feel like it was real because Why should I have to tell myself this?
Why should I have to look in the mirror and try to convince myself of something? Because the more you try to convince yourself of something, the more you're actually telling yourself subconsciously that it's not real, that there is a separation between where you are currently and where you want to go. If I have to convince myself of something, it's not really true.
Truth comes in realization in seeing something for what it is rather than trying to, you know, disillusion yourself, right? So I began with that affirmation, but what really grounded it into reality for me, what really programmed the RAS and reverse that cycle is when I grounded the affirmation in a confirmation.
Now I'm going to explain to you exactly what I mean by this. What an affirmation essentially does is it launches a new model of reality you want to experience because chances are the affirmation that you're saying is drastically different from what you would like to experience. In my instance, quasi is a good video maker.
When I started off my videos, I didn't think I was really a good video maker. I don't really believe it because I'm just trying to get comfortable making videos.
So I just told myself this and I launched a new reality. When you launch a new reality, your RAS starts to get programmed a little bit. You start to see instances of both mostly your insecurities, color, what you are seeing, what you're filtering for.
So you're going to see more and more instances in where you suck, your perfectionism kicks in and you're like, Oh, but I don't make videos like that influencer that I follow. And you start to size yourself up against others that you have seen. But what you have to understand is that's their day 100 and this is your day one.
So what's the point? What's the use in comparing? I promise you when I started, I was in this, the exact same shoes that you are in right now.
I remember looking at others and feeling, Oh my God, this is so overwhelming. How am I going to do this? How am I going to learn how to manage this many customers?
And you know, this many business assets, how am I going to learn how to do all of that? It will come with time. Remember you're running a marathon, but a marathon is run step by step, mile by mile, meter by meter.
That's how you run the marathon. You don't look at the end and you take it all in at once. So don't worry.
It's going to get there, but you need to be diligent and focus your mind. correctly. So you can move the fastest path towards that with an affirmation.
We launched this new reality, but now it's our mission to confirm and ground this reality, to be able to have that realization, to be able to see that this is true. One way in which we do that is we become biased, most successful people, all billionaires, people like Elon Musk, they have, they're kind of delusional. And I remember reading autobiographies of DaVinci Albert Einstein.
And I remember one distinct quality they all had in common. Everyone described Elon, especially his ex -wife, described Elon as, oh, Elon has his own world. We're just living in it.
His sense of reality is so strong, other people get drawn into it. In life, whoever's sense of reality is the strongest, everyone else gets drawn into it. Everything else gets drawn into it.
Whoever wants it less is ultimately who controls the frame. If you want to control the frame, you have to need it less, but also operate from that place of positive delusion that it has already happened, that this is your world.
How you do that is by stacking confirmations on one side. So in my particular example, when I made the intention to become a good video maker, I consciously looked at only the positive comments where people were saying, Oh, this video is amazing. This helped me so much while I really liked this.
And I blocked out all the negative comments, even though Noticing one or two negative comments really made me have that insecurity again that I had back in middle school I made a conscious decision to ignore it to accept it and ignore it this too has the right to exist, but I am choosing to Consciously ignore it and i'm choosing to look at all of the positive comments to ground my affirmation of, wow, I really am a good video maker.
Look at all of these views, look at all of these likes, look at all of these people saying that it was valuable, that it was helpful for them. And that gave me fuel to make more videos. So it can be very, very easy in your day -to -day life to get lost with all of the negative things and the negative stimulus.
When you look at the news, when you look at everything, you have to make a conscious choice to ignore them or just stop looking at them. I remember one of my mentors, he had tons of negative reviews and comments online. And I asked him, hey, how do you live with this?
Like if I had this many negative comments about me, I would probably kill myself. How do you do it? He's like, I never look at them.
I literally never look at them. I don't search my name online. I do none of that.
Because you never want to waste your time with that. People are going to say what they want to say. And the first sign of success is when you get hate.
If you're not getting hate, you're not successful enough. From that moment, I realized it really is where I'm attributing my energy. Because there's always going to be people who don't like what you're doing.
And that's a surefire sign that you're being polarizing enough that you're doing something right. And even when I make my videos, I get tons of negative comments. They always get pushed down to the bottom because I think YouTube likes to keep it positive, but I never look at them.
I just look at the positive ones and doing what I can do and serving how I can serve. And I'm not going to be perfect. And I often do look at negative comments just to see which ones are genuine and could potentially help me improve if there's a clear sign, but that's a different attitude and a different mentality I have.
Do you see how that's working? I'm looking at it from the place of how can I become better? How can I take this positively?
How can I spin this as an, as an advantage? Okay. So when you have an affirmation, you launch a new reality.
Now it's your choice in this new reality that you're launching to only look for the things that correspond to that affirmation by confirming them and affirmation launches a new reality. A confirmation grounds that new reality with realization. When you do it over time, you could see my channel.
I went from zero subscribers, pretty much zero views back in 2018 to now over half a million. And this will happen because of the inner conversations I was having with myself every single day. without fail.
Now, what I want to share with you is a different way to craft your affirmations because most people craft it in a particular tense, but I do it differently and I have done it differently. And we've helped over a thousand clients do this for themselves. And they've also seen that this has been a lot more effective than just crafting static affirmations.
What we want to do is craft dynamic affirmation. So One of the biggest problems I noticed was I was telling myself these affirmations and I didn't really believe them.
We solve that with confirmations, but also I noticed that the way I was telling myself these affirmations, I didn't quite believe them. Uh, but also it just didn't feel right. It didn't, it didn't resonate with me once I really, really studied, uh, physics.
this started to make a lot of sense to me and also a lot of ancient yoga teachings. And here's why one of the most fundamental laws of life is the law of impermanence as the Buddha would, would call it. But more than that, as the scientific term for it is the second law of thermodynamics, the law of entropy.
And it basically states that the chaos in any given system with time, it is always going to increase the entropy of any given system is going to increase. So if I spray Perfume in a room.
It's going to diffuse and spread out. It's not going to come back into the bottle It is going to take energy to bring it back into an orderly state. So life is in a constant state of chaos It is in a constant state of becoming Unfolding moving from one stage to the next it's in a process of chaos You might be asking why is this important quasi?
Well as entropy increases we can't stay static. We're always becoming someone different okay we're always evolving and improving who you were yesterday is not who you are today every single cell in your body is dying and rejuvenating who you are today is not going to be who you are tomorrow and this character not only changes with time it also changes with situation some of my friends listen to my sales calls they're like oh my god you're a completely different person there then they listen to my videos they're like oh my god you're a completely different person here and then when they meet me in person they get they're shocked because they're like oh my god you're a completely different person You have to have many different sides to you.
This is how the ego is. Most people think an ego is bad, but the ego is like your shadow. You need it to function in your, in this material world.
And if your ego is not moldable, you become attached to one way of being. And you say, this is just how I am. This is how I've always been.
You're going to keep experiencing the same reality over and over again. What we experience is a direct result of who we are, what identity we're embodying, what character we're embodying at this point in our lives. I am one way with my parents.
I am one way with my wife. I am one way with my clients. I am one way when I'm making videos.
I'm a different person doing all of these different things. If you look at my videos, I even spoke differently, right? So I'm evolving and improving.
Maybe to some of you or someone watching, it may not be improving. But to me, I wholeheartedly believe that I am being what's necessary of me to be based on what I want to accomplish. Our identity is always molded by the goal that we set.
In Psycho -Cybernetics, Maxwell Maltz talks about this. He talks about the servomechanism. When we focus our mind on a goal, everything else gets taken care of.
It's kind of like performing a sport. If you're thinking about throwing darts, the only thing you're thinking about is throwing it to the target. You're not thinking about individual movements of your arm.
You're simply just focusing on the target just like that. When you are trying to manifest the goal. focus on the target, focus on the goal and really hold the goal top of mind and everything else, who you need to be to achieve the goal.
It will all get taken care of. You don't need to worry about that. So when I learned this lesson that I must be dynamic in my identity, it completely changed everything for me.
And this is where I learned the importance of doing first person affirmations, where you say, I am this and I am that versus third person affirmations. And I started to do affirmations in the third person.
For example, instead of saying I am a good video maker, I say quasi is an amazing video maker. And I look at quasi as this temporary character that I'm embodying. You might be asking why.
Two main reasons. Number one, life is constantly unfolding and becoming. So I will not be the same person when I craft a different affirmation and every single belief that we hold to be true right now will eventually become a limiting belief.
For example, if I say quasi is very capable and makes a hundred grand a month, what's going to happen when I want to make 200 grand a month, if I were to say, I am making a hundred. counter K a month, I would become really, really identified to being the quasi that only makes a hundred K month. It becomes a limitation.
Every single belief will eventually become a limiting belief. This is why you have to be always, always ready to ditch the mask that you're wearing right now to take on a new mask. Or when you're ready to end it all and just become enlightened, you take off all the masks altogether.
It's a game of masks. Okay. I realized for me, it was a lot easier to dynamically grow at different stages in my life, different stages in my business.
When I started to do third person affirmations, I started to really see that at this point in my life, I am embodying a character. This is the character that I'm being, but beyond this character, I realize who I am. That's where we get into something very, very profound.
The I am cannot have a definition. If I say I am this, I immediately create bondage. I immediately create attachment and I immediately create limitation.
Therefore the I am is not constrained to anything. There is that awareness, that sense of beingness behind it, or the sense of witness behind it all. This witness is choosing consciously to embody an identity, to function in this material world and do what's necessary.
True freedom in life is not being able to do what you want and when you want true freedom in life. is being able to do what's necessary in any given moment in a joyful manner. I can do anything that's necessary of me, something that I don't like.
I will do it joyfully. Something that I don't enjoy. That's brutal in terrible conditions.
I'm not going to be like, ah, you know, I don't want to do that. I don't like it. I'm not going to be a diva about it.
I just simply show up and do it happily. But the reason I can do that is because I'm beyond identity. And that's what I want to be possible for you.
Once you go beyond identity, embodying an identity becomes very, very simple. but you need to learn how to go beyond it first, eliminating this, this attachment to I am this, and I am that instead quasi is this at this stage in his life. And you realize that this is who I'm choosing to embody at this stage in my life.
This dynamic identity allows you to become moldable. We want to become moldable and adaptable, not static. We want to become dynamic as life is always changing.
And if you don't change with it, you're gonna get left behind. Now, the other thing that I noticed was super, super important was crafting these affirmations in a present continuous tense, because again, life is changing.
There is chaos. There is entropy. So we want to craft these affirmations in a present continuous tense quasi easily generates a hundred thousand dollars a month quasi gets hundreds of thousands of views on his videos, not quasi got, but quasi gets quasi attracts.
clients with ease. Do you see what's happening here? This is a present continuous tense.
Everything is evolving and unfolding. It's simply spontaneously happening. Here are the three keys that I'm going to leave you off with that I want you to implement right now to create powerful affirmations and use confirmations for yourself.
Number one, pick four areas of your life and create two affirmations, a four by two method. So the four areas are health, wealth, relationships and spirituality.
You're going to craft two affirmations for each two for health, two for wealth, two for relationships and two for spirituality. Put it on one piece of paper, all of these eight affirmations and put it right next to your bed and read it every morning and every night before bed. Why?
Because this is the most Susceptible time for you to reprogram your subconscious because right as you wake up as soon as you wake up Your subconscious is the most receptive right before you're falling asleep your subconscious mind is the most receptive.
There's a reason why Neville got our talks about visualizing your ideal scene, your wish fulfilled as you fall asleep. We're most likely to impress our subconscious mind and make these impressions at those two particular times. And I've been doing this for the last four years.
Okay. The second thing you want to do is write these affirmations in the present continuous. for obvious reasons that we just discussed.
And finally, you want to write them in the third person morning and night, you read these affirmations, you launch the new design. And what I want you to do at the end of the day, this is just for nighttime or even throughout the day, notice anything that corresponds to these affirmations. If you set a goal to become more of an attractive person and you know, someone of the opposite sex looks at you longer, than usual and shows interest.
Treat that as a confirmation, give yourself an internal confirmation that, Oh, look, this is coming true. I am an attractive person. Look for evidence, make it your mission throughout the day and at nighttime to keep some sort of a journal for confirmations.
I keep a confirmation journal and I notice all of the things that have happened that correspond to who I've decided to become, who I've, who I'm trying to program myself to be. This is very, very important. I would argue this is more important than writing and saying the affirmation to yourself.
Okay. So now do you remember when I mentioned that the most powerful way to become that person you want to be programming yourself correctly is to have a clear picture, a target in your mind. The best way to do that is through visualizing, but most people don't know how to correctly visualize.
I want to share with you an advanced visualization. tactic. And specifically what I want to share with you is one of the most powerful visualization techniques, actually three of the most powerful visualization techniques that allowed me in 2019 to quit my soul sucking corporate job, to stop my own business.
Uh, that actually grants me time. money freedom and actually being able to scale it by the end of 2020 to having my first million dollar year to a lot of people on the outside it appeared like it happened very very fast but i know the internal shifts that needed to happen in order for that dream to actually come to life to solidify into reality but what a lot of people didn't know is that i actually had a very specific protocol for visualization which i teach my private clients on how to achieve any goal especially our entrepreneur client, Haruk.
you know, increase your income or shift to a different life path than the one you are at. So for me, it was quitting that soul sucking corporate job and starting my own business and actually being able to scale it to the level that I wanted to so that I can work less and enjoy what I was doing. And in today's video, I will leave no stone unturned.
You're going to get the three step system that we teach our private clients. And I hope that you can use it to get results of your own. So please pay attention to this video because this is going to be comprehensive.
We're going to go deep into the actual nitty gritty tactics, and I'm going to give you step -by -step implementable tools that you can use. So with that, let's get started with the very first. visualization protocol, which is visualizing the goal.
So before I get deep into visualizing the goal, we have to understand why visualization is so powerful. There's a talk of many different techniques, you know, people do tons of different techniques, ho 'oponopono, affirmations, certain kinds of visualization, but I found this one way of visualizing to be the most effective after having tried out a myriad of different techniques.
I've been in this and just on my journey for over the last decade, and I've started to notice that there's a lot of good things and a lot of things that don't really work and i'm not saying it to knock on any kind of technique or method but what i'm really saying is you need to stop focusing on techniques and start focusing on principles a technique is a hack it's a manipulation to try and get you something that you want typically when someone is implementing a technique they're doing it from a deep place of scarcity and trying to fill that void but the place of being that it's coming from is that place of scarcity like i'm in scarcity and i want to do this hack to get out of scarcity that doesn't work you have to truly embody those qualities first so why visualization has been the most effective for me personally in our clients is because if you look at the sense organs the sense perceptions 80 of our sense perception is what sight when someone loses their sight every single other sense gets heightened okay so we have a sight
is so so important what we see the vision is so so important one of our clients Lars actually used this and he scaled his chiropractic business from you know barely doing seven figures to doing over 200 K a month and having a record month within six short months of working with us. Why was he able to do this vision work?
He attributes it all to vision work. What vision work does is it allows you to do two things. It allows you to shift to a different lifeline than the one you were at.
In my instance, going from that lifeline of where I was destined to a corporate job. retiring at 65 in a job that I hate it to the lifeline of where I actually have a successful business that gives me time and money freedom I can travel the world I can hang out with my family I can hang out with my wife and my kid and basically you know not be stressed all the time so that is the big difference so that the second part to this is movement along the lifeline Okay, so speeding up movement along this lifeline.
It's one thing to shift to a different lifeline. It's another thing to speed up the movement along this lifeline. So those are the two things you're going to get and you're going to learn how to do.
The second part to this is understanding that core principle of why visualization works or why any technique works. If you look at affirmation, if you look at meditation, if you look at any kind of goal manifestation technique, visualization too falls under this bucket. The key principle that makes all of these techniques work.
is what? Just think about it. It's the unity in heart and mind.
It's the coherence in your left and right hemispheres of your brain. It's the bringing together of the logical and the creative part of you. It's the coming together of the yin and the yang.
It is the coming together of the scientist and the artist, right? So the key thing we're looking for is unity of heart and mind. Why is that so important?
Because the heart is like the source of power. but it's unbridled uncontrolled source of power the mind is like the the valleys that direct that power so if i move a million inches in a million different directions i'm not going to make any progress if i move a million inches in one direction i'm going to make a million fold progress than in the former instance right so that's where the mind comes in the mind gives a direction The heart actually provides the source of fuel.
So I also liken it to valley and the water, the river, right? The heart is the river. The mind is the valley and it directs it to the particular goal that you would like to manifest.
So. And understanding that, that we need unity of heart and mind, the question becomes, how do we activate that? Well, in thought and feeling, when you direct your thought to a particular image that you'd like to manifest and you feel those associated feelings that you would feel once it has become manifest.
Okay. So now that we understand these two prerequisites, let's get to the three tactics, the three methods of visualization. And I promise you, if you diligently apply this, your life.
won't be the same. So the very first part of this, the most important part of this is visualizing the goal. Okay.
So you want to visualize the goal. What does that mean? well the problem with visualizing is many people have many different ideas of what visualizing is what you should visualize some people say oh you know you should only visualize the final thing or you should only visualize how you're performing as you're doing it like sports psychologists talk about this you should visualize as you're taking the shot and doing you know it's more scientific it's more research proven but what's the right way to visualize the right way is a combination of all of those ways Okay, so the right answer always lies in the combination of different ideologies.
So now in understanding that, what's the biggest problem with this? Well, the biggest problem with this, the reason why people never achieve results with visualization or any other kind of technique is 50 % or more of the time we are focused on our current circumstances. Okay.
So you're focused on what's going wrong in your reality, what's not going right. So if you want to manifest something that's very different from what it is you're trying to manifest, let's say you're trying to increase your business income or just income in general, right? You're trying to be a successful trader.
You're trying to see trades go well. Maybe you're trying to publish a book, getting a book out there, but then you keep focusing on all of the reasons why you can't do it. right you keep focusing on all of the reasons why you're a failure and all of the things that have happened in the past that have proven that you're a failure and you keep looking at that evidence more and more right if you want to increase your income now you keep checking your bank account the moment you check it's like medusa you turn to stone the moment you look at you peek and look at the reflection what is currently you're getting further and further away from what is wanted So our external current circumstances are a distraction for what we want to create in the next moment.
Please, I want you to remember that. The more you keep looking at your current circumstances, waiting for the goal to materialize, subconsciously, you're only establishing the lack thereof. You're only establishing the lack.
You're basically saying, oh, why hasn't it happened? Why hasn't it happened yet? I keep doing the right things.
Why am I not making progress? Shit. it's not working so you keep establishing to reality that it's not working in that manner most of the time we are very realistic but if you look at the most successful people in the world they're what they have this reality distortion field their vision is so strong for what they want to create they don't care about what's going on right now they only care about what they want to move towards some of the greatest minds that have ever existed like steve jobs right he had this grand vision for what he wanted to make apple so that's one thing you have to keep in mind is how much time is it 50 or more of the time am i focusing on my current state of things or am i focusing on what is desired and what is wanted all you need to do is 51 or more of the time focus on your desired reality forward movement will happen that's it that's something very important to remember because this is the biggest problem we keep focusing on what we don't want that's why you keep moving two step forward and two steps back okay now what does
visualizing the goal do and what is visualizing the goal you may wonder well visualizing the goal is simply focusing on the goal as though it is already manifested what does life look like once the goal has been manifest that's it everything that you've ever wanted if had if it has come to life what does life look like what does it feel like okay so i'll give you an example when i was about to, so let's say in 2017, 2018, when I read books like Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, I read Outwitting the Devil and all of those books, learning about visualization taught me that I have to focus on what life looks like once the goal has been manifest.
So when I was in college and I was destined to the lifeline of working a corporate job and then retiring only to then being able to enjoy my life, that's when my life begins at 65 when I can do what I want. I visualized every single night waking up in a mansion in LA next to the woman of my dreams with everything that I've ever wanted.
And I have a red Ferrari and I drive off into town, right? That's what I visualized every single night. That is me visualizing the goal.
That's me. If I've had everything that I've ever wanted. What does a day in that life look like?
So I visualized a day in that life. I would wake up next to the partner of my dreams. I would go down my spiral staircase and I would have these big double doors and I would look to my right and you know, there's my car, but I forgot the keys to my car.
And then my wife or girlfriend at the time, you know, my partner throws me the keys and I drive off into town, right? That's what I visualized every single night until I actually became wealthy. So That's what visualizing the goal is you're visualizing the final destination after you've achieved everything and Again, a lot of people think okay, but I don't know how I'm gonna get there.
Totally fine. Don't even fucking worry about that Don't worry about how you're going to get what you're going to get.
Because I didn't know how I was going to become wealthy and amass all that wealth. I didn't know what I was doing for work. Those parts were unclear.
So stop focusing on what's not immediately clear to you. What is clear to you is all of those things that you want. Allow yourself to be a kid in the playground and just daydream, okay?
Visualizing the goal is almost akin to daydreaming. You're giving yourself permission to have anything that you want in the store without worrying about how much money is in your wallet. That's it.
okay you can have everything you're simply placing the order so now in understanding that what does visualizing the goal even do if we look at the quantum space if we look at the quantum field and we wonder what does visualizing the goal even do well this is what it does it makes a shift in the lifeline Goal visualization causes a shift in lifelines.
When your heart and mind are congruent, you have a shift in lifeline. So for example, if you look at this, and this is a chain of different possible realities, different sectors of realities that can be manifested. Let's say I was on this current trajectory of, you know, going the nine to five route, the corporate job route, something that I hated, I would feel burnt out eventually.
So this is my current. And I'm naturally following this nine to five path, right? Well, on this other path is maybe me not even having a job, being even worse off than that, right?
No job. And maybe on this right -hand side is my ideal, which is becoming a millionaire entrepreneur.
Well, when we visualize the goal, the more we visualize the goal, Let's say this is my goal of becoming an entrepreneur the more I cause a shift in lifelines Okay, I'm moving from this current lifeline or life path to this life path. Okay, it's as simple as that Once we have a shift in lifelines, there is a possibility for this goal to become manifest When I'm shifting from my current So my thought energy currently has been conditioned by my past what I grew up with my parents are immigrants.
They always taught me the importance of working hard. I always believed I needed to work harder than the average person, the average Western person, because I wasn't as privileged, you know, I was a minority and I would need to, you know, push myself and, and assert myself.
That's what I was taught. I need to work harder than everyone else to achieve the same level of success, right? Because I was taught that the, my thought energy corresponds to, it attunes to that sector of reality.
Whereas there are others who believe they don't need to work as hard. right they've been taught you don't need to work as hard it will come effortlessly if you you know just if you just don't have resistance if you do the right things i didn't have that i had massive action mentality If you want something that you want in life, you have to fight for it.
You have to battle. That was my upbringing. That was my identity.
And so my thought energy naturally corresponded to that. I was just supposed to be grateful for having this nine to five job, which again, incredibly grateful that I was able to get a full -time job, right? But it's not what I wanted.
It's not what was meant for me. What was meant for me was that life of freedom. I value freedom over anything else, freedom over my time, over anything else.
And so I wanted to become an entrepreneur because that's what I felt would be the right way for me to achieve what I wanted. So I just visualized that. I visualized becoming some kind of entrepreneur and waking up at my mansion in LA and having all of those things that I wanted.
And guess what? That's what started to happen. That's the lifeline I started to move towards.
And then I, within two short years of visualizing this, I made my first million dollars. Right. So in visualizing the goal, there are three main things you need to focus on.
Three main keys. Number one, you want to visualize what it looks like after the goal has been achieved. So after achievement.
Number two. You have to focus on different scenes because you'll grow tired of that same scene. So one of the scenes that I had was waking up in the mansion in LA, but I focused on after I've achieved this, what are some other scenes that I could have?
Well, I was at the coffee shop with my friends. I was taking a cruise with my family and I was able to bring all of them because I could afford to do that. You know, so multiple scenes.
Because remember, you're creating your own world. Visualize multiple scenes. And another important part to this is timing, when you visualize.
And I would do this every night before bed. Kind of like Neville Goddard talked about, the feeling of the wish fulfilled. Visualizing before bed, right as you fall asleep.
Why? Because right around that time, five minutes before you fall asleep, when you become very, very drowsy, you reach this brainwave state called alpha brainwave. Okay?
You have... an abundance of alpha brainwaves. Your brainwaves slow down from beta to alpha.
Alpha is the bridge between the conscious and the unconscious, the subconscious. Okay. So when we get to those alpha brainwave states, it's much easier to program new ideas to impress the subconscious mind, which then goes into the unconscious, which controls over 95 % of a whole being.
Okay. So you want to visualize that night.
I guess there are four things now. The third thing is you want to visualize who. Who it is that's experiencing that.
So you get a feel for who you're being once you're achieving this goal. So visualizing the identity or the person. Why?
Why is it so important? Well, remember, we talked about the heart and the mind. What why and who if we get what why and who congruent the how and when or show itself So for a lot of you who are watching this right now Maybe you feel like you are going in a life path that you don't want.
You know very clearly what you don't want, but you don't know what you do want. You're unclear. You're lacking clarity.
Well, that clarity will come to you just like it did to me. Once you just give yourself permission to visualize the goal. Well, what was the outcome of me visualizing this goal of waking up in LA and like having all those things that I wanted?
I met two people in college, two of my friends in college who were YouTubers. And they were making 10, 20 K a month back when you were 19, 20, you're making 20 K a month. You're practically a millionaire, right?
So he was, they were doing that. And I was like, Oh, I feel called to start a YouTube channel mind. You had no idea how to monetize that YouTube channel.
So in 2018, you can even go back to like, if you go to my channel and go to oldest, you'll see my oldest video. It's still there. I didn't delete it.
Okay. You can see how the evolution happened. And.
This is kind of emotional talking about this. It was a completely different lifeline that I was in But I just started the YouTube channel and I started to make videos and I started to share what I'm learning Because I was super passionate about this stuff and I still am but I was like obsessed Completely obsessed with this and I just wanted to share right?
And for all I knew, I would maybe monetize by selling merch, selling notebooks or whatever. Never in a million years did I think I could do coaching, right? I just didn't think it was possible.
I didn't think it was for me. But then another, as I kept visualizing this, another synchronicity happened. Someone actually reached out to pay me for coaching.
She was like, I'll pay you $300 for email coaching. I was like, wow, I didn't even know this was possible. Oh my God.
Coaching is right up my alley. I love coaching people. I love seeing transformations and results.
This is for me. This is a hundred percent for me. I've always loved teaching.
I literally have a fucking chalkboard. Like guys, I have, I'm teaching with a chalkboard. Like who the fuck does that?
You know? So it was, it was for me that this is my unique path in life. I wasn't trying to copy someone or be someone else.
This is literally what I wanted to do. This is the path that I wanted to walk. So you have to find that out for yourself.
And the only way you do that is by starting at the end. You begin at the end and then you will reverse engineer and find the way to get there. Your subconscious mind will fill up those gaps because what, why, and who makes the how and when manifest.
Okay. So these are the three keys I want you to focus on. What does life look like after you've achieved the goal?
focus on multiple scenes at nighttime. Okay. One night you focus on one scene, another night you focus on another scene and you focus on the thought feeling combination, the heart and mind conjunction.
And you focus on the identity, the version of yourself that you are being, the qualities that you're embodying in those visions. Okay. So now let's get to the next part, the true workhorse of goal achievement.
which shows you how to move along the lifelines. And that is learning how to visualize the process. Before I get to that, I wanted to let you know that you can access our exclusive email list.
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All you need to do is go to realitycreated .com slash list and you'll be able to access the identity shifting bootcamp, which will show you how to fundamentally shift your identity so you can experience a brand new reality, the reality you would like to experience. So now let's get to process visualization, the second part.
So now we're going to be talking about something that is Very, very important. And most people don't even know this.
Most gurus you see, they'll actually tell you not to focus on this, which I think is complete bullshit because this is one of the fastest ways to create your reality. But people are just too afraid of it because they don't know how to correctly visualize the process. So in visualizing the process, this is quite contrary to what we talked about.
So I'm going to say this with a disclaimer and I'll explain what the disclaimer is. We're actually focusing on the how. Oh, scary.
Don't focus on the how. Sit on your couch and visualize all day. No, we're focusing on the how.
Why and how are we focusing on the how? So remember we talked about shifting lifelines. So now you have a different end destination once a lifeline shift has occurred.
Now we want to focus on speeding up the flow along this lifeline. So remember how I visualize the end goal. So for a lot of you who are unclear about the watch that will get you there, you're not fully clear about, you know, how you're going to achieve all of those things that you talked about.
For example, I always, I use this example of our client here. She was working two jobs, 80 hours a week. She just focused on what she wanted.
She had 300 K in student loan debt. She just focused on what she wanted. And guys, when you're in a situation like that, I just want you to think about how difficult it is to actually be conscious, to change your reality.
You're working 80 hours a week. You have a family. You have two kids.
She had two kids. She has two kids. She has a husband, but she still changed the reality.
She became a 40K a month business owner. She went from working two full -time jobs to starting her own business in speech pathology, 40K a month, and paying off 300K in student loan debt. And all of her assets are now worth a million dollars combined, right?
And now she gets to spend more time with her family. How does a shift like that happen? Well, when you ignore your current circumstances.
When you stop focusing so much on the reflection and focus more on the vision. Stop focusing on the current reflection. Focus on the image that you want to present in the mirror of what you want to create.
But how does this happen? She focused on the end goal until God, the universe, presented her with an opportunity. Okay?
God presented her with an opportunity to quit one of the jobs. She had an intuitive insight to quit one of the jobs. And as soon as she did, The second job, the one that she was working, she got a raise there.
And so when she got a raise, she was able to cut down her hours and eventually quit that to starting her own business. So when you focus on the goal, God will give you insights into the process that will lead you there. You're going to start seeing synchronicities.
You're going to start getting a calling. Just like for me, I got the insight to start a YouTube channel. And what did I do when I got that insight?
I visualize the process of becoming a good video maker. I visualize making great videos every time I made videos. And I still do this even to this day.
Before I take any kind of action, I visualize doing that action successfully. If I'm starting a marketing campaign, I visualize succeeding at that marketing campaign. I visualize succeeding in what I'm doing.
Okay? So that's... The part where sports psychologists talk about, you know, when you're shooting your free throws, visualize shooting it correctly and making and having that swish and, you know, hearing it go in the bucket.
That's what they're talking about. That's what we're doing here. You're visualizing the actions itself.
And guess what? When you keep visualizing the process, you keep visualizing becoming a great leader. You visualize becoming a great salesperson, a great marketer.
What happens? All of those visualizations get connected to the final goal. We're paving the pathway towards achieving that final goal, okay?
So visualizing the process is simply focusing on what you do know now. We're not searching for what we don't know. We're just focusing on what we do know.
So if you're focusing on the goal and you have an intuitive insight to maybe I want to start a blog, well, now you visualize having a successful blog. You visualize having a successful Instagram or you visualize having a successful, you know, whatever it is that you're doing. It's an action oriented focus.
Okay. So focus on the goal is static. focus on the process is dynamic because we are becoming artists.
We are visualizing that our art is doing well, kind of like a mother. When she brings up her infant, she visualizes, she focuses on how the infant is getting better and better every single day. It's getting stronger and stronger every single day.
She's, he's starting to take steps. He's starting to speak. She's actually subconsciously focusing on all of these, even though she might not be visualizing it.
Okay. So for me, I started doing this with my video making, you know, becoming a great video maker, producing prolific content that actually changes lives. And I'm visualizing all the comments coming in of how many lives it has changed, right?
So I need you to focus on that. That's what you got to do. Don't worry about what you don't know.
Focus on what you do know, and you will get more feedback on what you do know and what you do want. Okay. Most people focus on what they don't want and what they don't have.
You need to focus on what you do want and what you do have. Because when you're more grateful for what you have and you focus on what you want, you'll create more of those positive outcomes. Okay?
So the key here is stop worrying about unknowns and focus on knowns. Why? Because as you keep moving in the path towards your goals, the unclear terrain gets clearer the more steps you take.
Think about it. If I keep doing uncomfortable things every day, I'm actually expanding my zone of comfort. If I keep doing things that I've always been doing, I'm going to stay stuck in my comfort zone.
So to expand your zone of comfort, venture out into unknown territory. And typically this unknown territory is more focused on the direction of your goal. So for example, you know, If I want to become a successful business owner and I have a, you know, I want to make content on social media, but I'm terrified of making content on social media.
I'm nervous. I feel this imposter syndrome. Well, an uncomfortable action would be just making one short video, not taking scuba diving.
Well, that could even, even doing that could help, but it's more of a directed action. If you directed it towards the life path. That you're following the lifeline that you're following, right?
So stop worrying about unknown and focus unknown. Why? Because a weak plan executed with a definiteness of purpose will triumph over a strong plan executed with an indefiniteness of purpose.
Guys, in this situation, the most crucial thing that you can do is have a strong resolve. Because if you have a definiteness of purpose, you have a strong resolve. Everything else will take care of itself That's it when you get insights into the process visualize the process Okay, so now it's time to talk about the final visualization and i've actually never shared this before at least not to The public but this will completely change the game for you Why because there are hidden resistances that are always lying in right around the corner there's a reason why when you visualize you get this feeling of anxiety or this pang of doubt that comes up.
Don't lie. You felt it. When you visualize the goal, you start feeling it.
You start feeling this anxiety that, oh, you know, but it's not achievable for me. Oh, but I can't do it because I've failed so many times. What is that?
How to mitigate that? This is how you want to visualize the failure scenario.
Now, before I get to that, could you do me a favor? If you like this, if you know you don't like this just let me know in the comments below your genuine thoughts i love to see engagement and your feedback helps us me make better content for you so just leave me a comment and if you're liking this could you share this with a friend so they can benefit from it as well um i'm just trying to spread the message out there to the right people who are truly truly interested in changing their lives so let's get to visualizing the failure scenario so before i begin this part i want to share a tweet that i recently shared that i was inspired to share it goes he who has nothing to lose has everything to gain he who has everything to lose is more worried about losing than gaining now i want you to think about this for a second has ever happened in your life you know things have been going well for a really long time and then all of a sudden it doesn't and now it hurts more than when you were at rock bottom right because when you're at rock bottom you have nothing to lose when you have nothing to lose you have everything to gain
So imagine living like that imagine living in a way where no matter how much you gain You don't become attached to them. They don't define you. They don't become a part of your identity because you're beyond this Because now you collect all of these belongings you collect this business the business that you've been working on this sunk cost effect Right the income that you've been making and you formed an identity around it I am the kind of person who has this house who makes this much money and you know amongst my friends circle I'm recognized as this kind of person and I would never want to ruin that Reputation something that I've worked for because otherwise everything that I've worked for be a failure But what if you stopped work, you know holding on to it so tightly Typically, it's the people who really hold on to it tightly that end up sabotaging it, right?
That's why we see a lot of clients who have been making a lot of money, but then all of a sudden, you know, it just, it all goes to shit. Something happens, all goes to shit. And then they get this huge ego check and it humbles them.
When you fail to humble yourself, God will do it for you. Okay. I've seen this time and time again.
And so I always have to remind myself, no, no, no, this isn't me. I'm actually, I'm actually a nobody. I'm simply embodying, choosing to step into this version of myself.
In truth, I'm a nobody doing nothing. You know? It's a very contradicting way to live, but life operates in dichotomies.
You have to learn to balance the two ends of the pole. Otherwise, balance will be created for you. So where does visualizing the failure scenario come in?
Most people, when they visualize their goals, there is subconsciously that fear of failure. that fear of failure is actually subconscious resistance.
Ah, here comes the handwriting. Okay, so you have subconscious resistance towards what you want to avoid. There's a quote, there's a Bible scripture that says, do not resist evil.
The way I interpret that is, When you resist evil, you give it your power. Whatever you resist, you give it power.
Whatever you love, you give it power. Okay? Life, reality doesn't discriminate between the different contexts.
What you hate and what you love. You get more of what you hate, you get more of what you love. You get more of what you resist, what you resist persists.
So because you're subconsciously resisting the failure scenario, it's haunting you. It's controlling your life. What if you no longer resisted that failure scenario?
What if you could move without resistance? Do you know what happens when you no longer have subconscious resistance towards failure? Imagine the last time you were playing a game for the first time.
You were a kid, you're playing this game, you're just learning, and you're just having fun. There is no expectation. There is no ego built up.
You're simply freewheeling. You are just being free. You're just having fun.
You're just enjoying. And guess what happens? You start winning.
And then when you start winning, you start to become identified as a winner and you must win whenever we must do something. That's when we create all of these resistances.
Okay. So I want to give you the example of someone business owner, let's say who has been overworking for the last decade or so they've been stuck in this business that they've worked so hard to build and they've been working 60 to 80 hour weeks. They're afraid to hire and delegate certain responsibilities because they're afraid of Letting loose their grip because they are subconsciously afraid of everything falling apart if they were to let go So what's the fear here?
Everything falls apart Everything falls apart. That is the subconscious resistance. There is a resistance to that So that is the failure scenario That is the failure scenario that is being resisted So now what needs to happen for that business owner to overcome this, and I'm going to share a story of myself that I literally just, I went through this four years ago.
When you resist the failure scenario, not only does it run your life from the background, it takes your intention energy. You don't have intention energy available to channel towards what you want to move towards because part, a big part of your intention energy is getting drained into resisting failure.
Okay, don't fail. Kind of like a man walking on a tightrope for the first time on a very high precipice. When the man walks that tightrope, they've never walked it before, they're afraid.
Most of their energy is being directed to resisting failure. Don't fall, don't fall. Instead of go to the other side, go to the other side, right?
Now, if we put a safety net under or put the man on like ground level, well, there is no longer fear because there is no plunging to my own death. So now the man has more intention energy available to just direct towards moving to the other side. So he appears less wobbly.
He just puts one foot in front of the other and goes towards the goal. So in the case of this business owner, you know, focusing on being afraid of failure, the only way to overcome that is by accepting failure in the first place, accepting the worst case scenario in the first place. So if the fear is everything is gonna fall apart if I let loose if I let go of control Well, yeah, fuck it.
Let that happen What's the problem I've built it once I'll build it again But I refuse to continue to live like this for one more day. I Refuse to live like this for one more day. I've spent the last ten years doing this I can no longer do this anymore Something has to change and that's when change happens Change and transformation happens with a hundred percent commitment.
No half -assing it So what happens though for a lot of people is they begin with that attitude But then when things start when shit starts to hit the fan, what do they do? They go back like oh, okay No, you know what? I'm just not gonna do this anymore.
They retreat. They're not able to stay firm in their conviction. They fold Don't fold stay with it.
Follow it through to the end. Give your life to it. Commit your life to it A lot of people think committing your life to something is actually a very high resistance thing.
It's not. It's actually a path of least resistance. Because when you commit your life to something, you're willing to give your life to it.
Full commitment. What are you basically saying? You're saying, you know what?
I don't care. I'm going to go all in on this. All of my eggs are in this basket.
I'm going to commit everything that I've got to this. No importance. Just going to commit.
Okay. So this actually happened to me when I hired my first salesperson four years ago. And what was happening was I was taking, I was doing everything in the business myself.
I was making the content, coaching the clients, doing the sales all myself. And I was working around 60 hours a week, 60 to 70 hours a week. I was working Monday through Saturday from 7am to 7pm.
7am to 7pm Monday through Saturday. And I did this for over two years, almost three years. And you know, I was presented with the opportunity.
My mentors told me, Hey, now's the time for you to hire someone and delegate this and step away from this. And I was very, very opposed to doing that, but I was burning out. You know, my, I was losing passion for things and I just, I didn't have the kind of inspiration that I needed to move the business forward.
But You know, I knew that this was the path forward for me. I had to do it.
But my biggest fear was they will misrepresent my company and my brand. They won't be able to sell like me, so I will be sacrificing revenue. What if they do something really bad and then, you know, I get in trouble, right?
I get sued or something. They say something really bad. They misrepresent my company.
Tons of fears, tons of scarcity mindset. But I had to visualize the failure scenario and become okay with it. So I actually visualized failing.
I visualized all of those fears coming to life. And then I visualized life going on despite that. I visualized that this is the cost of doing business.
I was becoming a successful entrepreneur. And every single successful entrepreneur does what? They take risk.
You can't live a life of comfort and just expect whatever you want to become manifest. You have to become, you have to be the man in the arena, like Brene Brown says. You have to put yourself out there.
You have to put yourself in vulnerable situations. You have to take the leap of faith. Most people are afraid to take the leap of faith.
They're afraid. They're afraid of the middle.
That's why they can't get to the end. They're afraid of the chaos in the middle. But what lies on the other side is Shangri -La.
All of the things that they wanted. Right? So.
What are the keys to actually using this to release that subconscious resistance? Step number one is you want to focus on the goal and then flip it. Flip, goal.
So the goal that we talked about that you're visualizing, what if it didn't happen? For me, I looked at the job that I wanted to quit, right? And I wanted to start my own business.
Well, what's the worst case scenario? I stay stuck in this job. The worst, worst case scenario is I stay stuck in this job for the rest of my life.
I visualized that. You visualize that and you visualize life going on. Life will just go on regardless.
And once you visualize it, you feel those strong feelings, you start to realize, oh, it's actually not so bad. Okay, worst case scenario, I will have to do this job. And so even when I started my business, it wasn't doing well at the start.
I actually had the worst month of my life when I had to have the best month of my life. I had to prove to my parents that I could, you know, make it with this job. So in May, 2019, exactly six years ago, I had the worst month of my business career.
I mean, absolutely zero made nothing that month. Okay. And so that month I, I broke down into tears at the end of the month.
I was like, Oh, this is it. This is the worst case scenario coming to life. And it came to life.
And I was like, Oh, that's it. Life goes on. The next month I had my first $8 ,000 month.
The following month I had my first $12 ,000 month. And then in August I had my first $23 ,000 month. So the next part to this is you want to visualize life going on.
Life continuing. Or getting into acceptance of the worst case scenario. Now a lot of you will be asking, oh, isn't that creating?
If I'm visualizing the worst case scenario, wouldn't it come to life? If you focus on it too much, yes. So I'm gonna show you a mitigation to that.
But one thing is for sure, you can't let the worst case scenario run your life, okay? The more you resist it, the more you make it a reality, the more you're living it. The irony is a lot of people live in fear about the worst case scenario.
Like, oh, you know what? If I don't grow my business and I don't succeed, I don't succeed. Well, you're not succeeding right now, motherfucker.
You're not succeeding right now. The more you keep that dialogue going, you're not succeeding. So what's what's the point why not just accept that this is the worst -case scenario.
I have nothing to lose I have everything to gain from this situation. I have everything to gain so within you Always feel like you have nothing to lose always feel like I am at rock bottom. This is rock bottom I came here with nothing and I will leave with nothing Everything else is an adventure everything in the middle is an adventure So the final part to this is to reframe.
Go back to, once you've done this exercise of visualizing the failure scenario, and by the way, only do this exercise when you find throughout the day that you're getting anxiety, you're getting feelings of fear. Ask yourself, what is it that I'm resisting? What is being resisted in this moment?
And visualize that. Visualize the worst case scenario, okay? And so, the final part to this is reframe.
Reframe and now you want to focus on what is wanted instead So every session that we do that we visualize the failure scenario. We reframe it to focusing on what is wanted instead Okay, focus on failure visualize success Focus on failure visualize success. We want to at least 50 -50 it if not twice as much of the time that you're spending on visualizing the failure scenario, you focus on success.
Why? Because again, 50 % or more of the time we want to focus on what we want to move towards. And that's why all of these sessions of shadow work of surrendering need to be backed up with what is wanted instead with lighter, happier feelings.
Okay. This is absolutely crucial. Quasi here.
Have you ever woken up in a dream and you realize that you could control it? If you have, then you know that it's very possible to control the dreams that you actually do have. Now, if being awake and dreaming allows you to control the dream itself, what happens when you truly wake up in actual reality itself?
I want you to think about this for a second. A level above dreaming is waking reality. What is the level above waking reality?
Well, the ancient yogis call this state Durya, pure witnessing. So there are four main states of consciousness the ancient yogis believed in. There is shukti, which is deep sleep, where there are no dreams, dreamless sleep.
Then there is the dreaming state, swapna, where we have dreams. Then there is the third state, waking reality, or jagrat, the state that you are in right now as you're watching this video. And finally, there is the fourth state that transcends them all, turiya, the state that remains constant across all the other three states.
Once you finally access this state, your life will change forever. In today's video, I'm going to share with you exactly how to do this.
So with that, let's get started. So the very first thing I want you to think about is the number of times where you've been presented with a situation that deviates from the normal script of what you were expecting to happen in your life that doesn't go along with the script. How many times were you presented with those situations but then you really regret how you responded to it and you just ended up making things worse.
Maybe you're a traitor and you took a loss and then you spiraled and then you kept doing things that you shouldn't have done or maybe even in relationships or maybe even in business. you made hasty decisions from a place of reactivity because you were caught by some external influence right or you were just emotionally reactive you couldn't center yourself how many times has this happened the chances are most of the time the the thing that you're experiencing right now if it's unwanted the reason why you're experiencing something unwanted was because this obstacle was a minor inconvenience at first and then it expanded out to become something larger than it needed to be or because You weren't willing to step out of the way and let God or the universe play its course, run its course, and run it through.
You wanted to intervene and try to control every little aspect of it. Guess what? If you want to become successful in any field, there will be challenges.
Otherwise, it wouldn't be worth it. Otherwise, everyone will be successful, right? The only ones who are successful are those who are able to navigate challenges properly and correctly, right?
And so this is where learning to wake up in reality comes in. So I want to share with you a couple of quotes that I think will be very, very beneficial for you if you fully grasp this. I share this with my customer community at first.
So it's the mind's unwillingness to accept deviations from its script that prevents it from making use of ready solutions already present in the flow. The mind's greatest error is that it strives to control the flow itself rather than its own movement within the flow. So to begin with, I want you to consider this diagram here where we have three possible scenarios.
This is the present moment. This is you right now and you have three potential paths that you could take. One path is inherently neutral.
It's not charged with anything. One path is desirable. It's positive.
And one path is negative. What determines which path we move towards it is the combination of our mind and heart the conjunction of thoughts and feelings thought plus feeling Now when we're stuck in our head, we're living in the past. We're not present to the moment.
We're not awake. We're asleep past programs the events that have brought us here, you know are are controlling us right so if you've grown up in a household where your parents always told you that money never grew on trees it's always scarce it's never there there's never enough well then you're going to carry some aspect of that energy with you if you grew up where one of your siblings got more love than the other i'm just thinking of these examples off the top of my head some of these could be completely unrelatable but i hope you can place yourself in that situation just to understand how you're carrying certain beliefs and ideologies and how because you are asleep you're not awake in reality they keep running unconsciously in the background especially in those moments where you fall deeply unconscious where you go into fight or flight right with our trading clients i see this happen a lot okay where their natural tendencies come out like a lot of clients they you know hold losers for too long you know they expect that it's going to reverse they're attached to being right they need to prove themselves right especially type a alpha people you know like they've become very very successful in their businesses and in their careers but with trading it's a completely different ball game right
So they hold the losers too long or they don't take profits or when they get scared on the other end They exit the trade too quickly These are all manifestations of internal obstacles of internal conditioning that you hold on to right or revenge trading That's a big one that we see like trying to make it back trying to get back to zero Instead of staying in the negative staying in the red because you tie your P &L to your identity.
Okay So there are certain events that have brought you here, certain ways in which you navigated the flow, and you've collected certain ideologies, ideas that have kept you alive. And so the ego mistakenly assumes that I need this to survive.
So you become addicted to thinking those thoughts and feeling those feelings, right? Because they are so familiar, you've felt them for so long, they've just become normal, they've become neutral now. So when we understand that there are certain behaviors, certain ways we've internalized things that have...
created these safety mechanisms or safety programs that have allowed us, that we think have allowed us to survive, we can be sure that they will influence future decisions, right? So most likely when you're presented with a split in lifelines, different paths, you will pick the path that corresponds to how you've been. If let's say you were presented with a business opportunity and you've always been scarce around money, you will always deny it and say no to it.
And what you'll notice is there was a part of you that almost said like, oh, you should do it. But you didn't listen to that part of you because you acted from fear, which is how you've been acting your whole life.
You've been living from a place of fear. And again, you let that fear take over and control you. And so what happened?
You stayed in that negative lifeline. But then there are certain situations where someone just wakes up and... They wake up in reality, they get to that fourth state of consciousness, and they're able to say, no, no, no, I need to break this pattern, so I need to act against myself.
I actually need to act against my old self. Acting against your old self inherently means you've stepped into a new version of yourself, a higher upgraded version of yourself. Maybe you can't say that it is a higher upgraded version, but we know for sure that it's a different version of yourself.
Now, that version of you typically doesn't act from thought. It acts from feeling or intuition. I want to ask you this.
When can you use your intuition the best? When you're muddled up by the past and your fears of the future or when you're deeply present to the moment? If you've noticed a time in your life where things have magically fallen into place, where you've had all of these synchronicities happen, where you just didn't have to put that much effort and things were just falling into place for you, were you present to the moment?
Were you just... Putting one foot in front of the other or were you like overthinking things at every single turn? Chances are you were very very present to the moment you were living in uncertainty, correct?
You weren't living in like I need to know what the next step is going to be I need to know I need to know I need to know the more you insisted on needing to know the more You've sabotaged but the moment you let go of it, right? This is why when you stop trying to achieve the goal Most of the times you achieve the goal, right?
It's kind of crazy how that works So we've collected certain conditioning in this thought feeling conjunction a thought feeling over a long enough period of time becomes what a belief Right. So we hold on to these beliefs that then influence future thoughts and feelings which then correspond to one sector of the space the space of different alternatives flows and Then you resonate with one particular sector.
This is the sector that you will manifest Okay, if that sounds complicated it will make more sense as we go along with this video, okay? For now, I want you to know that the frequency, the sector of reality that you are resonating with is highly dictated by your past only because you are living asleep.
The solution to this is what? Learning to consciously wake up, to live consciously, to live present, to wake up in reality itself. The moment we wake up in reality itself, what do you think happens?
You are no longer influenced by the past. You're no longer a slave. to your past.
Okay. As we approach 2026, I truly believe this is going to be the most important piece to you for you to create a new reality in 2026 and beyond. Okay.
So this is the best time to do this. So when we're talking about lucid dreaming, we're talking about someone who's waking up, who's saying there is a dream script that's happening in your dreams. There is a script that's happening.
You're having a nightmare, whatever's happening. But then when you wake up, you realize you see it for what it is. It's just a script.
I don't have to play along with this script. I was watching this like short form of like the superhero, right? And he like has all these crazy special powers.
I think it was like Flash. Maybe it was an episode of Flash. And a robber comes up to him, pulls a gun on him.
And he's like, he's shocked. He's like, oh my God, you're trying to rob me? That's amazing.
Out of everyone here, you're literally trying to rob me. I'm the vigilante. Like I'm the superhero.
And the robber had no idea. He's like, yeah, I'm being serious. I'm trying to rob you.
So immediately by asking that question, he's flipping the script. He's not going along with the robber being like, oh my God, please rob a man, don't rob me, right? He's just going like, are you serious?
You're trying to rob me? Wow, that's awesome. He's not afraid, right?
Like he's just flipping the script and then he just runs around in like 8X speed and like takes the gun away from the robber and brings a cop to arrest him. So yeah, that's really how life works. There is a particular script that's playing and you can choose to play along with the script or you can choose to reject the script and insert your own script.
How do we do that? Here, this is how. This is your old self, your 1 .0 self that lives along, that plays along with the script, whatever's happening.
If you see misfortune, you agree that it is misfortune, you accept it as misfortune and you're like, this is bad. Okay, bad things are going to happen in my life. Your higher self, though, is like, hmm, this appears to be bad.
However, this could be a blessing in disguise. How can I perceive this to be a blessing in disguise? Just remember, if you see signs, if you see things that happen, none of it is objective.
The sign itself does not matter. If you see black crows or black cats or whatever you feel in your culture is, you see the evil eye, right? You may believe like, oh, this is a bad sign.
If you believe that, then. It will be so. It is not the sign that matters.
It is your attitude towards the sign or the omen. I really want you to remember this. The thing itself doesn't matter.
It is your attitude to the thing that matters. Why? Your attitude you have full control over.
Your relationship to the thing you have full control over. Reality operates like a mirror. The mirror of reality reflects your attitude.
Even though this thing right now could be apparent misfortune. You may be hit with a big bill. You may be down on your bank account or your investments or whatever.
If you perceive it, I promise you, if you perceive it as something good, something good will come out of it. It will just be reflected with a delay. It'll just be a time delay before the fortune actually shows itself to you.
So that's what would your higher self do, right? Now, when we're looking at this and we're talking about lucid dreaming. The one thing you have to understand is we operate through two screens.
In life, there are two different screens that we have. Okay, so this is screen number one. This is screen number two.
Now, our attention, if this is our attention, it's either glued to screen number one or it's glued to screen number two. So screen number one is going to be our internal screen.
And screen number two is going to be our external screen.
So, internal screens are my internal thoughts, my feelings, what other people think of me. Am I disappointing them? Am I doing the right thing?
Thinking about the future, thinking about the past.
The attention is either glued here or it's glued to the thing that I'm doing.
Maybe I'm very, very focused on the task that I'm doing and I get lost in the source, right? Maybe I'm trading and I get lost in the trades. I get reactive.
I just can't stop placing trades, even though I know I should stop. Or maybe I'm doing something for my business, right, that I know I'm hitting a wall with right now. The best thing to do would be to take a break and come back, but I insist on trying to figure this out right now.
I need to solve it right now, right? So your attention is glued to either this internal or external screen. The goal here, when you wake up, what actually happens is there is a perfect balance between the two screens.
The attention gets turned inwards towards itself, right? So now we have both an awareness of the internal and the external screen. We're looking at both the screens at the same time.
So when you enter the state of Turiya, it is what? It is witnessing. What does witnessing presuppose?
Witnessing is not controlling.
We fail when we become controlling. If there's one thing you take away from this video, it is this. We fail because we become too controlling.
We try to grip reality. We try to make it into something that we want it to be instead of allowing it to deliver us the thing that we want, right? So we try to control the how, the path that it will take.
and not the outcome itself. Your job is to place the order and step out of the way. Whenever you become too controlling, aka your attention is too focused on one or two of the screens, or screen number one or screen number two, if it's too focused on your internal thoughts and feelings or your external, what you're focusing on, what you're doing, you know you're becoming too controlling.
You're trying to control the charts. You're trying to control the trades. You're trying to make money from it instead of following your process.
All you need to do is change your focal point back to witnessing. Go from controlling back to witnessing. Just watch.
Just observe. Instead of controlling, just watch the urge to control. Instead of giving into the urge to control, resist and watch.
Feel the urge as it comes up. One way in which I can help you... understand this fully is the next time you have the urge to check your phone, instead of caving in to that urge, just watch that urge.
And I promise you, the more you keep doing this, you keep training the discipline muscle, you grow as a human being. Like your brain will literally grow when you have that, the shift between reacting, going from reacting to responding, right? You gain control by giving up control, right?
Instead of trying to control the outcome, control yourself. Remember the quote that we said, instead of trying to, the mind's greatest error is that it strives to control the flow itself, which is external reality, rather than its own movement within the flow. When we go to witnessing, what do we do?
We're controlling our movement within the flow. There's times when you can do something, but there's times when there's really nothing to do at all. So all you can do is just witness and just watch.
So here's an exercise I want to give you to learn to actually wake up in reality, to become lucid. You will have around 14 waking hours every single day. Let's say you wake up at 8, maybe 16, right?
Let's say 16 if you don't sleep 10 hours. Let's say 16 waking hours. 7 a .m.
to 11 p .m. or 10 or 9, whatever you want to pick, whatever your bedtime is and whatever your wake -up time is. Every single hour, I want you to set a gentle alarm on your phone that teaches you to wake up.
You're just going to set that alarm on your phone and every time that alarm rings, you will simply ask yourself one question. Am I dreaming or is this real? Am I awake right now or am I dreaming?
And hold that state for as long as possible. Most likely you will fall asleep again and you will become unconscious, the zombie -like mode. But then the next time it happens again, the alarm will chime, you'll wake up again.
Do this for the next 30 days. And to do this for the next 30 days, this is Jan. You're probably watching this on Jan 1st or Jan 2nd.
I want you to create a 30 -day accountability journal and I want to know your results. Okay, so this is your action item right now. All you're going to do is set an alarm on your phone and you will ask yourself one simple question.
Am I waking? Am I awake right now or am I dreaming? And really feel what it feels like to be awake.
What does it feel like to be awake? Feel every single sensation. Just realize, wait a second, I'm awake.
There is waking happening. There is a watching happening. There is witnessing happening right now.
And just stay with that and continue back to your task. Take a few seconds. This is all it takes.
10, 20, 30 seconds. Just give me 30 seconds of your time every single hour. And I promise you, your life will completely change within 30 days.
Okay, go ahead and create that accountability journal. And I want you to do two things. Number one, did I wake up every single hour?
Yes. Number two, what were my observations today? What did I notice that I don't normally notice every single day?
A surefire sign that this is going well is you start noticing things that you haven't noticed before. Because if you keep noticing the same things as you've always been noticing, that means your perspective has always been the same, and that's why you've been experiencing the same reality. Shifting your identity is about shifting your perspective, viewing the same things in a different light.
You may be walking the same road, taking the same path to work, but all of a sudden you start noticing that... the new detours or the new details in the surroundings and the atmosphere. Okay?
So go ahead and do a reflection. Am I noticing new things? What did I notice?
What observations did I have? A select few of you will actually complete this and follow through for the next 30 days. So I'm rooting for you.
Please make sure you do. just at the end of the day go down to the comment section create your own thread and you're going to reply to your own thread day one date it i don't care when it is you're watching it if you're lucky enough to be watching on jan second because the youtube algorithm god's favored you great do that otherwise whenever you're joining just join along i promise you your life will not be the same your brain has something called the reticular activating system.
It's literally filtering your reality based on what you're already tuned into. Now, let's say you've gotten scammed in the past and have lost a lot of money, which has happened to one of my clients from that experience. he continued to carry this energy of fear the fear of getting scammed again and losing even more money this made him shut down any potential opportunity that could lead to his growth in fear of getting scammed again while at the same time attracting a run of unfortunate circumstances where he just kept continuing to lose even more money He was never able to recover from that experience of having lost a lot of money.
Whereas another client of mine who had gotten scammed in the past, but he didn't let that experience color his perception. Instead, he stayed open as though it was somehow a blessing in disguise. And guess what?
He became a multimillionaire within a few short years and one of the most successful stock market traders that I know. So what gives? Same mirror, different image.
Most people are out here trying to manipulate reality through brute force, wondering why they have to work 10 times harder than everyone else. They're trying to manipulate the mirror by polishing the glass, twisting and tilting the mirror instead of presenting the right image to it. So in today's video, I'm going to share with you how to change what you're bringing to the mirror.
And once you get this, everything will shift in your life. Success shouldn't feel like hard work anymore. If you're someone right now who's failing no matter how hard you try and it's almost starting to feel natural to fail, like you were meant to fail, you were born to fail.
Once you understand this, success will become your default and failure will begin to feel unnatural and abnormal. So with that, let's get started. To begin with, I want to share with you a success story of one of our clients recently who just posted this.
I'm not sure if I shared this already, but I'm just going to share it again. One of our clients, Leal, he started working with us around four years ago in our Reality Mastery program. When he started with us, he had spent his last paycheck, you know, he worked as a server, was earning very minimum wage, and, you know, he spent the last of his money investing to come and work with us.
And within four years, He completely changed the trajectory of his life, shifted his identity to become Leal 2 .0. And this is what happened.
He was able to get clarity on the business model that he wanted to start because he'd always wanted to be wealthy. He'd always wanted to do what he wanted to do. And four years later, he just had an $80 ,000 day with his e -commerce business.
Mind you, when he started with us, he had no clue which direction he wanted to go. He just knew that he wanted to become wealthy. He wanted to become successful.
He wanted to experience abundance and a life of freedom. Okay. Or of that he conceived of when he was working as a server.
He'd always dreamt of it, right? And now fast forward four years later, he completely manifested it. He had an $80 ,000 day out of which he made, I believe it's $35 ,000 in net profit.
Okay. So that's in one day. And now his business is definitely doing over six figures per month, right?
So I want you to pay particular attention to what he says. He says, I spent years chasing the person I am now, not realizing that I was that person this entire time already.
All I had to do was reconnect with presence and let go of all pedestals. Okay. So just take a moment to reflect on this.
He spent years trying to chase something, a shadow or a vision that he had already been this whole time. How many times are you trying to chase something out into the future as opposed to just realizing that you can have it now? it already is now when we get into the mirror cycle this is going to make a lot more sense and i believe this is what made the biggest shift for my client leal okay so make sure you stick around to the end because this mirror cycle literally explains why you keep delaying it and why the thing that you want keeps moving further and further away from you but in order to understand the mirror cycle we have to understand the fundamental the main law of the mirror which is reality operates as a dual mirror.
There is a side in which you see the reflection, which is the physical manifestation, just like Leo got the physical manifestation of an $80 ,000 day. And there's a side where you present an image. Okay.
So if this is the person, this is the person presenting an image to the mirror, which then reflects it. Now there's two big components to this. Number one, what is the image and the reflection?
You might be wondering, what does reality actually reflect? Well, reality reflects your attitude towards yourself, your identity, how you perceive yourself and how you perceive your reality itself, how you perceive yourself within your reality. Okay.
So It reflects your internal perception and your external perception. The perception is what's being reflected, but the content of your perception can be your internal perception, which is how you view yourself in the world and how you view the world itself.
Okay, so this is your identity.
And this is your paradigm.
Which is external. And the identity is what? It's internal.
Right. So please remember this when we move forward. What is identity?
It is how you perceive yourself to be. What characteristics? Basically, if we're to sum it up, what kind of person do you think you are?
You will only act in accordance to the kind of person that you think you are. If you think you're the kind of person who wakes up in the morning and it's natural for you to brush your teeth, you're going to go ahead and do that. And if a day goes by where you don't brush your teeth, you're going to feel very unnatural because you're going to be like, ah, I didn't brush my teeth.
Something's missing today. Something's off today. Just like that, you have an identity that relates to every single thing that you do.
If you are, let's say a trader, we work with tons of traders who a lot of them are not profitable, right? They've been told the idea of, oh, trading is gambling. You can't make money from it.
However. as little part of them sees the potential success that you can get trading because they've seen other people print money with trading, right? And so when they get into it, they have these limitations and these limiting beliefs, a big one of which is you need to work hard to be successful.
But in trading and investing, the less you do, the better, right? If you keep taking action, if you keep trying to do something again and again and again, you keep trying to take and force trades, you're going to sabotage yourself because there's only one or two really good trades you may be able to take. in one day.
However, most people have been taught and they've been successful in other areas of their lives by brute force, massive action, manipulating the mirror. The charts are a literal reflection of your internal state of being. okay so in understanding this you know that a lot of people when they come onto the charts they actually view themselves as an unprofitable trader why because they've stacked up loss after loss after loss even if you're a business owner and you keep struggling at a certain revenue level or maybe you're trying to make more money in other areas of your life where you keep attracting the same toxic pattern in your life, right?
That keeps proving to you that you're not good enough until you achieve something. And you've always tried to, you know, make up for your lack of self -worth by trying to make money, by trying to accomplish something or gain status, right? You keep attracting this same certain toxic pattern in your reality.
Chances are there is something you believe to be true about yourself. You believe yourself to be the kind of person who Insert fill in the fill in the blanks, right?
So as soon as you change your identity your reality begins to change now There's another portion to this as well, which is your paradigm, which is what you believe is possible within your sector of reality For example when I got started off I had a dream right I had a dream that I would have the laptop lifestyle make my dream income of 20k a month Just like leal I was in a full -time job, right?
I was in a full -time corporate engineering job and I was stuck in this factory make that used to make corrugated. They still do make corrugated paper boxes.
And I would dream of a reality in which I can have the laptop lifestyle. However, I could only conceive of that reality because I had two friends at the time who were accomplishing that, right? So because I had right people in my circle and I surrounded myself with the right energy, I could perceive that that's a potential reality.
However, I didn't fully believe that it was possible for me at the time. Right because it seems strange to me at the time that someone could actually do this It seemed very strange to me that someone at the time Especially someone in their early 20s would be able to accomplish something like that, but that paradigm Had been tapped into and the field the M field David R.
Hawkins I'm not going to get into that. Maybe a lot of you are watching who don't know who that is, but there's an M field, a morphogenetic field, right?
To get into that, I'm just going to mention this really quickly. Do you remember when the first time someone ran a four minute mile? It was Roger Bannister.
Before that, no one believed it was possible to run a four minute mile, right? As soon as Roger Bannister ran the first four minute mile, high schoolers started to run four minute miles because they believed that it was possible. They no longer believe that it was the human limit to run a, you know, four minute or five minute mile, five minute 01 or four minute 59 or four minute 01, whatever the time is.
But after he broke that M field, everyone started to believe it. So just like that, when I saw friends, when I saw people being able to do 20K a month online, I believe that it was possible to do it, right? But then I didn't believe that it was possible for me.
So now here's the thing, right? Like the paradigm. opens up, you believe that it is possible to do, but the next obstacle to deal with is it's not possible for me because I'm the kind of person who insert fill in the blanks.
So now you see how the attitude not only has to change about your reality, but it also has to change about how you view yourself. Just like with my client, Leo, he believed that it was possible to make money online. Okay.
He believed that it was possible to make money online, but he didn't believe it was possible for him initially because he didn't believe that it was. He was the kind of person who insert limitation. But as soon as he was able to change that, as soon as we helped him change that, what happened?
He made an $80 ,000 a day and his e -commerce business. So now you know that there's two main blocks, two main dominoes. You got a tip in order for your reality to completely change, right?
So question becomes, how do we do this? This is where the mirror cycle comes in. I want you to pay particular attention to this.
This explains why, you know, 99 % of people never become successful and why 1 % do. So there's three main components to this. There is a place of, you know what, let's start this with what most people do.
If we look at 99 % of people, who are a slave to their circumstance, a slave to their reality, what happens? They look at their current reality for proof of how they should feel.
They're very objective, right? They're good people. They're good people who've been taught by society to be realistic.
Realistic people never become successful. Delusional people become successful. Obviously, there is a limit, an edge to your delusion, but In general, it's delusional people who become successful because they can see past their current scope of reality.
Even if you look at investors who've become successful, they look at the current state of things and they're like, oh no, everything is down. The stock market is down. A select few people are like, this is a great time to buy.
They're so delusional. The stock market's down, so it makes sense that it's going to go down, so you should keep shorting it. Right?
But a select few are like, no, no, no. It's going to turn around.
The reality of tomorrow is different from the reality of today. They see something that other people don't see. And so they're willing to take a bet, risk something on it.
And that's why some of the greatest companies came from recession. If you look at Uber, look at Microsoft, look at Google, they were all born out of recession. So what do most people do?
Most people look at their current reality. for proof of how they should feel. So they begin by observing their current reality.
Money's not coming in. Money keeps going out. All of these bad things are happening.
This is a bad time. So now the attitude that I've formed about my reality is this is a bad time. So my observation and formation of attitude in the first step happens from me observing the current state of things.
When you do that, what happens? When you form your attitude, what happens?
Reality reflects this.
Right? Reality reflects more scarcity. You say, oh, you know, bad things are happening.
It's a bad time. The mirror of reality says you believe it's a bad time. Here you go.
Here is more evidence of why this is a horrible time. Why you should hoard your money. Remember, you got scammed.
Don't get scammed again.
Oh, scam? Here's more scam. Reality reflects the content of your attitude, right?
Not the nature of the attitude. If you keep saying to yourself, I don't want to fall for a scam, reality just hears, the mirror of reality just hears, scam. Here is scam.
Here is scam. I don't want to lose money. Lose money.
Lose money. Lose money. I don't want to pay more bills.
More bills. More bills. Right?
It doesn't care about what you don't want and what you do want. It just looks at the content of your not wants and wants. And it reflects that.
And it gives you more of that in abundance. So reality reflects this. And then what happens after reality reflects this?
You use that to form the basis of another image.
Right? You look at that. You see the current state of things.
And you're like, this is the image. This is the image.
This is what's going to happen. This is my life. Then you go back to confirming that.
You strengthen that attitude. And then it reflects again. This is why throughout years people stay stuck in a rut, right?
They want to move forward. They want to change their lives. But when it comes time to circumstances that trigger their traumas, They fall asleep.
They're no longer able to stay conscious. There is a reason why my client, Leal, he said presence is the number one thing that you need. Check this out.
Just listen to this. Presence gives us all the qualities we need for becoming our V2 version and living an epic life. No pedestals, calm state of knowing.
Okay? Versus conditioning that's full of limiting beliefs, assumptions, chasing, wanting. When you're in a state of limiting beliefs, you're operating from beliefs.
When you're operating from chasing, when you're operating from wanting, you're not present anymore. You're not present. You're not here.
And now you're not present to what's going on in the moment. You're going back to, Ooh, I wish this would be nice in the future. Ooh, this bad thing happened in the past.
You're either in the future on the past. You're not in the present moment. When do traders become the most successful?
Not when they're trying to predict the markets. They're present to the moment and they're looking at that opportunity flow. Is market going long or is it going short?
What is actually happening in the moment? You're responding to what's happening rather than trying to predict what's going to happen in the next moment. I don't know what's going to happen in the next moment.
You don't know what's going to happen in the next moment. You're simply responding. You're confirming what's happening.
So this is what happens to most people. This is their cycle. They begin here with the observation.
Reality reflects what they are already seeing and then they use that as the basis of their image. Confirm that and then this cycle keeps on going. Now, if you wanted to break this cycle, do you want to know what needs to happen?
It's very simple. The 1 % do this. How they become delusional.
Instead of beginning here, this isn't their number one point anymore. You want to guess what is? Their number one Starting point is the image itself.
They begin right here. They choose consciously which image they want to present to the mirror. Okay?
Then they observe proof of this image in their reality. To close the cycle, they form the image and they're like, okay, where is proof that I'm actually becoming wealthy? If you're noticing all of these bills and all the money leaving your account, What is the money staying in your account?
You notice that, become thankful of that. You bless the penny that's in your account rather than the 99 pennies that's just left your account, right? So you observe that in step two.
And in step three, what happens? The mirror simply reflects your attitude towards it. It reflects it, and that's what you get.
Oh, you believe you're wealthy? Here you go. Here's more evidence of where you are wealthy.
And then they use that to strengthen the image. Oh, look, I am wealthy. More money is coming in.
And that's how some people just keep growing more and more and more. Their growth just keeps compounding more and more and more. That's why the rich keep getting richer and the poor keep getting poorer, right?
I was speaking to an uncle of mine and he was like, yeah, you know, like when you have money, it's pretty easy to make money. Like, you're right. When you have money already, it's easy to make money.
And guess what? Everyone has money. But not everyone looks at the money that they have.
most people look at the money that they don't have and guess what reality reflects what you look at if You look at the money. You don't have here's more money. You don't have here's more bills If you look at the money you do have reality reflects the money you do have So what's the key takeaway here?
I want you to take a moment and write down in the comment section, like what your, before I get to this, I want you to write down what your biggest takeaway is right now. Something that you're going to be implementing as 2026 comes around.
The key here is confirm what you already have.
Focus more on what you have and what you want rather than what you don't have and what you don't want. It's that simple. If you were to take an inventory of the content of your thoughts at the end of each day, if you were to just journal it down, I want you to give yourself a rating zero to a hundred percent.
How much time did you spend focusing on what you do want and what you do have? And how much time did you spend? What percentage of time did you spend on what you don't have and what you don't want?
Just please start doing that and just get an inventory, an honest inventory. Okay. Another way you can do this is every single hour taking an inventory and doing this number, right?
How much time are you spending on what you don't have and what you don't want versus what you do have and what you do want. So confirm what you do have. Look at the glass as half full rather than half empty, even though it's very, very easy to look at it half empty.
And I can promise you, if you keep doing this more and more consciously every single day, it'll become habit. It'll just become a new way of being, a new way of living. And just in that manner of practicing this, identity is what?
It's habits. If I keep brushing my teeth every single morning, I'm going to view myself as the kind of person who brushes their teeth, right? So the action and the identity go hand in hand.
I view myself as the kind of person, then I ground it with action. And then when I take the action, I confirm that action. That's why people say like, oh, you know, confidence comes from competence.
This is true because if I say to myself that I'm going to go to the gym and even if I don't have the best workout, I just show up and I just keep showing up. What's going to happen. It's going to build my confidence because I'm just going to naturally keep pushing myself.
I just need to show up. I just need to show up. And if one week, what happens?
I don't show up to the gym. I'm going to feel unnatural because you know, like I committed to going three days a week and This literally happens to me.
Like if I miss the gym one day of the week, I'm like, ah, this feels weird. I feel dirty. I feel like I haven't taken a shower, right?
You don't go a day without taking a shower. You're going to stink. You're going to feel weird.
So identity is strengthened by action, but you need to have the right perception behind the action to be able to strengthen the identity. Okay. So confirm what you have.
Begin with choosing the image. No matter what's happening around you, the toughest thing to do is when you're surrounded in apparent scarcity, but you still have the attitude of abundance. This is why.
Just when there's a bear market and everything is crashing, the investor doubles down. They buy more. They buy the dip.
And then it recovers and they make a shit ton of money when everyone else is just like, ah, I should have bought. I should have bought right. Warren Buffett has this great quote.
When there's blood on the streets, you buy, when everyone's greedy, you become fearful. When everyone's fearful, you become greedy. Okay.
He who comprehends the darkness in himself to him, the light is near. He who does not want evil will have no chance to save his soul from hell. In today's video, I want to share with you how to confront the darkness within you so that you can create the life.
that you truly intend and not have a dark force keeping you back from experiencing it but more importantly how to become aware of that shadow side of you that has kept itself hidden for your whole life and that's been sabotaging your results to do that we must understand how to perform shadow work but in particular I'll share an exercise that has helped me the most with this.
Before we get to the exercise, we must first understand the shadow a little bit better. With that let's get started. To begin with, what I want you to understand is that every single one of us, we all possess a dark side or a shadow side to each and every single one of us.
How you deal with your dark side determines how your life turns out. whether or not you're going to be successful, whether or not you're going to live the life that you want to live. To give you an example, to demonstrate this point a few months ago, I was having dinner with a very good friend of mine and he was a very successful real estate investor telling me how I am.
I feel so dialed this year, everything's going great. But then all of a sudden I just get these negative thoughts. And so I asked him, how do you deal with these negative thoughts?
He's like, Oh, well, I just stuff them out and you know, put them to the side and I just try to focus on the positive. And I told him, therein lies the problem.
That's where the problem is because you're not properly dealing with them. So the big misconception people have is that having negative thoughts is bad, right? Especially when you get into this personal development journey, you start to think, Oh, having negative thoughts is a bad thing.
A very long time ago, I learned that the desire to have positive thoughts itself. Is a negative experience. I remember reading this book by Mark Manson He was talking about this in the book called subtle art of not giving a fuck and that's always stayed with me for a very very long time because when we try to Desire the positive that itself is a negative experience within our psyche So that's what Carl Jung really talked about learning how to properly deal with the shadow self and the very first time I was introduced to my shadow self was when I was four years old and I remember one day just getting these Very very negative thoughts at the time.
My parents traveled a lot one day I just had this negative thought of what if my parents have like a plane crash and die What's going to happen then and that thought just kept recurring and every time it came up I just tried to push it away push it away I just didn't know how to deal with it and throughout my whole life Up until the point that I really learned the yogic sciences and the law of karma.
I was always haunted by these frequent pangs of negative thoughts that I didn't know how to deal with, that I stuffed them to the side and they always kind of showed up and crept up in my life in different ways. The mere tiny ones actually manifested into physical existence and they really stopped me from experiencing the life that I wanted to fully experience until the time that I was around 19 years old when I started to learn about the yogic sciences.
So for those of you who have dealt With your negativity and you see that negative thoughts are the bane of your existence. You don't have any control over it and you are Controlled by this dark force holding you at your heels once you understand the law of karma Everything is going to change for you within the karmic laws is basically four main laws Okay, there's four main types of karma.
The first type of karma that the yogis believed is what's known as the sanchita Karma. If you believe this, that we have multiple separate lifetimes.
Santita karma then is the karma that we've accumulated across all lifetimes. It's like the total storehouse, the total factory of karma that we've accumulated. Now, the word karma literally translates to action, whether this be mental action in accepting or resisting thoughts and feelings or in physical action.
You might think your mental actions have no consequence, but they do. If you're watching this channel and you're into the law of attraction and creating a reality, you know that your internal thoughts and feelings, they influence your reality, even though it may not be direct. So Sanchita karma is the karma, the action that has been accumulated throughout all.
of our lifetimes. The next below that is what's known as the Parabdha Karma. The Parabdha is the allotment of karma that gets triggered and activated for this lifetime, because we can't handle all of our Sanchita in one lifetime.
So only a certain amount gets allotted. And when you run out, if you're spiritually well developed enough, and you have proper sadhana, proper practice, and you've worked out a lot of your karma, then you can activate more and more until you work out all of the karma of all of your lifetimes in one lifetime.
But that requires a very high degree advanced level of spiritual awareness of spiritual growth. Okay. But it's not entirely impossible.
And a lot of yogis, that's what their journey is throughout this lifetime is to undo all of their karma. So they can no longer be reborn into this same cycle of samsara or suffering. Parabdha is the current allotment.
of karma that we have that gets activated that we can handle in this lifetime. Later on, I'm going to give you a story that demonstrate this point. So I want you to pay close attention to this because once you understand that story, you'll no longer be held back by this dark side, but you can use it to actually create favorable circumstances in your life.
The third type of karma is what's known as the agami karma. The agami karma are the actions that we take today. the karma that we have today that gets stored up for the future.
for our future lifetimes. It goes straight into stature. So this is more of a long -term consequences of our current actions.
And the final type of karma is what's known as the Kriya mana karma. What the Kriya mana karma is, is the short -term karma. So the actions that we take today that immediately produces a consequence in this current lifetime.
For example, if I were to drop this piece of chalk, the consequence is that this chalk Breaks into multiple pieces in this lifetime and I can see that consequence that's kriyamanakama However, the long -term consequence could be that in a future lifetime This piece of broken chalk, it causes ripples in the atmosphere and it creates a tornado because of the disturbance of this chalk breaking.
I don't know. It's a highly unlikely scenario, but it's not impossible. So that's the difference between Kriyamana and Agami.
Agami is something that affects you in the very, very future, more of a future lifetime and gets stored in the Sanchitta because there's not enough space to be handled here. And Kriyamana is something that you're going to experience in this current Lifetime so the kriyaman is more of a cause -and -effect kind of chain in the short term Let's listen to this story to fully understand this Let's say we have someone by the name of Jane a lady by the name of Jane who becomes a medical doctor She has a legacy in Harvard Medical School because her dad went to Harvard Medical her spirit takes on the womb of that Particular family because of her Sanchita Karma and she has a deep desire to care for people and heal them That's her Sanchita.
That's why she's born into a family of doctors. In that instance, what Parabdha would look like would be that Jane becomes a surgeon and not a medical doctor or a nurse because of certain things within her own Sanchita. The allotment of karma that gets activated is being a surgeon because she can more effectively, let's say, heal people or actually directly cause a healing in someone.
Agami Karma would be the actions that she takes today. Let's see, let's say she does something that's unethical that affects her future lifetime. She gets born as someone who's a criminal.
Kriyamana in this instance would be the actions that she takes today. Let's say she has neglected her health because she's been working so hard at being a great surgeon. She's suffering physical ailments and her family won't talk to her anymore.
She's completely estranged because she's dove deep into her work. That will be an example of a short term Kriyamana Karma.
So I hope this makes sense. The real question now is in understanding what this really means. Why do we accumulate a certain kind of karma and not another kind of karma?
What does this mean for our shadow side? Well, going back to the previous example of looking at these negative thoughts and how we deal with them, how we deal with them determines the kind of karma that gets stored up. When we deal with our negative thoughts by resisting them, it creates more of a negative karma of karma.
There are basically three main types that we can pinpoint. There is what's known as positive karma or desirable things that happen in your life that you would like to experience. There is negative karma, undesirable things as a result of your actions.
And there is what's known as no karma. which is dissolving karma. In reality, there is only karma and no karma.
Positive and negative are our interpretations of karma. If I like something to happen in my life, I say positive karma. If I don't like something to happen in my life, then I say that's negative karma.
The charge of karma is solely determined by me. But yogis don't see it that way. Yogi see it as karma and no karma.
Their whole goal is to transcend all karma. So they don't care if they're born into a positive life where good things happen, they become really rich. They don't care about any of that.
They want to get rid of this cycle of life altogether. And they want to completely annihilate themselves. That is the sole goal of the Yogi.
You may not want that. You might want a positive experience. And this is how that works in order to create the desired karma, the karma that we like, we have to know how to deal with our shadow side.
And most people, when they have negative thoughts, negative feelings, a side of them that they don't like, what do they immediately do? How we deal with our feelings. There's a great book on this.
It's called letting go. By david r hawkins i've read it four or five times over the past five years So I read it once a year, but in this book he outlines a mechanism for dealing with our feelings properly But he also shares with us different ways in which we do handle our feelings that create more karma at the lowest level what happens is once we've Suppressed our feelings so much they become repressed feelings This can be our shadow side or our unconscious side that we're not fully aware of a level above that How we deal with our feelings is through suppression Okay, this is conscious We consciously choose not to deal with something until they become repressed.
And when they become repressed, they start to act out in ways and influence our lives in ways that we just can't explain. Oh, I don't know why I just can't speak in front of a huge crowd. I don't know why I have social anxiety.
I don't know why I eat this way and I eat junk food all the time. I don't know why I keep participating in the same destructive behaviors. There's a side to me that keeps pulling me back into those.
What is that side? That. is the shadow side that has not been addressed, that has not been dealt with.
And that's why that unconscious side of you deals and controls your life until you make the unconscious conscious. You will always control your life. You will always call it faith.
So a level above suppression is expression. When a shadow side perhaps finds healthy or unhealthy expression.
Even this is limited. Think about it this way. If you're angry and you immediately express your anger, you punch something, you break something, you slap someone.
There is a consequence. There is a Kriyamana consequence. You're building karma.
There's also Nagami Karma consequence of you doing that. So you're still building karma when you do that. And most of the time it's undesired karma, karma that you don't want if it's coming from a negative place like anger, but a part of it does get dealt with and processed.
But the most powerful method to deal with karma. The karma that actually makes us emptier gets us to dissolving most of our karma.
The most powerful way to deal with that is the method that David R. Hawkins outlines in this book. It's called the surrender.
method. So the four ways in which we can deal with our feelings are through repression, suppression, expression, and the highest level is through surrendering to them. Now you might not like the word surrender might make you feel weak.
That's something I suggest you deal with, but surrender to God, surrender to the highest power is a very empowering thing. If you ask me personally, and that's, that's, that's really how I see it, but there's a three -step method. to surrendering that David R.
Hawkins talks about that is going to help you deal with your shadow self. And once I started to use this, my negative thoughts had no power over me. My life completely transformed once I religiously started to use this and I've coached over a thousand clients, every single one of them, once they learned to deal with this shadow side of them and perform this method of letting go properly.
because there is an improper way to do this. So I'm going to show you how to do it properly where you don't build up more and more karma or undesired karma at the very least. The three step process to letting go is as follows.
Whenever you have a thought or a feeling come up, accept it fully and let it be. Do not try to let it go because when you try to let it go, you're actually trying to push it. Pushing is resistance.
Newton's third law, whatever you push will push back on you. Let it be. When you let it be, you let your guard down, you open yourself and the karma that needed to be worked out has now space to be worked out.
It can move through you and pass through you. Sure, it's going to be uncomfortable, but it's kind of like working through a sickness. I don't know if you've ever been burnt out, but if you've worked so hard and you've tried to suppress everything for a very long time, finally, when you take a vacation, your body gets sick.
I've had so many friends who that has happened to. Personally, I can say I'm grateful. That's never happened to me because I've learned this method and I know how to deal with my feelings, or at least I think I do, but this has majorly, majorly changed my life.
And I've only seen ease and freedom in my life because of being able to fully utilize this letting go method. The second step is to focus on the underlying feeling of that shadow. not the thought that comes up.
The thought is the illusion. One feeling causes a thousand different thoughts. Every single thought that you have is trying to justify the presence of a feeling.
If you feel anxious, you try to justify why you feel anxious by a multitude of thoughts. Oh, I feel anxious because of this bill and of this customer that's dissatisfied or this thing that's happened to me online, this negative review that I got. It's trying to justify the presence of that feeling of anxiousness and fear.
Focus on the feeling. Focus on letting the feeling be. And once you do that, you'll see like a pressure cooker.
You're going to get lighter and lighter. You just focus in on the feeling and you let it be. You say, I allow it to exist.
So in the case of my friend who was the real estate investor and he had that negative thought, what was the underlying feeling? What if I don't become successful with my real estate investing? What if I fail?
And remember every single fear or negative emotion, it all arises. from the fear of death. The ego believes that in order to survive, it needs to be fearful.
It needs to be angry. It needs to be anxious. And so it convinces you to continually feel this way because it's keeping the ego alive.
That's the greatest lie we've been told. We justify ourselves that we need to feel this way in order to survive. We need to feel desire.
Otherwise we won't want things. Is that really true? I don't know.
I don't really think that's true. That's the illusion. That we believe that the illusion of separateness when you dissolve your karma you become one with the greatest source of creation The third and final step is to get into the witness mode where you completely Observe and watch you just observe and watch this play happening this feeling how one feeling evolves into another feeling You're not it.
You're not the feeling you're simply watching it. You're watching the body Feel the feeling you're watching the mind think the thought you're merely the silent witness behind it all.
And you'll know that you've surrendered something when your general attitude towards it is, it's okay if it happens, it's okay if it doesn't. When you get into that state of equanimity, more likely than not, the thing that you've wanted to happen does happen. because now all of your attachment, you've no longer put it on a pedestal.
You're okay either way. You're full internally either way. You're no longer in scarcity.
That's the power of letting go. As you do this continually, this is by the way, a completely dynamic process. You could be sitting at work and you're feeling something that's making you anxious.
Perform this three -step method. Let it be. Whatever's happening, let it be.
Oh, a negative thought comes up. That's okay. It's just a thought.
If I have a thought that my parents might die in a plane crash, it's a terrible thought. Let it be. I can't do anything about it.
The more I fight it, the more I'm creating that karma, that undesired karma. The more I'm creating resistance. And even now and then, I still have these thoughts, but the thoughts don't run my life.
When I go on a plane, I might have the thought that this plane might crash and I might die. But, you know, that's the shadow side. It too is allowed to exist.
It's simply a thought. I don't know where it comes from. Maybe it comes from the accumulation of Sanchita from my previous lifetimes.
I don't know. I don't care. Let it be.
It exists. It is not me. I can choose to identify with it.
Freedom comes when you have the choice to identify with whatever thought you want to identify with in order to experience whatever you want to experience in your life. But if you're unconsciously identified with your thoughts and feelings, that's slavery. You are enslaved to your thoughts and feelings.
You know, every single day you wake up, oh, today I want to do this. Today I want to do that. Yes, I feel like, oh, you know, I don't feel like doing that.
You're a slave to your feelings. That's not freedom. Unfortunately, that's what people think freedom is.
True freedom is having the ability to do what's necessary in this moment. Joyfully. I can do anything right now.
Even if you put me through hell. You know, it's funny. There's a story about the Buddha.
Everyone during that time, they wanted to go to heaven. They would come to the Buddha and say, you know, I want to go to heaven. I want to go to heaven.
And he was like, what's all this fuss about heaven? You know, forget heaven. I don't want to go to heaven.
Send me to hell. I'm great within me. I'm so perfect and still within me.
It doesn't matter where you send me. Anyway, I'm going to be free. Be like the Buddha.
When you can have true internal freedom, it doesn't matter what's happening outside of you. You're bulletproof. You're untouchable.
It doesn't matter. Everything could be falling apart. Sure, it doesn't feel great.
But that feeling too is not you. Because you're completely surrendered. Whatever's happening, life is going to take care of you.
And more often than not, when you do this, life does take care of you. Because you don't sabotage. You don't get in your way.
And so as you do this more and more your cup gets emptier and emptier When your cup gets emptier and emptier you have the choice to fill it up with the thing that you want to fill it up with And this is the conscious creation of that positive karma And so you could experience the life that you want to create which is your positive karma So at a high level how this quantum law works i'd like to demonstrate it to you with a personal example from my life so back in 2019, I was stuck in two different possible life paths.
I could either go the nine to five route upon graduating university. You know, I had a really good degree from a really awesome college. I was good at school.
You know, I was by societal standards quite successful. You know, I graduated magna cum laude from Boston University in mechanical engineering. I had like a 3 .7 or 3 .8 GPA.
I had a job lined up for me. You know, they were like. It was paying really well for back in 2019.
It was like 50k a year or 60k a year, something like that. With health benefits, everything, proper W -2 wages, salary. So it was a multi -billion dollar company.
But I did a summer internship prior and every single day that I would go in, I would be depressed. Because, you know, you were working from the hours of 7 to 3. And if you were in New York City during the winter, 7 to 3 literally are...
your daylight hours. So, you know, for around six months of the year, you would see no sunlight Monday through Friday. And then sometimes you'd have to go in on Saturday, right?
So I was going into this workplace, waking up at 5 a .m. and I did the summer internship and I noticed that the people who were working there, they were also so miserable, so depressed. They were trying to stick their arms into the machines.
There were heavy machinery equipment operating in that plant and safety was a big concern. so they had to really really make sure that everyone was safe and wearing protective gear but you'd be surrounded by chemicals and it was just it was just terrible they were trying to stick their arms into the machines to get workers comp and a couple of the guys were successful and they never had to work again because they were getting workers comp so you can imagine someone who is fresh a young kid fresh just out of college with a lot of excitement and zest for life did not want to go that path, right?
So what I did want instead was to do what my friends at the time were doing, which was running an online business, living the laptop lifestyle, having freedom, right? Time freedom was the number one thing to me. I didn't care about making too much money.
I just wanted to make. What I determined at the time was 20K a month to live the life that I wanted to live and just have a very, very simple life, right? Where I could just travel and have my free time.
My time is the most important thing for me. So at that time, I was juggling between two different lifelines. So at that time, I read a book called Transurfing, Reality Transurfing.
In that book, there's mention of this concept called alternative space. Okay, the alternative space. In ancient hermetic teaching, they call this the all.
Okay, and there's a principle that says there's nothing to be worried about because everything is within the all. Okay, so the all in Islam, it's Allah, it's God. Everything that can possibly be conceived of can be manifested.
It's already, the creation process is done. It's just a matter of you attuning yourself. in terms of the frequency of your thought energy to that particular lifeline that you want to experience.
So for me, I was in between these two lifelines, this one lifeline where I do become successful with my online business and the other lifeline where I'm forced to be miserable with all these unhappy faces going to that job. working for the next 45 years and then retiring with my soul completely destroyed and just not enjoying, not happy about the life path that I chose, just having lived in regret and wondering what if, right?
And I knew at the time that making this decision, the transition between one lifeline to the next would be an uncomfortable decision because I had known this my whole life, that is my comfort zone, right? Because my parents taught me, they were immigrants, they taught me like, oh, okay, just to get a secure job, you know, that's...
That's what we want for you. We'll pay for your college and everything and then you get a great job and then You make enough money and then you be safe like we can brag about you to our friends, right? But I didn't want that that wasn't my heart's calling what my heart's calling was was to make these videos change people's lives Share my knowledge with the world and have time freedom so and also in the process hopefully making more than enough money to live on to experience the wealth and abundance of life.
So now when you make a shift from one lifeline to the next, this is very, very crucial. I want you to pay close attention. You will be encountered with tests and challenges.
Anyone who tells you otherwise does not understand the nature of how reality operates. Why? Because this used to be my comfort zone.
If I'm operating within the confines of my comfort zone, by very definition, I will be comfortable. I will not experience challenge. right but then when i make the shift to something that's uncomfortable it is going to be very very testing at first right so when i made the decision and i told my employer hey i wouldn't be joining i was met with a lot of resistance my parents did not approve of it i had to move back home and you know i was working on this business from home And the month of May 2019, the month that I was supposed to make the most amount of money to prove to my parents that this was a viable career path, life path, because they couldn't understand what I was doing on my laptop.
When I was, you know, making videos and trying to make sales and make money online, they didn't understand the nature of this world. So they were like, what the heck are you doing? My dad was like anxious.
He was like, my son has gone completely crazy, right? So... You know, they didn't believe that I could do it, which I don't blame them, right?
I honestly, I didn't believe I could do it. I just put one foot in front of the other. So that's what happens when you make a shift to a different lifeline.
There has to be uncertainty. There has to be doubt. The greatest things in life actually come when you have this uncertainty and doubt.
Why? Because when you live in this state of uncertainty, you have access to possibility, meaning you're living in that wave like. probability state.
Nothing has materialized yet, but the moment you are ready to receive, it will materialize. So when you live in uncertainty, when you live in doubt, when you actually have doubt, that's a sign that you are operating from a place of acceptance, right? One of my oldest mentors, he told me that you should live every single day as though you're living in a dark room.
If you want to be on the path to growth and experience the most wonderful things life has to offer. The ego is looking for certainty and security and safety. Right?
Ironically, it's when you become comfortable in the discomfort, that's when you find comfort, security, and safety. Because then it doesn't matter what's happening out there. You know God is going to take care of you.
You know the universe is taking care of you. right even though you see temporary setbacks you know that for some reason like somehow they had to happen for you to learn the lesson that you needed to learn and for the necessary changes to happen for how are you supposed to know that that unfortunate incident the bill that came you know it wasn't supposed to happen it wasn't supposed to lead you to something much greater right i'm sure you can think of your life right now and all of the greatest things that you've accomplished typically there was Time a period of hardship just prior to it right the darkness before the dawn okay, so that's something that you must go through and The only thing that determines whether you're going to come out of it on the other side with success or not is your attitude through it Are you going to be accepting of it?
And ease into it or are you going to continually resist god's will at every single turn? There's a great book on this called the surrender experiment by michael singer He basically surrendered himself from a hut where he was living to becoming a multi like nine -figure business owner like he Surrendered his way to owning a hundred million dollar software business and then selling it to ibm, I believe uh, so it's an interesting read if you haven't read it, I would highly recommend it but Just living in this state of surrender and not knowing what's going to come tomorrow or next week has been one of the most valuable ways for me to live because I'm the kind of person who is very logical and needs and is reliant on ego.
Like, hey, this has to make sense. That has to make sense. And so I'm looking for certainty.
But when you let go of the need for certainty, that's when the greatest things in your life actually come. That's when certainty actually comes, right? That's the dichotomy of your life.
Whatever you need, you will resist. Whatever you fully give up, you will attract. That's why you probably notice that if you want to attract someone into your life or if you want to close a big business deal, typically when you stop being needy and pushing for the sale or stop being needy with the partner and trying to text them incessantly, that's when they proactively reach out to you and they're like, oh, what the heck?
This person doesn't need anything from me. Why am I suddenly so much more attracted to them? That's also how reality works.
The less you need the outcome, The less I needed this to work, the more it started to work. So the month of May 2019, the month I graduated was the worst month because I needed to make 5K a month the most to prove to my parents.
But at the end of that month, my worst fear had come to life. I had quickly come to the acceptance of the possibility that, hey, this may not work and I might have to go back to my job. And that's okay.
Okay, that's okay. At least I gave it a shot. Guess what happened the following month?
I had my first... 5 ,000 or $8 ,000 a month. The following month after that was a 12K month.
And then the month of August 2019 was my first 22K, $23 ,000 a month. That's the goal I'd set a year prior, 13 months prior in July of 2018. Okay.
And it manifested 13 months later. And then after that, I started doing $100 ,000 a month, which was beyond my wildest dreams, right? That's not what I aimed for.
It happened because I surrendered. Okay. So I want to share with you, enough of talking about me, I want to share with you what actually makes the shift happen.
Because in this alternative space, there are many different possible sectors of reality, versions of reality that you can experience. So right now in your life, whatever you're experiencing, there is a particular script that's playing, okay? If you imagine this to be a play, a game, there is a particular script at play, right?
This is the script. You wake up, you go to this job or you work on your business and you've dictated that you'd be stuck at this plateau, right? You are making a certain amount of income.
You're experiencing a certain quality of life. You know, I was speaking to a client last week and he was like, I always have just enough, never more than enough. Well, that's the script that's playing.
You never have more than enough. That's your identity. Whatever your internal reality is, that's what will be reflected externally.
right so that's what's happening so right now you have a script that's running because you've accepted the script the very first thing we must do is unattach from the script okay so here is the exercise that i want to share with you step one is you will realize that there is a predetermined script a script that's playing that you have innocently accepted when you're a kid okay because there was nothing else to accept that's it your parents gave it to you and you simply accepted it so what you want to do is you want to unattach from this current script.
And you do that simply by asking yourself three simple questions. Who am I? Where am I?
And what am I doing? And you realize what's happening. You can see yourself and you can see reality, especially in those moments where you get sucked into the script with something.
Maybe you're bickering with your spouse. Maybe you're fighting with your employer or you're resisting something. In those moments of resistance, you wake up and you watch what's happening.
You refuse to give your energy away. How many times have you given your energy away and then afterwards you were like, why did I black out? Why did that happen?
Right? You simply wake up and you acknowledge what's happening. If you can do that, if you can simply wake up in those moments, you'll begin to control your reality.
I can promise you that. Like your life will just change because your response will now be conscious as opposed to unconsciously reacting. Okay?
So the next thing you want to do is once your attention is centered, this is what I do, I visualize for 30 seconds.
I visualize the script that I would like to run instead. Okay, so instead of resisting current reality, I am focusing on what I would like to experience in the next moment. So for example, you may have this attention centering exercise happen every hour or so.
Like every hour or so you're centering your attention. And then every hour that you center your attention, now you close your eyes and you visualize the reality you want to move towards. I would visualize waking up in my mansion in LA next to the partner of my dreams and making the kind of money that I want, experiencing the life that I want.
I'm filling the details in with what I know. as opposed to focusing on what I don't know. Initially, when I started this, when I was in that job, when I was in college, I didn't even know that I was going to make a YouTube channel, right?
I had no idea. And I had no idea how I would monetize my services. So I didn't focus on the unknown.
I just focused on what I did know, the life that I do want to experience, that life of freedom, right? So if you don't know certain details, don't worry. Just focus on what you do know.
Stop wasting your time focusing on what you don't know. Because the more we focus on what we don't know, the more we kind of put ourselves in that situation of more unnecessary suffering, more unnecessary doubts and fears, right? So when you focus on what you don't know, you get more of what you don't know.
When you focus on what you do know... you have this faith, this place of faith that you can simply ease into the discomfort and uncertainty, okay? Faith is trust in the unknown and the unseen.
Belief is trust in the known and the seen. If I have faith, then I can be assured that no matter what I'm going through right now, there is light at the end of the tunnel and hope is what has moved mankind forward, right? Hope is the fundamental quality that is required.
for you to come out on the other side from whatever it is you're going through right now. You need to have hope. Without hope, there is no forward movement.
Okay? So, you want to visualize for 30 seconds, no longer than 30 seconds. Why?
Because if you keep visualizing for longer, you start forcing things. You don't want to visualize. You want to vision.
There is a difference between forcing a visualization and having visions. So when you close your eyes for 30 seconds and you focus on what you want, you will immediately have visions of your future and the thing that you want to experience. So right before the conscious mind steps in.
Because I find that after 30 seconds, that's when the conscious mind steps in and starts to manipulate what you want by saying, Oh no, this is possible. And that's not possible. That's not possible.
Right? It starts to judge. That's what the conscious mind or the ego does.
It's a sharp knife. It cuts through things. So what you want to do is before the conscious mind steps in, you want to intuitively see what is coming up.
What is it that I want to experience instead of this current script and just visualize that allow that vision to arise. Okay. Step three, assume.
Now you want to open your eyes and assume that you have already shifted, okay? So we're doing these mini shifts where course correcting every single hour because what happens is wherever your energy or attention goes, that is the sector of reality that will become materialized, just like quantum physics, right? The wave function will collapse.
and make that sector of reality manifest. So throughout the day, we're having certain thoughts, certain sentiments, certain attitudes that is manifesting a sector of reality that is different to what we want to experience. Typically, it's the old reality that's manifesting.
So if you want to shift out of the old frequency, you have to get into the habit of focusing on the new frequency. And the way you do that is by unattaching from the old and focusing through visioning what you want to experience instead. And then staying in that state of assumption that, hey, The shift has already happened.
At least for the next hour, the shift has happened. I promise you, you do this for 30 days, your life is going to change forever. Okay?
So vision for 30 seconds, then assume that the shift has already happened and you continue to live your life. You just put one foot in front of the other. Okay?
Just put one foot in front of the other. You will be directed to that goal or the processes that will lead to that goal happening. Okay?
Number four.
At the end of the day, you want to take inventory of your thoughts.
So on a scale of 1 to 10, give yourself a rating. How effective was I at staying as my ideal self? What were the predominant thoughts that I had?
Throughout the day, what percentage of the time was I thinking positively?
More reflective of my old life. You have your new life and your old life. Okay, that's the way we're gonna break it up And so what percentage of the time did I feed the old life?
What percentage of the time that I feed the new life and then what would I give myself a? Rating of on a scale of 1 to 10 on how aligned I was to my new self Okay That's what you want to do at the end of the day.
And you'll begin to notice that when you keep this journal and you take inventory of your thought energy, of your frequency, of what you're thinking and feeling throughout the day, it will inevitably begin to change. The numbers will be more tipped to the scale on the side of your new self. Yes, you will have bad days.
Some days will be worse than others. The journey is not linear, but overall you're going to see there's going to be a trending upwards. And that's when the thing that you want will manifest.
Okay. So I hope this was helpful. If you're new to the channel, let me know what you thought of this.
If you share this also with a friend, if this was valuable to you, that would really help us because we're trying to get this message out to as many people as possible and change as many lives as possible. So you sharing with a friend helps a lot more than just a friend finding it themselves. My, our mission with this channel is to help every single human being on earth to master their destinies, because I would like for you to experience what I experienced on a day to day basis, the kind of.
freedom that i experience on a day -to -day basis by the way if you would like to have me as your mentor and work closer together for a whole year to make sure you make a permanent shift in your life our clients are getting outstanding life -changing results as i've shared and i'll pull them all up here and i work really really closely with my clients so if you'd like to work closer together with me for 12 months to make sure you take your life to the next level you can click on the link in the description below to schedule a free consultation call with me to see if it'd be a good fit quasi here today i want to share with you one of the most important laws through which reality operates the law of balance i want to share a quote with you from one of my favorite books and authors the game of life and how to play it by florence govel shin that summarizes this law very very well she says the dawn of success is often the darkest before the break of day
Every great work, every big accomplishment has been brought into manifestation through holding to the vision and often just before the big achievement comes apparent failure and discouragement. See, I've noticed that in my life, every time a big manifestation, something that I really, really wanted actually came into being, there was always a big challenge too.
For example, when I wanted to quit my job to go all in on my business, None of my family was supportive and I had the worst month of my life in my business in May 2019, the month that I made absolutely zero when it actually mattered the most. But after applying what I'm going to share with you in today's video, by August of 2019, three months later, I had my first $20 ,000 month.
See, a lot of people think that seeing a challenge before success is a limiting belief. But I'm only sharing my experience with you. And after having worked with over 1800 clients, this is what I'm seeing.
This seems to be a deeper law of reality through which reality actually operates. Look at some of the most successful people in this world. Jim Carrey, the actor, he lived in a van.
with his family during his teenage years and was rejected by every single producer early on in his career. He went on to become one of the highest paid comedic actors in Hollywood. Look at Oprah Winfrey.
She grew up in extreme poverty, suffered terrifying abuse and was told that she was unfit for television. Well, she became one of the most influential media moguls in the world and the first black female billionaire. Now, what's interesting is that there are more people who actually never break free of this struggle to actually have a breakthrough.
They don't know how to overcome the challenges. They stay stuck in the same patterns for decades until they get to their 60s and 70s with deep regret for how their lives turned out. They resort to lying to themselves about their lives when they know deep down that they didn't live a life of full freedom.
They lived with fear in their hearts and more importantly they let that fear actually hold them back so guys in today's video i'm going to share with you the true secret that every single successful person who has successfully overcome hardship knows and it's all to do with learning to keep your own internal balance so with that Let's get started.
So to begin with I want to share with you one of our clients who has been through a major Trial period a major challenge period in his life our client Nick So Nick joined us and after a few weeks of joining going through the program making the intention He immediately saw that he was presented with a huge challenge his dad got diagnosed with cancer and his mom with dementia and he was still stuck in his 24 -year career.
His goal was to become a successful trader so that he could leave his career and start making 10k a month and his first goal to work with us was to make 10k a month and so after he got this news he kind of had an emotional breakdown and he he just he just collapsed and fell back into his old ways into nick 1 .0 the old version of himself but he was able to through what i'm going to share with you stay true to his 2 .0 self really persist and and and really move forward through these tests and challenges and what happened after was absolutely amazing not only did he make 10k a month he started consecutively making 30k a month in profit in his crypto trading which allowed him to quit his 24 -year career and just leave drive 900 miles to spend all of his time with his family now he gets to just trade make 30k a month and spend time with his aging parents take care of them and and now he has free time to do the thing that he actually wants to do whereas otherwise if he was stuck in this career he wouldn't be able to spend time with his parents in their old age right all of this was possible because nick persisted and stayed as his 2 .0 self okay this is the key no matter how many tests and challenges arise people like oprah people like jim carrey they are able to stay grounded and rooted
in the version of themselves that they conceive themselves to be. They are staying true to the vision no matter what external reality presents to them temporarily. So the real question that arises from all of this is why do tests and challenges happen?
Well, tests and challenges happen because the very first thing that we do is we make an intention. And when we make an intention, we're immediately operating outside of the confines of our comfort zone. So if I draw this little diagram here with this little circle, this is your comfort zone right now.
And this is where your goals lie. So this little one is your comfort zone. And this big circle is where your goals actually lie.
It lies outside of the confines of your current comfort zone. The reason you're not experiencing the life that you want to experience is because you have been confined to your comfort zone. Please think about it.
Anytime in your life you've achieved anything worthwhile, it was because you got out of the zone of your comfort. You did something that was very, very uncomfortable, that was unfamiliar, that was new, that wasn't within the confines of this current lifeline. It was unfamiliar, right?
So this bigger circle is your goal zone. And more often than not, it is super, super uncomfortable because what happens is your reality completely revitalizes itself, okay? And so when that happens, we go outside of the zone of our comfort and we begin to experience things that are new to us.
which make us very, very insecure, which make us feel very, very fearful, which make us unconfident in general. And most of the time when people are so used to, they're so accustomed to staying in their comfort zones, and this is typically what we see people in their 40s, 50s, 60s, they've lived one way for their whole lives.
It's very, very difficult to break free from that. But Nick... You know, he was able to do that because for most people who actually make the transformation, the pain of staying here is stronger than, you know, the comfort that they get, the pleasure that they get from staying here because it becomes so painful.
And that's why you'll see people when they get to the breaking point where they've hit rock bottom, they get to absolute rock bottom. That's when they say, fuck it. It cannot be like this anymore.
This has to change. And that's when they take the leap, the leap of faith, do something uncomfortable, get out of the zone of their comfort, and then they experience a life that's completely renewed, completely fulfilling, and they end up achieving their goals. Because what happens when you get out of the zone of your comfort?
You hand the reins of your life to God. You say, God, I don't know. This is unfamiliar to me.
So I'm accepting of the path that you will show to me. That's basically what you're saying when you let go of the reins, right? You let go of the reins and you let God take the reins, okay?
So... The key to this is understanding anytime you make an intention, these tests and challenges are perceived tests and challenges because it means simply that you're not operating. You're no longer operating within the realm of your comfort zone.
Okay. Now there are two main types of challenges that typically occur. Okay.
Let's talk about the two challenges. Challenge number one, inner challenges. And this typically is your identity.
What do I mean by that? Well, if you're someone who wants to make more money, right?
You've been making a certain amount of income every single month, every single year. You want to increase that. That increase in income is outside of the zone of your comfort.
And so this is why a lot of the times we see lottery winners inherit or win a lot of money. And then 80, 90 % of them, there's an actual statistic, 80 % of them within like five years, they squander it all and they go back to being homeless, being broke, right? Being back to their comfort level, right?
And then there are some people who can never go below a certain level, right? They're millionaires, multi -multi -millionaires. They just keep getting richer and they just can't go below a certain level.
Why? Because your identity dictates your internal thermostat. If you believe you're someone who's only worthy of making 5K, 10K a month or like $100 ,000 a year, that's your comfort zone.
You will never try to sabotage that. You won't risk that to go higher and higher. Human beings are wired very, very interestingly.
We would rather not lose $100. than make $500, right? But there are a select few who act with courage and they say, you know what?
I'm willing to risk $100 for $500. I'm willing to risk what I have for a greater life, more fulfilling life, more of an adventurous life. And those are the clients that we work with.
They have the courage to take the leap of faith and say, you know what? I'm actually sick and tired of being here. I'm willing to risk my current self and how I've been my whole life.
change because it's too painful to be like this it's too painful to constantly live in doubt constantly live in fear constantly live belittling myself and just feel trapped right most of the clients we work with they want to experience this boundless freedom in their lives they're sick and tired of feeling trapped and so when you make that decision immediately upon making that decision clients start to see results already Because it always begins with the decision.
And a decision is what? It's the intention. And intention is what?
Your resolve. The resolve in the decision that you make to have and to act. You're resolute in this decision that I will no longer experience this.
I will experience something different. I will experience what I want to experience. A boundless life where I'm making the income that I want.
Where I have the relationship and the health that I want. I'm sick and tired of falling back into these old ways and these old patterns of thoughts. And I've been stuck here for decades.
Only when that knowingness, that realization comes within you, you're ready to make a change. Otherwise, you're just going to flip flop. And that's why some people, you know, some people take a few weeks and a few months.
They're very, very mature internally. They're spiritually adept. They can notice their patterns and they're only willing to stay stuck for, you know, a few months or six, seven months or even a year.
But then there are other people who are extremely stubborn. They stay stuck in their patterns for decades, right? Decades until they come to the realization that, oh, hold on.
I've neared my 60s and 70s. This cannot go on any longer. And you'll be surprised.
Some of the greatest clients we've worked with are in their 60s. They've made a drastic transformation, like our client, Dr. Taylor.
He's just gone out of his comfort zone. He's become a completely new man. He started traveling to countries he's never been to, started taking scuba diving, you know, when he was terrified of water.
And he started to put his material online. He's a doctor. He's going to, he's going fully international.
He's putting all of his stuff online and he's just spreading his message out and getting over his fear of being on camera. Right? So all of this is possible because you overcome that internal challenge of the identity.
Okay. So that's the most crucial part is whenever you make an intention, your old self will always attack you. It will always attack you in these old doubts and fears.
And even Nick went through this, right? You're going to go through this, but it's how you respond to them, right? Do you fall into them and entertain them and fall unconscious to them and react to them?
Or do you respond to them from your new state of being? So identity is the biggest, it's the biggest internal challenge that every single person goes through. And the reason they're never never able to break free now There are also outer challenges or external challenges and the biggest external challenge typically is when reality rearranges itself reality Rearrangement why why is this one of the biggest challenges?
Here's why when you make an intention again, what are you doing? You're saying to reality. I would like to experience something different Well, you don't know the path that it's going to take to get you there.
You don't know the how. The how is up to God. What's up to you is to simply place the order.
So you place the order. Let's say you want to grow your business. You want to scale.
And then life all of a sudden throws this test at you, right? Let's say you want to quit your job. You want to become a trader or you want to, you know, start your own business, whatever it may be.
You make that intention. And all of a sudden, you know, your hours get cut at work. All of a sudden you get fired.
What then? For most people, they... get scared, right?
They retreat into fear. Oh, everything that I've worked for, I don't know how I'm going to feed myself. Even though they may have like six months or a year of savings to, you know, lost them until they can figure this out, figure the business out, figure the trading out.
They still fall back into fear and then they start looking for jobs out of that place, that state of being of fear. So it always comes down to what's the state of being that you have before you make a decision. Is this coming from a place of fear or is this coming from a place of certainty, of courage?
And that's why it also goes back to the identity. The external actually goes back to the internal. When you look at the rearrangement of reality, then you retreat back to your old identity.
That's your old identity challenging you. So to give you an example, when I went from making nothing to making my first $20 ,000 a month to making my first $100 ,000 a month, I had to get accustomed to that to be able to keep it, to be able to maintain it consistently. right because initially i hadn't become that version of myself there would be a fluctuation in my revenue one month i would make 3k then i would go to 4k then i would go back down to 1k and then i made zero right so from jan to like may when i started my business i was making it was a complete fluctuation but then when i solidified myself into the identity of a hundred thousand dollar a month business owner i went from You know zero to 12k a month to 20k a month to 50k a month to 80k a month to my first hundred thousand dollar month in january of 2020 This all happens because you become worthy enough to experience and keep that a lot of people get so uncomfortable like the lottery winners with money They can't feel comfortable with keeping money in their bank account.
They immediately have to spend it. They immediately sabotage it, right? So it's like that discomfort that you feel within your body when reality is rearranging itself.
Can you stay with it? Because I can promise you, if you can stay still in the turbulence, like the oak tree, right? You stay still, imperturbable, in spite of all the challenges around you.
What are you saying to reality? That you truly are worthy of this. You're commanding it, that you are entitled to this.
And so you're willing to weather any storm. And so reality says, oh, okay, you think you're worthy of it? Here you go.
Here's more proof of where you are worthy of it. Eventually, the tides turn. You stay patient long enough.
tides will turn and things will start to go your way. The profits that you wanted to make in your trading account, all of a sudden they start to show up. The income that you wanted to make, all of a sudden it comes to you.
The promotion you wanted to get, all of a sudden it comes to you. Everything, all of the progressions that you wanted to see, because you persisted through the times of trials and tribulations, because your internal state wasn't shaken. They show up for you.
The second type of external challenge that shows up are pendulums. Now guys, I really want you to pay attention to this because once you understand pendulums, your life will completely change. Maybe you've heard of this concept called egregores.
But what a pendulum is, is a collective like -minded energy. It forms through groupthink. So when a group of people come together, two or more, they start to resonate at the same frequency.
It spontaneously forms a pendulum, an energy structure. If you think of religious groups, activist movements. Riots, schools, colleges, universities, sports teams, collective like -minded groupthink forms these pendulums.
Sometimes in riots, people will do unexplainable things and then you ask them afterwards, why did you do that? Oh, I just got lost in the heat of the moment. What happened?
The pendulum hijacked their consciousness and made them do that. Because what is the pendulum's main goal? To extract your energy, to suck your energy, to make this energetic structure stronger.
And it just forms spontaneously. no one makes it form it simply forms by itself when a group of like -minded people come together now there are constructive pendulums and destructive pendulums destructive pendulums extract your energy and take you away from your goal make your life worse okay constructive pendulums take your energy and deliver you to your goals the only way to be free of pendulums completely is to live in isolation or to be enlightened right when you're enlightened you're free of the societal conditioning societal conditioning is one of the biggest pendulums right?
The collective unconsciousness. So this is how it forms. Group of people come together, forms.
Now, how is this an external challenge? Well, when I started my own business, everyone was doing a nine to five. Everyone was telling me like, what the hell are you doing?
My parents were telling me you have a safe and secure job. Why would you give that up to go and do this stupid online business where you make videos and like, you know, charge for coaching? Who's going to want to buy that?
It was completely unfathomable to them at the time, right? Well, To me, that's the path I wanted to walk.
That was my own unique path that was right for me. So I had to own that because I knew that if I continued in this nine to five, this miserable soul -sucking corporate job for the next 40 years, I would be miserable. I would hate myself for it, right?
And that's why people, when they live in suppression, they start to develop all of these diseases. Disease comes from this unworked emotion because they stuff everything down. Then the cancers show up.
Then these other psychosomatic illnesses show up because they live restricted. They have desires that are unfulfilled. So they show up in these blocked energies that then manifest in bodily form.
That's why the placebo effect is real. You can convince someone that something's going to cure them and it does cure them, right? The mind creates the body.
The illnesses are created by the mind and through years of accumulating it, it shows up in the body, right? Now, I'm not a doctor. Not all of them show up this way.
There are different karmic reasons. Yogis understand that there are different karmic reasons they happen. But for a majority of cases, This is why it happens.
This is why illnesses show up. Okay. So with pendulums, what they will try to do is they will try to say, no, no, no, no, don't do that.
Don't walk your own path. Give me your energy. Come back to the nine to five route.
So that was in the form of my parents, my family, my friends challenging me, being like, what the hell are you doing? What are you doing? And then of course, I want to save face.
I want to look like, oh no, no, I'm doing the right thing. Eventually it will make me go back to my old ways. But for me, because my will was strong and my pain of being in that nine to five was so strong, I persisted with my original intention.
So these pendulums will continually try to test you. They will try to challenge you. And do you want to know what pendulums try to keep you in?
What emotional states pendulums try to keep you in? There are five low vibration energy states that pendulums love to keep you in to extract your energy. These are shame.
They try to shame you. You're a loser. Why are you doing this?
They try to guilt you. I have a client of mine. In my elite program where he felt guilty for making a lot of money.
He felt this sense of guilt like he had to do something. That he couldn't tell his parents or his friends or his family that he was making a lot of money. That's what we're working on to eliminate that guilt.
This guilt is what pendulums keep you stuck in because it extracts your energy in low vibration states. There is fear. This is the number one way in which pendulums keep you stuck.
It presents you opportunities. God presents you with opportunities to move forward towards life that you want. And then fear comes in.
Pendulums try to fear you try to say oh, no, you shouldn't do this Oh, look, this thing has a low probability of success You don't even know if you're gonna be successful with this prevents you from taking the opportunity in the first place What do we know you miss a hundred percent of the shots you don't take what's the worst thing that happens if you took that chance?
Okay, you fail and you learn a lesson then you reiterate what's something that we what's the best thing that happens if you took that chance? Well, the best thing that happens is sky's the limit We achieve all of the goals that we wanted to achieve. Is that a worthwhile risk to take?
So you have to be entirely, you have to be very, very objective during these situations. And you also have to be intuitive about what is uncomfortable and feels like the right thing to do. For a lot of people, they're scared.
They fall back and retreat into the fear instead of acting with courage. Courage is a high vibration energy. Courage is a high vibration energy state.
Okay, so we have shame, guilt, fear. Anger is a good one. And pride.
How many stupid wars have people gone to just because of pride? pride for their country, like it's some noble thing to put your life on the line, to risk your family, to risk, you know, losing yourself and the effect that it would have on your family. No, no thought about that.
No, just because of pride, you start doing stupid shit, right? A lot of people do it. A lot of people get hijacked by the pendulums.
Anger and pride are great ones too. Pendulums love anger and pride because there's a lot more energy. These are higher end on the low vibration state.
With shame and guilt and apathy, It's a low vibration, very, very low. There's not a lot of energy there.
But in fear, anger, and pride, you're moved to action. It can mobilize you. So these pendulums like to mobilize you in fear, anger, and pride.
The question is, are you going to act from that place? Or are you going to work through those fear, anger, and pride, dumb down your ego, be empty, and trust God? I can tell you, every time in my life, I felt empty, and I felt like I had nothing to lose and everything to gain.
That's when I became successful. When I lived in protection mode, Of, oh no, I'm afraid to lose what I have.
That's when I failed. And that's when I lived a life of like anxiety because I'm always worried about losing it. Even when I made my first $100 ,000 a month, do you know what the first thought was in my head?
Oh my God, how am I going to keep making it now? How am I going to make it another month? How do I make sure I don't lose it?
And I lived in a constant state of fear until I had to work through that. And then it became effortless for me. And then it just came.
And then I just surrendered to it. And it just came every single month. I just showed up.
I just put one foot in front of the other and did what I loved. And God took care of the rest. That is true freedom.
So now let's talk about the keys. The keys with which you can actually stay in that state and pass the test. There are three main keys that you need to know.
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What do I mean by this? Well to keep your importance low simply means becoming non -needy becoming unattached having that general sense If it happens great if not even better that it wasn't meant to be so if you're anticipating something instead of Continually checking your phone or continually checking your email shift your attention to something else I can't tell you how many times I've been expecting a big deal to close And, you know, I just went out and golfed.
I just hung out with my family. I completely forgot about it. And as soon as I forgot about it, my importance was low.
It showed up. And I also can't tell you how many times I kept checking my email and I wanted something, a big deal to close. And the more I checked, the more it didn't come.
And then when it finally came, it wasn't the outcome that I wanted. Life has this way of... balancing us if we don't balance ourselves the more we keep checking the more we keep interfering with god's plans you know let's say i put out a video and i want a video to go viral the more i kept checking the first hour first two hours and three hours i keep refreshing it the worse it happened and then when i went to sleep i wake up in the morning next day it's it's taken off right i can't tell you how many times this has happened because again your thought energy you when you put something up on a pedestal, it has no choice but to look down upon you.
Even in your social interactions, you're seeing this. Like if you speak to, let's say you're in sales, you speak to a prospect and you're very, very needy for the sale, they can feel your energy. If you're speaking to the opposite sex and you're very, very needy for their attention, you're very easy, you know, they can feel that.
They can feel that you're super, super needy and they kind of feel like you're going to use them. right you have an ulterior motive or an agenda like why is this person so needy but then when you let go when you don't need something from them you can truly serve that's a big shift i needed to make because when i first started everything was super important because i was new right but when i quickly made the shift to becoming non -needy and keeping my importance low guess what happened instead of me chasing clients they started chasing me they started you know reaching out to me applying to our programs and and wanting to work with us because i just I didn't chase them endlessly.
And I started to work. I started to attract the clients that I actually wanted to work with the clients who would pay a premium and actually do the work, show up and be nerds, you know, be nerds about this stuff, not just someone who comes in and just complains all the time. So I'm very, very blessed and grateful.
I get to work with the most amazing clients ever. Okay. And that all happens because when you don't resist, when you don't put something on a pedestal, you don't distort reality.
Because life in general wants to give you what you want, you just get in the way by putting it up on a pedestal and giving it meaning. So when I put something up on a pedestal and I create unnecessary amounts of importance in relationship to other areas of my life, let's say I have many different areas of my life of wealth, health, fitness, let's say my diet or my relationships.
All of these different areas of my life. If I start to get hyper fixated on my diet and I become super, super like everything is important. I need to make sure I get the right amount of carbohydrates, fats, blah, blah, blah.
I'll find a way to sabotage it. I'll find a way to become deeply unfulfilled and yo -yo diet, right? Because I'm so strict on myself at the end of the day when my energy is low, I'm going to find a way to sabotage myself.
When I put my income up on a pedestal as compared to other areas of my life. If every area of your life is important, then that's great. But it needs to be of equal importance.
Because if it's not of equal importance, if one part of my life is too important, then guess what happens? Your thought energy gets way too concentrated on that area of your life. If you imagine that there is a homogenous field in reality, when I concentrate too much on one particular area of life, let's say I'm focusing too much on my income.
right i'm concentrating energy too much here it gets bunched up here then what reality wants to do is it wants to create balance it wants to create balance in this area and it does through does it through its own way it does it through taking the path of least resistance so then if you want to make more income let's say and you're focused on that business deal closing It gives you the simplest solution, which is the deal doesn't close.
Maybe in some instances the deal does close, but in most instances it gives you the thing that is easiest for it to give you, which is you go back to your old normal life and it teaches you the lesson to lower your importance. It's kind of like the man on the tightrope, right? If he's on a high precipice, his importance level is high.
He's very, very worried about falling and plunging into his own death. So most of his energy is Directed to okay.
Don't fall don't fall don't fall instead of moving to the other side Instead of him just walking putting one foot in front of the other and going to the other side Most of his intention energy is tied to resistance. How many times in your life? Are you resisting failure?
You're thinking about not failing and you're trying to avoid failure at all costs Well, most of your intention energy is getting directed to avoiding failure as opposed to getting to the other side Just like that man on the tightrope. Okay, so as such In this manner, you're creating unnecessary disturbances in the field of nature.
Guys, this is why it's so crucial to keep your importance level low, okay? And to be equanimous. Anytime you feel like something is making your life too important, you have to shake things up.
You have to go and do something completely left field. I can't tell you the number of times I would just take the day off, just completely change my pattern, scramble my RAS, my reticular activating system, because it gets too hyper fixated on business. money, need to help clients, need to get results, need to like, you know, get views.
Instead, if I scramble things up and I just become present to the moment, if I just go out and play golf and I hang out with my son, hang out with my wife, what happens? My mind is off those things. It's not scrambled anymore.
So sometimes you need to take that time off and just completely fuck off, completely just slack off, right? That's very, very necessary. So that's number one.
keeping your importance level low. The second part to this is what I like to call BID, blessing in disguise. This is an intellectual solution.
What do I mean by this? It's about looking for the blessing in every single event that happens. Because remember, whatever you perceive to be true, reality will reflect just that.
Reality is very, very, it's a mirror, right? Whatever you perceive, whatever your relationship to it is, is what it will reflect. If your relationship to one particular event is somehow this will help me, then reality will say, oh, okay.
you feel like this will help you, then here you go. Here's more ways in which this will help you. So to give you an example, there was a time in 2022, 2023, actually, where I had two great top performers, employee sales reps, but one of them left and the other one just stopped performing.
And eventually both were gone, right? And so I was panicked. I was like, oh my God, I spent my whole, you know, the last four years trying to build a team like this.
And now I have to let them go. What am I going to do? What am I going to do?
Right. I felt lost. I felt scared for the fate of my business, for the future of my business.
And, you know, I realized what was happening then. But then I had another team member at the time and she was telling me like, hey, Quaz, like, you know, God will always God always takes care of it. Just these reminders you need sometimes.
Right. She was like, somehow something good can come out of this. I'm like, oh, yeah, you're right.
I'm forgetting this, that this is somehow a blessing in disguise. So I chose to perceive it as a blessing in disguise. And guess what happened within the next.
20 days, like two to three weeks, a top performing sales guy reached out to me who was crushing it for another company, but he wanted to work with me because that company was, they couldn't supply leads anymore. And he used to be a previous client of ours. And so he reached out to me.
He was like, hey, do you have any openings? I'm like, of course I do. And I brought him on and he brought one of his friends on from that company who was also a top performer.
And together, like they started performing three times better. three times better than the other, the old two reps that I had. And their synergy was next level, right?
And so I realized then that whatever's happening right now, you may feel like it's doom and gloom, but honestly, guys, like three months from now, you're going to look back at it. If your attitude is correct, you're going to look back at it and you're going to be like, oh, that's what I was worried about. It's not even going to bother you anymore.
So this is why it's so crucial to choose your own attitude. There's a great quote by Viktor Frankl. the author of man's search for meaning this guy was in a nazi prison camp and he said all of man's freedoms can be taken from him except the right to choose his own attitude and surprisingly when you choose your own attitude your reality begins to shift as a result he was able to break it out of the concentration camp so blessing and disguise look for blessings in disguise when something happens that's not in accordance with what you want to see how do you know that that that's not what was meant to happen that's that uncomfortable thing that was meant to happen for you to get to where you want to get to this is god Throwing a blessing at you was just a temporary with a temporary inconvenience.
How do you know? How does this little ego mind know what grand plans God has for it? It can't.
So just perceive it as a blessing and you will shift to favorable lifelines. If you begin to perceive it as a blessing, you're going to shift to favorable lifelines. Okay.
So third and final, this is going to be a really good one. Let it burn. If you can't shift your attitude to viewing it as positive.
then let it burn. This is more of a bodily surrender. So if you're going through this cycle of anxiety of things burning down, you know, your business is going to shit.
Your life is going to shit. Everything is falling apart. Happens to everyone's life.
Typically happens once a year to most entrepreneurs, once or twice a year, maybe even once a quarter, honestly, like maybe four times a year to most entrepreneurs that I work with. And what they see is their lives just start to like fall apart. You know what that is?
That is the old. passing and so it creates space for the new to come in. It's insane.
This happens every time. I used to say this to all of my entrepreneur clients is like, if you're not crying once every two quarters or every quarter as an entrepreneur, you're not doing something right. Like you've got to be crying because you're as an entrepreneur, you're the true creator of your reality, right?
As someone who is on this path. to to being a reality creator you know maybe you're in a professional job you want to quit your job you want to become an entrepreneur you want to go to work for yourself you've taken the reins to your own life you're breaking out of the matrix you're breaking out of the nine to five right the the the path that was that you were supposed to go the comfort zone so when you walk your own path it needs to be handled with care there needs to be deep surrender happening you need to let go of the reins and let god take the reins right so when you let it burn You basically say to yourself, oh, things are falling apart.
Instead of trying to save it, stop trying to save it. Let it burn. Just let it burn and build from the ashes.
If you feel anxious all the time, allow yourself to feel anxious. Okay, I need to go through this. This is clearly happening for a reason.
This clearly needs to pass and be processed. The most toxic advice you can get in this space is, oh, just try to be positive. Make sure you're positive.
Drive doubts away from your mind. There is some truth to that. Some.
But most of the time, when we try to stuff away our negative feelings, we're actually strengthening the shadow, right? We're saying that this is not okay. Anything that is not okay gets stuffed deep into our shadows.
Anything that is not accepted gets stuffed deep into our shadows. And that's when those illnesses come in. The psychosomatic illnesses, the physical bodily diseases, that's when it happens.
When you suppress for such a long period of time. So the key is process it. Whatever's arising within your consciousness, clearly.
It needs to be worked through. And if it's happening within your reality, clearly it needed to happen. And then after it's burned down and you've achieved, you've gotten to an equanimous and neutral place, right?
That place that I was talking about where I feel that if I've gotten to a place where I have nothing to lose and everything to gain, that's when I succeed. So how can you as quick as possible, humble yourself to getting to that place of I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Get to that place and you will gain.
It will only be positive. And that's when the trap comes in, by the way. You start to gain stuff and then the ego comes in and says, ah, look, I am somebody.
The moment you think you are somebody, you're fucked. Live as a nobody and live with no thing because this is how you came into this earth anyways, as a nobody and no thing. So then there is no pressure on you.
Everything that is accumulated in this lifetime is a bonus. It's a net positive. Stop living in protection.
Stop trying to protect. Stop trying to hold on. Let go.
I can, I promise you the greatest things in your life will happen when you just let go. Okay, so hope this was helpful. So there are four main parts to this, to actually implementing this in your life.
And so let's begin with the very first part, which is learning to step into awareness. This is probably the most crucial part, and I'm going to explain why. So one of our clients, Juan, if you look at this screenshot that I'm going to pull up here, just to give you more motivation in actually applying this, check this out.
He says he overcame one of his biggest sins. One of my biggest sins had always been to compare myself with others. I always felt anxious and depressed whenever I saw someone making it instead of me.
I thought, why not me? Why isn't me the one making $100 ,000 a month? However, I've been paying more and more attention to that little voice, applying the protocols to reduce importance and coordinate.
In the midst of that, one day, as I became aware of that little voice, I had an epiphany when I observed that voice in pure awareness, a thought. came to my mind. Juan, your journey is yours only.
What you're living and experiencing is exactly what you need. Then, although it always seemed obvious, a deep understanding came. I really felt deeply within myself that my journey is mine and mine alone, just as everyone else is theirs.
That gave me so much sense of freedom. And based on that feeling, I started making different choices and focusing more on my own journey. So by the end of the month, I had almost made three times the amount of money that I would usually make and that with even less sales calls and getting less views on my channel.
I have manifested a sense of freedom within myself and that manifested later on in physical reality. Guys, this is how powerful this is, by the way. When you learn to speak to yourself correctly, when you take the pressure off of yourself and you allow yourself to live by your own credo, this is what can happen.
Because a lot of the times we begin comparing ourselves to someone else that we see, someone who's doing a lot better than us, someone who is doing a lot worse than us, and all of a sudden they've surpassed us, right? I've fallen into that trap many times. I have tons of students who have completely surpassed me in terms of revenue, income, and wealth.
And at first, I would feel very, very insecure about that, be like, oh my God, how did that happen? How do they use my stuff to surpass me? But when I started to really look into it, it's actually a very good sign.
That typically means that I'm very, very good at the craft of coaching and helping others so much so that I can help someone else get amazing results with this, right? So that is really like, if you look at all of the greatest coaches, like the golf coaches, the, you know, the boxing trainers, et cetera, they're not like great boxers or they're not great golf coaches, right?
But they can see something that others can't see. And they can see potential in someone else and learn how to help someone else overcome their blind spots So when you learn to speak to yourself correctly This is what can happen.
And so this three -step protocol and the fourth step will be to implement this in your life. This will show you exactly how to do that. So let's begin with the first part to this.
The first part is learning how to step into awareness and watching the character. One of the examples I want to give you is learning how to wake up in a dream. Okay, wake up in dream.
Guys, have you ever woken up in a dream and you realize that you could control it? Has that ever happened to you? That is lucid dreaming.
right so when you wake up in a dream you can literally you begin to control everything in the dream itself the events the people you realize oh i'm dreaming so this dream is fully under my control right what so the reference point in dreaming is oh you know conscious waking reality right that's what you wake up to in dreaming you wake up to conscious waking reality but what happens when you wake up in reality ah that's where it gets interesting when we begin to wake up in reality We connect to this higher source.
Some people call this the fourth dimension, right? Like Jesus Christ, all of the avatars, they lived in this fourth dimension. And so all of the outcomes that they wanted manifested, walking on water and miracles, right?
These all happened because they were connected to... a higher source of reality. They were beyond the simulation.
How do we do that? How do we access that state? And actually, if you want to create any kind of change, it is crucial that you access that state.
That is the state you had access to when you were a child and there was no consciousness there. There was pure awareness. So the very first step to making any kind of shift is to become formless awareness.
Why? Because we have consciousness that takes on mind and body, right? So if this box is, let's say, let's call it consciousness or awareness, AW, this takes on mind and this takes on body.
So right now, the mind -body combination that you have, what you call as me, my thoughts, my body, right? Body, the grossest form is material reality. That's what we're trying to influence.
So if you notice, the mind actually creates the body. So anytime you have a psychosomatic illness, you know, you have mentally a dis -ease, mental dis -ease, it manifests in the body. Similarly, when you have the placebo effect of consuming medication that you truly believe will heal you, what happens?
It actually, in fact, does heal you, even though it didn't have any kind of properties. Like it was a placebo, it was a sugar pill, right? So it does happen that the power of your mind just literally heals your body.
So from that, we can conclude. that the mind has a definite influence on the body it can change the body right so the mind creates the body what creates the mind awareness and consciousness right so in ancient yoga there is this theory this understanding that everything stemmed from nothingness no thingness no form nothingness became aware became aware of itself right and if you read this book called conversations with god like guys i read this book and it gave me goosebumps like it literally gave me goosebumps like the first five ten minutes of reading it i was driving to the gym and tears were streaming down my face and in it this guy neil donald walsh he talks about how he was very very frustrated with his life and he just hit like the darkest of all dark places and uh he just began writing he was like i'm just gonna try to speak to god to his surprise god started answering right and so he asked a series of questions like why don't you show it show yourself and god was like if i showed myself no one would believe me it would be heretical people would think i'm the devil right so if how he basically asked how would you have me show myself i'm everywhere i speak in the language of feelings right so what i found truly interesting was in that book even in that book across all different cultures if you look at ancient traditions everything points to the existence
of this no -thingness, right? No -thingness and then this nothingness becoming aware of itself. And so in the book, God basically states that God created humans and all things, all living things.
This sense of separateness exists because God wanted to experience its greatness. God wanted to experience himself, herself, itself, right? That's why humans and all the miraculous things in nature, they all came to be.
It's all to show us that we're just a particle, a droplet that's just temporarily separated from the ocean. Because God wanted to experience his greatness. That's why we're here.
We are all made in the image of God, right? So this nothingness became awareness. Awareness then became consciousness, right?
Movement within awareness created consciousness. Being conscious of... having a body and having a mind this consciousness then the movement within the consciousness created the mind okay the thoughts arising within consciousness so if you think about it this way right now there are clouds but there is a stratum within which the clouds exist right so there is a sky within which the clouds exist there is a space within which all of the things in it exist but that's the background right the space the sky those are all backgrounds We're always focused on the thing in the foreground.
In the foreground are the thoughts and the feelings and, you know, the things that happen within the body, right? So then when there was movement within the mind, the body was created. The grosser and grosser forms were created.
And that's why they say thoughts create reality, right? So if we want to make any kind of change, the first, the prerequisite to it is becoming formless again. Because we can't fill up a cup that's already full.
Please think about this. A cup that's already full. cannot be refilled.
We must empty the cup. We must take a step back. Most people, what they try to do is they try to change themselves.
It is futile to try to change yourself because what you're going to be doing inevitably is just creating this internal battle. You're just going to be fighting against yourself. How many times has it happened in your life?
Maybe you've fallen off the wagon in a habit that you've tried to do and you've beaten yourself up about it. Do you know what's more effective? Instead of trying to beat yourself up about a habit or a pattern that you dislike, instead of fighting against yourself, You just pick yourself back up and focus on what is wanted instead.
The surefire sign that someone has elevated their state of consciousness, they've reached a high state of consciousness, is how long it takes them to pick themselves back up from failure or from something not going well, right? How long is this spiral? How long is that delay time until the event happens, you feel down, and then you pick yourself back up and you just keep going.
The shorter that time, the higher the state of consciousness. Now, there are people who are in like very, very super high states of consciousness where something really bad happens. They immediately view it as, hey, this is, maybe this is a blessing in disguise.
Maybe I just don't know how this is going to serve me. God is trying to help me some way and I don't know how. That is a very, very high state of consciousness if you can get into that, right?
So the question now is how do we step into awareness? The key to doing this is entering watching or witness mode. No doubt you have attained this mode sometimes where a lot of things are happening and all of a sudden you're unattached from it.
You're no longer attached to it. There is thought happening. There is turmoil going on in the world around you, but you're not attached to it.
You're just simply watching it happen. You're watching the play happen. You're not an actor anymore.
You are one of the spectators. You're one of the witnesses. That's what I want you to do.
Whenever you experience something that is unwanted, don't react to it. Watch it. Before the reaction happens, create that space before you react.
So for example, someone triggers you, you're angry. Before you react and escape that thing, it's like life is trying to wake you up to something. Whenever you get triggered, it's actually a blessing because life is trying to help you level up.
But what needs to happen is there needs to be a space and you need to feel that tension within your body where something triggered you Why does this trigger me so much? Why does someone saying that make me feel so strongly? Stay with that feeling for a little bit before you go ahead and respond.
So make it a habit now Instead of immediately reacting to something instead of immediately trying to escape a thought that feels poisonous that feels harmful to you instead of trying to do that stay with it stay with the tension of that feeling in your body and you're going to notice this deep sense of release that happens right the sense of sigh of relief the sigh of relief that you feel Okay, that's it.
What we want to do is increasingly get into witness mode before we start doing affirmations and we start doing all of these, you know, speaking to ourselves correctly. Because a lot of people, the biggest issue they go through is they do all of this manifestation work. They start to say things to themselves, but they do it from a place where they're internally riled up, right?
They're going through internal turmoil. You can't create from that place. The water's too muddy.
It's too full. You need to get to a neutral place first when you're relaxed. If you want to influence the subconscious, you need to be relaxed, okay?
You need to have a relaxed state of mind. That's it. The only way you do that is by knowing that you are empty.
You can only fill something up when you're empty. When you're full, you can't, okay? So you're empty when you're the most neutral, when you're in full witness and watching mode.
So sometimes, you know, when you have a spare moment in your day, or in the morning or at nighttime when you're not feeling much. Typically, I recommend doing this at nighttime when you're relaxing, you're going to say your affirmations.
And don't worry, we're going to craft the affirmations together. I'm going to show you exactly how to do that in part two. But that's the time when you want to do that.
Those are the key moments where your subconscious is the most receptive. Okay, so the key is to get into witness mode. Now, let's get to the second part and how to actually craft the affirmations.
Before I do, I wanted to let you know, I made a comprehensive movie, an identity shifting movie that shows you how I was able to grow my income by learning how to shift my identity. All you need to do is go to realitycreator .com slash movie to be able to access this.
It's like short 25, 30 minutes long, and it's going to give you the tools you need to learn this method of identity shifting that we teach all of our paid clients. Okay. That's the number one thing I've been.
talking about since 2019. And we've taught over 2000 clients this. And the reason why we get such amazing results for our clients like Juan is because we've allowed, we've taught them how to shift their identity, to go from this current version of themselves to the version of them themselves that is conducive to achieving their wildest dreams.
Okay. So go to realitycreated .com slash movie to access that. And let's get to part two.
crafting your affirmations. So now let's talk about crafting your affirmations. And guys, after working with over 1800, 2000 clients now, this is what works.
Okay. This is the same one that I've been using since 2019. There's two main parts to this.
The biggest problem to this is people do their affirmations in the first person. Now I'm not trying to knock on first person affirmations. Like when you say I am this, I am wealthy.
I am making $20 ,000 a month. That's great. If it works for you, great.
But what I've noticed is the issue with this is the I am shouldn't be caged, right? You can't, like when you say I am this, you're static. It's making this I am static.
Whereas this I am, the pure awareness is boundless. It's formless. So it's actually not recommended to, you know, add a form to it.
i am should remain as i am it's beyond any kind of material any kind of definition you shouldn't limit the i am is basically what i'm saying and what you'll notice is the most successful people they actually reinvent themselves at every single level right Every time they level up, they keep reinventing themselves. To give an example of this, one of our clients, Bastion, he started at like 20K a month with us in a business that he wasn't fully passionate about.
Within year one, he went from 20K a month to 100K a month in a completely different business. He became the $100 ,000 version of Bastion, right? And then year two, he went from 100K a month to 400K a month, right?
He leveled himself up again. He recreated himself again. He started running a big team.
And now year three, year four, he's actually shut those businesses down and he started his own SaaS company. And he's, you know, going off to eight figure, nine figure net worth. So that's the difference, right?
So if you want to keep leveling up, the reason our clients keep leveling up and they keep becoming better and better is because they have this system to reinvent themselves at every single level. You need to learn how to consciously reinvent them. reinvent yourself but you can't do that if you statically define yourself in the first person as like i'm this kind of person and that's it i make 20k a month and that's it well then what's going to happen is you're going to reach a level and chances are if you've reached a level in your life right now and you feel stuck this is why because you view yourself as this person and you're unable to ditch this personhood right you're unable to ditch this version of you to level up to become that next version of yourself and we see a lot of our clients who are in their 30s you know 40s 50s even 60s they've been conditioned to be a certain way their whole lives and now they've hit this barrier because their desires are not congruent with who they've been conditioned to be they are stuck in their 1 .0 self they haven't learned how to shift into this 2 .0 self and that's why when they start working with us they start seeing these leaps and bounds happen within the first like four to six weeks
right because internally you shift into this version of you that is worthy and capable and effortlessly experiences the life that you want to experience right you can't out earn your self -image you can't outperform your self -image how you view yourself you can never surpass that because what happens is if you view yourself as someone who's only worthy and capable of making six figures in a job anytime you start to make a little bit more you're going to find a way to sabotage and return back to your internal thermostat when you go below that you're going to feel anxious and nervous and you will fight like hell to come back up to this level so that is your hygiene standard or your internal thermostat for what you're capable of experiencing until we shift that that self -image You won't be able to get permanent, long -lasting results.
This applies in any area of your life, by the way. It applies in relationships. It applies in your health.
The reason why you see a certain weight on the scale or a certain body is because you view yourself as this kind of person, right? And we see tons of people who we work with, they actually view themselves deep down as a fat person who's trying to lose weight, right? Even if they've lost weight, it's always a struggle to keep the weight off because they don't view themselves as skinny.
They don't view themselves as healthy. They view themselves as someone who has these bad habits and is a binge eater. Like I had to change my relationship with food, with sugar, right?
I never really struggle with weight issues, but I always struggle with like excessively eating sugar and consuming sugar, which I found gave me brain fog. But I had to change that to viewing myself as the kind of person who doesn't eat sugar, doesn't eat that much sugar, right? I like to enjoy it every now and then, but obviously in moderation.
um but our clients like Francois who quit smoking he was able to quit smoking and he took he took he quit his software engineering job making 10k a month he's uh he's in France to starting his own software consultancy business he grew that within six months to a hundred thousand dollars a month not only not only did he quit smoking he improved his relationship with his daughter and also took his business to a hundred thousand dollars a month all as a result of him changing how he viewed himself and this is what will allow you to do that.
So don't craft your affirmations in the first person. The very first thing you should do is craft your affirmations in the third person. So now that you've taken a step back from the character, you want to craft your affirmations in the third person because you're creating this new version of yourself that you want to step into.
For example, I would say quasi is the kind of person who does this. Quasi attracts money like a magnet. Money flows into Quasi's life with ease.
Clients flow into Quasi's life with ease. Quasi is a powerful magnetic speaker that engages millions and millions worldwide with his YouTube videos, right? Quasi is an amazing, loving husband who is supportive, who builds a deep trust and relationship with his wife.
Quasi is an amazing father. Quasi is a great golfer, right? So I'm creating this identity, this form that I'm stepping into.
Do you see how this is working? I'm playing this character because these are all characters that we play in the game of life. Who you pretend to be is who you'll eventually become.
That's just it, right? Who you pretend to be is who you'll eventually become. Now, the key to this is integrating aspects of yourself that are in line with your core desires.
Otherwise, you're going to begin feeling like a fraud. For example, you may think you want something because you've seen someone else have it. So you impulsively, without giving it much thought, without giving it some soul -searching, you put it down as an affirmation.
While you're always going to struggle, it's always going to feel unnatural. It's always going to feel like, do I really want this? Is this what I really want?
Until you give yourself permission to own your own credo, what was actually truly meant for you. What was meant for you might be to get your music out there. You might just be fulfilled getting your music out there.
Maybe you don't care that much about money. Most people don't care about money. They care about what money can buy.
the kind of life money can buy. For most people, they care that money can buy them freedom so they can hang out with their family, so they can be with their loved ones and not be a slave to money and have to work to pay the bills. Like one of my clients, Tia, did.
Tia was working two full -time jobs, 80 hours a week. She had six figures in student loan debt, like almost 200, 300K in student loan debt and credit card debt. She went from that...
working with us to shifting to tier 2 .0. Now her assets are worth a million. She's paid off her debt.
She started her own speech therapy business, making 40K a month. How did this happen? Because she embodied a different version of herself that was in line with her desires, okay?
The way to do this is tier the third person affirmations, right? So affirming to yourself in the third person, that's one of the main parts of this. And again, I'm not saying first person affirmations can't work, but if you...
find that it's not working, this might be a good way to shake things up. Now, the second parts part to this is using very vivid and descriptive magnetic language. Okay.
So I'm using very descriptive language. Like quasi has the Midas touch. You know, quasi is an amazing communicator.
Quasi has a powerful voice, things that will unleash the genius within you. It's going to make you feel a certain kind of way. That's what you want.
You want to feel a certain type of way. You can't just do robotic like, well, look, there's a lot of people who are doing robotic affirmations. Again, you try whatever you want to try.
I'm telling you what's been proven to work with over 2000 people we work with. Okay. So third person affirmations and magnetic language, descriptive, vivid language, right?
Millions and millions of dollars flow into quasi's life with ease. every single month or every single year, whatever it is you want to put in there. And so create a description of what type of character this person is.
So when you craft your affirmations, create a description. Oh, quasi has the Midas touch. Quasi is a magnetic communicator.
Quasi is a powerful speaker. Quasi is a loving husband, right? So these are descriptions.
I'm describing, these are adjectives, but adjectives that actually make me feel a certain kind of way. that's what we want to do because guess what the goal with every single technique is to have heart and mind coherence to get the left and right brain synchronized that's what we want we can see a picture of quasi being this way and we feel those powerful feelings of what it would feel like to have experienced this okay as simple as that so now let's get to the third part which would be uh confirming your affirmations now guys this is a very very crucial part Because a lot of people miss out on the confirmations because this is completing the affirmations.
Okay, so let's talk about confirming affirmations what this even means So how many times in your life? Have you tried to say an affirmation like i'm confident quasi is confident, etc But you just didn't believe it. You felt like a fraud trying to convince yourself of something Do you know why that happens?
It's because you're fighting against a part of you, right? Remember we talked about with change We don't want to change.
We want to integrate the old into the new. So there's no resistance. We don't want to change.
We want to shift. That's the goal. Okay.
So what I want you to know is an affirmation. What it does is it launches the design. Okay.
It launches a design and a confirmation. It completes the design. So with an affirmation, we're creating a hollow form.
It's a hollow form of this new identity. We have no conviction in it. We have no proof.
Without proof, the mind doesn't want to believe anything. Confidence comes from competence, right? If you try to do something for the first time, you're not going to be confident.
But the more you keep doing it, the more you keep trying, failing, picking yourself back up, guess what happens? You start to build confidence. You start to believe it.
So when I first made a YouTube video, I was... Unconfident because I just never done it. I don't have the experience It would be unreasonable to expect that my first youtube video you can look back at it, right?
It'd be unreasonable to expect that my first video is going to get like millions and millions of views again I'm, not closing myself off to that opportunity, but i'm just having expectations that um won't disappoint me Because expectations, if they disappoint you, you are actually inhibiting yourself from manifesting something.
People think you should expect the best and the best, but it just ends up in disappointment. Because you keep looking, you keep expecting something and it doesn't happen, as opposed to letting life flow and letting God deliver something to you, right? You know what you want, but you're not attached to anything.
You are empty inside. When you are empty, you can receive. You can't receive if you're full.
This is the secret to everything. The ego steps in and it gets attached. I was talking to one of my one -on -one clients and he was like, hey, I just can't seem to get any traction.
I'm not getting any result right now, like something that I can grab onto. It's like things happen, little things happen here and there, but it's not the main thing. Why does this keep happening?
It's because you're looking for that. The very reason you're noticing this and it's bothering you enough for us to speak about it, that means it's in your consciousness and you're looking. for more reasons why things aren't happening the way that you want.
You're choking life. So what you're trying to do now is you're like, come on, man, I just need one win. I just need one win.
And then like something little happens and then you just hold on to it. Right? You choke life.
You're like, this is the win, man. This is my big break. It's got to happen now.
Please, God, please let it happen now. It has to happen. And the more you keep wanting it to happen, guess what happens?
You resist it. You resist the natural flow of life. Instead, enjoy the little win that you've just had, but don't be attached to it.
Tomorrow could be a bigger win or it could be a loss. Great. No problem.
This is part of life. I'm going to persist in the journey because it is the journey that I'm in love with, not the outcome. Because it is the journey that gives me fulfillment.
Guys, when I make these videos right now, we've shifted the channel strategy, right? Like I no longer want to make those like crazy viral videos. Like maybe sometimes I will.
Again, I'm just publicly declaring this. But my videos, I want to target people who are super, super, super, super nerdy about this stuff. Because I'm a nerd about this stuff, right?
I want people who are super interested and like very invested in changing their lives. And as such, I've made the decision that... we may not get as many views.
And I'm okay with that, right? I'm changing from that outcome because I've done the views, right? There was a stretch during my channel where we grew like 200 ,000 subscribers, 300 ,000 subscribers in a year, which is unheard of, right?
And every single video we're putting out was getting 200, 300, 400, 500 ,000 views, almost close to a million. literally in 2022 2023 even 2024 we had a stretch of doing that but then i realized that hey this isn't like fulfilling me because i'm not able to talk about the things i really want to talk about like i'm not able to connect with you guys you know what i mean so i want to connect with you like the people who are the day ones you know people who are very very interested in actually using these methods to change their lives not like surface level teachings right so i want depth more than surface level teachings.
And that's why, you know, I did a community post declaring my intention of the return to real, because I know with AI and so many people having access to creating content, they're just going to make surface level viral stuff and people are going to be craving depth, right? Whereas, you know, there's a great quote I heard from Naval.
He said, we're drowning in information, but starving for wisdom, right? And that's why I started this channel in the first place to share truly what works. That's one of our greatest principles.
So going back to this. We want to create this form and we want to confirm it. We want to ground it in reality.
What does that mean? For every single affirmation that you've listed out, every single affirmation you've listed out, what I want you to do is find a confirmation for it. Find proof for it.
So if you say quasi is a magnetic, confident person, well, if you've literally seen someone respond to you in a different way than usual, mentally confirm that, hey, this is a confirmation. Hey, this actually happened. Hey, this is true.
This is becoming. No matter how little it is, don't judge it. Don't judge it because it's not the grand thing.
Because guess what? The little confirmations, they snowball into an avalanche. Guys, when I was making these videos, I didn't have any comments.
It was crickets. But I was looking at the one to two views that I was getting, maybe 10, 20, 30 views, 100 views. I was like, wow, 100 people watch my video.
Look at this one comment. I would just train myself to focus on that. See, Quasi is a good video maker.
Quasi is making amazing videos. That's what I would do. I would look at those little wins until it snowballed into this channel becoming like 890 ,000.
Never in my, like if you went back, if I went back in time and you genuinely asked me, do you think you could get a channel with like almost a million subscribers? No, insane. I'd never believe that, right?
So that's how it happens. If you'd asked me like, do you think you could build a business that's doing multi -million a year? No, I'd be happy to do $250 ,000 a year.
I'd be fully set for life. If I was just making 20K a month, I am set for life. That's it.
That's all I want to do. I want to travel. I don't want to have a boss.
I want to do what I love. Don't want to make content like this. That's it.
That's all I wanted. But it will snowball. You'll just keep growing more and more and more.
Okay. So now that you understand confirmations, let's get to the 90 day challenge. And this part is crucial because you're going to literally see within the next 90 days, you're going to be unrecognizable.
All right. You guys ready for the 90 day challenge? Let's do it.
Step number one, bookmark this video. Okay. You want to save this video because you're going to be.
coming back to this. Step number two, craft your 10 affirmations using the guide. Okay, so there's a guide in the pinned comments.
I don't know if I mentioned this before. I must have mentioned it when I was doing the intro, but there is a guide in the pinned comments down below. So go to the pinned comments and access the guide.
You're going to be creating your affirmations in that guide. So you're going to create 10 affirmations.
I typically do two for each area of your life. Health, wealth, relationships, spirituality. Maybe you have a hobby that you want to be really good at.
Maybe you're an artist. Maybe you're a musician. Maybe you're a golfer.
Maybe you're an athlete. Whatever it may be, right? 10 affirmations, two for each.
And you want to use the steps that we described. The steps are also in the guide for your quick reference. But you want to craft them in the third person.
with magnetic language. Okay, that's it. Third person magnetic language.
Those are two steps. Step number three, what you want to do is create a thread below. So go to the comments and create a thread titled XYZ's 90 day challenge.
So quasi's 90 day challenge, your name, 90 day challenge. And what you're going to do is comment. You're going to comment every single day.
So with every single comment that you have, you're going to write day one. Okay. At the end of each day, you're going to come and do this.
That's why I asked you to bookmark it, right? Day one, three big confirmations today. confirmations of any of the 10 affirmations that have come to life.
Number two, you're going to rate yourself out of 10. And number three, you're going to have one focus for tomorrow. What would make tomorrow great?
And for this, I don't want you to write an external goal, something you're going to get. I want you to write down something you're going to give. If tomorrow I give this, if I put my all and make a great YouTube, oh, make a YouTube video that would make tomorrow great.
If I show up to this, like your intention for the following day, you're going to set that. And at the end of each day, you're going to do this. So you're just going to come back and do this.
And I want us to review guys in the past when I've done these 90 day challenges, the results have been phenomenal. Okay, so go ahead and do that. And let's see.
how your life changes i'm going to share with you how to access this alpha theta state and create from a very powerful place so let's start with the very first part attaining heart and mind coherence so the very first thing you must understand before we can even begin to comprehend brain synchronization is this concept of heart and mind coherence if you look at all the ancient sages they talked about the importance of aligning your heart and your mind together.
Now, different cultures had different names for this. Modern science calls it conscious and unconscious, having that be aligned. But there's a great quote that signifies this.
The quote goes something like, a weak plan executed with a definiteness of purpose will trump a strong plan executed with an indefiniteness of purpose. I'm going to say that one more time because this is very crucial. A weak plan executed with a definiteness of purpose will trump A strong plan executed with an indefiniteness of purpose.
What this basically means is that it doesn't, it's irrelevant what kind of plan you have. If the definiteness in your purpose is so resolute, you will find the strong plan. You will find a way to do it.
It will happen. When the attitude is right, the facts don't count. There's a saying that goes something along those lines.
Now, why I say that is because with every single technique, visualization, you know uh affirmation uh you're scripting something you are doing hypnosis you know you are you're trying to achieve a particular outcome what is it that we're trying to do we're trying to align a part of ourselves that we feel is out of touch or out of alignment, where there is a lack of alignment.
How do you know this? Because there is an inner conflict. One part of you wants to go in this particular direction.
Another part of you resists and it refuses. So therefore it feels like you're battling. You want to quit your job to start your business.
And every time you start your business, you always feel this block, this resistance coming up. What is that? There's a subconscious part of you that's blocking you.
Why? Because there isn't a coherence. There isn't an alignment.
That's why so many people keep going one path in their lives, whereas they know deep down that this isn't right for them. This is something that they're forcing and they're just suppressing another side to themselves because they've been taught, their minds have been taught that this is the right thing to do. Just play the safe card and just work until you're 60 and then you can retire and then you can relax.
But a lot of people are waking up to this brutal reality that just because you've worked your whole life, you still can't retire. because it's not the job's not done yet and you still haven't made enough to be able to comfortably retire be an uncomfortable retirement so a lot of unfortunately society has failed us in that in that manner because people have put their lives their true passion their true desires in the back burner so they can pursue what others have dictated for them okay so whenever you feel like There is a lack of harmony in your life.
You feel like there is a block, you know, you're moving one step forward and one step back. It's because within your psyche, there is a lack of alignment. Within your heart and mind, there is a lack of coherence.
So understand that every single technique we do is all directed to achieving this one goal. Heart and mind coherence, where the logical sides of us and our feeling side comes together. When we do that, we activate this powerful force known as outer intention.
That is the intention that's known as the godly intention, if you will, that makes God work for us to give us what we want. That is the intention that made Christ walk on water. That is the intention that brought the mountain to Muhammad, right?
So that's the intention that is non -linear. Inner intention is very, very linear. It is focused on...
affecting material reality directly. So when I go out and take massive action, and I do something to manipulate an outcome, I am doing this to get Y. I'm taking X action to get Y outcome, right?
That is very linear. However, in the nonlinear realm, cause and effect don't exist in the traditional way that we think it exists. So if I were to draw a causal chain, it would look something like this, right?
A leads to B. leads to c however this a leading to b leading to c is an illusion it presents itself as an illusion i was just speaking to a client of mine one of our one -on -one one of my one -on -one clients and we were telling him the mind just needs something palatable it needs an illusion to distract itself so that the heart can get to work but the only way to unlock the mind is what to give it an illusion to play with because otherwise it will always get in your way and it will always fight against the heart and that is where your lack of alignment comes in your lack of congruence the lack of harmony and not feeling this heart and mind coherence the mind is the gatekeeper that allows access to the most powerful parts of you which is the heart going back to this example of linear versus non -linear realms if we take a good hard look at this what you're going to find is This is the workings of inner intention.
These little chains of A leading to B leading to C. I take action here, which leads me to B, which leads me to C. I find the right business opportunity and the right business idea and then take action on starting the business.
Then it leads me to having a business and then I take more action and then I grow income in the business, right? I quit my job, start a business and then grow my income in the business. Boom, I'm financially free.
However, in the nonlinear realm, there is a nonlinear realm through which all A, B, and C are illusions that present itself. It's nonlinear. This is how outer intention works.
I want you to pay close attention to this. How outer intention works is it presents these sequences of events, and it makes it look like... It tricks the mind to think that, oh, you know, A led to B led to C.
Well, how did you know that you were supposed to find this business opportunity? How did you know you were going to be born in this circumstance? You didn't choose that.
That is completely out of your control, right? So the things that are unexplainable. unexplainable phenomena is what we call outer intention.
Explainable phenomena is just justifying the presence of unexplainable phenomena. What the logical mind does is it tries to explain all of these phenomena that have occurred by justification. Just like when you have the feeling of anxiety within your body, you try to think about why you might be feeling anxious.
Oh, I feel anxious because the weather is crap. Um, I feel anxious because, uh, I didn't pay this bill and I'm late on my credit card payment or, you know, um, I, I made a bad financial decision, a bad business decision and my trading account is down.
whatever it is, right? You try to explain why that anxiety exists. Now, granted, some of the time something anxiety producing occurs, but it unlocks other anxieties too.
Have you ever noticed how one anxiety event occurring around money leads you into a spiral to be anxious about other things in your life? Well, that's what's happening. The feeling has already been there.
You can't be anxious. You cannot be anxious if anxiety weren't already present within your body. Just think about that for a second.
I know people who, friends of mine who have lost tons and tons of money and they've, they're being sued right now by big government organizations and they're like, yeah, I've been preparing for this. I don't really care. Like it's going to solve itself.
It's just a matter of time when they don't have that present within their body, right? They don't have that lingering pain body of anxiety that's, that's been carried from a past trauma or a past life. They've dealt with that.
They've handled that. Or they were just fortunate enough to not be born with that kind of anxiety, right? Whatever the case may be, everyone is different.
And so everyone needs to do a different amount of work to attain a particular outcome. But going back to this, outer intention explains unexplainable phenomena, the presence of unexplainable phenomena, and it makes it appear. It gives the appearance that everything is appearing logical.
Oh, this had to happen. You know, when great coincidences happen in your life and you're like, oh, how did this happen? oh of course duh of course i found this right business like even when i look back at my life me being able to do these videos full -time and quit my nine -to -five job was because of course it was meant to happen i was meant to find this person who would teach me this and then you know i would start making videos and then people reach out to me for coaching and then boom i would just grow it right this was meant to happen this was my destiny it feels like that to the mind Why?
Because the mind already justifies what's already present, kind of like science. Science tries to explain phenomena that has already occurred, right? It tries to form a hypothesis based on phenomena that have occurred in the past.
It tries to explain why the earth exists. It tries to explain how it evolved, how evolution is, and how all of these known phenomena came to be. It can't predict future phenomena that would occur accurately, with 100 % accuracy, right?
The logical mind can't do that. That's what I found to be really, really interesting. Now, going back to brainwave synchronization and heart and mind coherence, the key I want you to take away from this is the goal is to always get to the heart, okay?
But the mind just gets in the way of the heart. So in order to gatekeep, open the gatekeeper, we simply have to give the mind something logical to palette. So when I was speaking to my client right now, he's working on opening up his, you know, really just...
getting started with a startup and acquiring his first few, he's in an acquisition business. Uh, and he wants to acquire his first few businesses, but now he's been working so hard in his business. He's kind of gone into debt and now he's worried about his personal finances.
And he's like, okay, if I could get a job, right, I could get a job, but that would, to me would feel like I'm moving a step backwards. Hold on. Let's take a step back here.
You going to a job. from your startup, like that you've been hell bent on trying to make work wouldn't actually be a step backwards in the grand scheme of things. It's a step forwards because you are taking stress and pressure off yourself to stay afloat.
Okay. So you have to do what's necessary right now to end the grand scheme of things, move multiple steps forward. So I advise them like, Hey, what if you took a part -time job that would allow you to at least cover your living expenses?
And that way you're not stressed and constantly anxious about money. you find a way, you know, to fully give your energy, your intention energies fully onto you moving forward with the business. And that way you can take pressure off these other avenues of making money that you've put up that haven't come to fruition yet.
So that is the crucial part to all of this is getting to heart first by giving the mind, the illusion it needs to believe in, to believe that you're going to get to where you want to get to. okay an example i can give you of this when i made the intention to start up my business i tried many different business opportunities and many different avenues to give me the financial freedom because i just wanted to make 20k a month and be able to travel the world and spend time with my family and my friends and so with every single business opportunity i tried i tried trading i tried drop shipping and i started to notice that i couldn't go fully all in because my mind couldn't see it my mind couldn't see a path forward and so i had to give my mind something palatable right For me, that wasn't my purpose and that wasn't the right way to go.
So what I instead did was I looked at my close friends who actually were doing it. I gave myself those reference experiences. So in your life right now, if you want to succeed in a particular field, try your best to surround yourself with the people who are already doing it.
If you can't find and follow people online who are doing it and try to get into as close contact, if you can become an apprentice, if you can invest in their coaching or you know, if they have coaching or pay them for consulting, whatever it is, get into that energy because guess what? The frequency that they're radiating at their brainwaves, when you surround yourself with them, it's like a, like a field.
It transfers onto you as well if you are receptive. So when you surround yourself with people like that, you begin to see that, oh, it's possible.
And I started to see my two friends at the time, Arlen and Raphael, who were making 10K a month at like 19, 20 years old. And I'm like, oh my God, I want to do this. They're traveling the world.
They're doing what they want. So I was like, what do they have? They have a YouTube channel.
Okay, what if I just started a YouTube channel? And that's what I did. I just committed to starting a YouTube channel, building an audience.
One thing led to another. Outer intention came into play because I truly felt aligned. Like I was living my purpose out.
When I was making these videos, I had this, this energy about me, you know, like I felt excited, motivated to, to, to film these videos, even if I didn't get anything from them because I knew I was sharing my message with the world. And so when I started to do that, I noticed that many people were resonating with it. And then eventually people started to reach out like, Hey, do you have any kind of coaching offering?
And at that time I had no clue that coaching would be it. So then I had an epiphany moment like, Oh my God, coaching is it. I don't need to sell t -shirts and fucking journals.
I could do coaching. And that's something that excites me because I always love to teach. And the fact that I get paid to teach is amazing, right?
And I get paid to teach this, this transformational stuff is amazing. So that's what I did. And not only was able to make 20 K a month, I started making a hundred K a month.
And then eventually like last year we did around 2 million in revenue. So it's crazy how life can change, how fast life can change. When you get out of the way and let the heart do the work.
And the only way, the main way to do that is by giving your mind what it needs, something palatable. So the mind needs an illusion to believe in. Give it the right illusion.
Now, one crucial thing about when I got started in my journey. was learning how to shift my identity. So if you remember my story, when I was trying to quit my job and start my business, all of those business ventures that I tried didn't work because I had two conflicting identities at the time, meaning I had two different ways of viewing myself.
On one hand, I viewed myself as someone who's only worthy and deserving of this nine to five. of being a full -time job worker because i was very very qualified and i bought into that illusion the mind bought into that illusion for years and years of my family my immigrant parents telling me like get a safe job study engineering and you'll be good and you can retire with ease and then i had friends in college who were also applying to jobs and i saw that okay this is the way and everyone around me no one was a business owner i literally knew no one who was a business owner and then i met two right two of my friends and i was like holy crap i want that that is cool that's cool i want that and so i i saw one sliver of hope and i expanded that sliver of hope that little pocket of that that kind of like light can sleep in through i just expanded it as much as i could hung out with them as much as i could until i absorbed and i learned how to do this potentially for myself.
And that's when I shifted into the entrepreneur identity. So the next part that I want to discuss with you. So the next part to this is learning how to consciously shift our identity in order to achieve what you want in life.
You must first become who you are meant to be. I don't know who coined that. So I'm going to take credit for it, but that's something that we teach our clients.
And what I've noticed is for most people, they're, they're pursuing a foreign goal. Society has conditioned us to pursue something that serves it rather than us.
So it says, do as I do. Society's main rule is do as I do because society itself is an energetic structure that feeds off of the cogs in the wheel. It feeds off of our energy.
This structure has spontaneously formed, uh, because of a phenomenon known as pendulums. If you look around you, there are pendulums everywhere. Pendulums are collective like -minded energies that extract its adherence energy to make it stronger.
and it spontaneously forms whenever there are people with collective like -minded thinking if you think about sports teams religions politics whenever people come together in like -minded thinking a pendulum naturally forms there are constructive pendulums pendulums that take your energy and deliver you to your goal and there are destructive pendulums that do the opposite but rest assured There are pendulums everywhere.
It's hard to escape the grasp of pendulums. You just have to pick and choose your pendulums wisely. You have to pick and choose your battles wisely, right?
So since there are pendulums everywhere, the golden rule of breaking free somewhat of pendulums influence is to be myself. I allow myself to be me and accept myself fully. The reason so many people are struggling with a lack of purpose in their lives is because of this reason.
They are subject to someone else's will. Someone else has told them who they should be how they should think how they should act simple, right? Most people tell you what to do.
They tell you how to think they tell you how to be they don't show you who you were meant to be So the goal of this the the fundamental goal of this is to unattach from our current identity, which has largely been conditioned by thoughts and attitudes of the past. So for so many people we talk to, we notice that the goals that they have, they're like, Oh, you know, I want to quit my job and have freedom, uh, and start my own business.
Well, let me ask you this. If your business were to consume even more time and be more soul sucking than your job, would you still want to go into that business? No, of course not.
So it's not the business that you want. It's the freedom that you want, but you're afraid to own it because you believe that it's not possible to have. You believe there is no such thing as a free lunch.
You believe you must trade your time for money. You believe, right? We have all of these beliefs because society has fed us.
these bullshit quotes sometimes it's like, oh, there's no such thing as a free lunch, the law of energy, the blah, blah, blah, et cetera. Well, some of them are true, right? But the thing is there is subjective truth, which other people have set, which is true for them.
And there is truth for you. What makes sense for you. Now, if I talk about hard work and I'm talking about me doing this, I enjoy doing this.
Therefore it doesn't feel like hard work to me. Do you see the difference? If I truly enjoyed my 9 to 5, I would never have even thought about quitting.
If every single moment in my job felt like I was not working but rather playing, would I ever quit? No, I wouldn't have. But because it felt so miserable, it felt worse than being in prison, that's why I quit, right?
That's why I wanted to start my business. Because inevitably, if we just look at it objectively, getting a business off the ground is technically harder. It's technically harder than just going into a job and...
getting a paycheck. Sure, the long -term upside is greater, but I would much rather do something that I love and get paid from it than do something I hate and not get paid from it, right? You don't obviously have to do that, but that's the line of thinking here.
So in order to find your true purpose, we have to remove the force conditioning. For most people, they never find their true purpose in their lives because they're always subject to this other voice in their head that they've heard when they were growing up by their parents. Their parents said this, their family said this, their society said this, their friends said this, their teachers said this.
So they always have this voice in their heads of what they think is the right thing to do, what they think is the right thing to want, right? Because growing up, Our parents have told us what to do.
Our teachers have told us, you know, what to study and like how to do homework and given us instructions and our bosses have always told us what to do. There is very little organic, original thinking, authentic thinking. If you look at the average person's life, there is very little decisions that they've made that.
Do not involve keeping up with the joneses that isn't motivated by keeping up with the joneses or fulfilling society's needs or feeding one of these pendulums But the moment you let go of the influence of these pendulums guess what happens you feel this energy within you that is Indescribable like you feel this freeing energy that just makes you feel like you're floating It makes you feel like you're in a cloud and it makes you wake up every single morning and wonder, holy shit, I can't believe this is my life.
One of our clients, Gulnaz, that's how she felt. She walked away from her job. She started working with us, used the principles, applied it in her life, and she was able to walk away from her job.
And now she feels this lifelong tension that she's held in her heart. all of a sudden just vanquish. Even though she hasn't found what to replace it with, she just doesn't feel that tension within her body that she was carrying for years.
And I know that once you stay in this state of true freedom, the right thing that you need to find, you will find. It will happen. It will just happen because you're in that right state of being, okay?
So the goal of this, the goal of identity shifting, a lot of people like to talk about this, right? They're like, oh, you got to shift your identity, you got to change your thoughts. But they don't know what they're saying.
And I don't mean to bring anyone down but like most people when they speak about this They don't understand the care that goes into like actually understanding this and being able to facilitate a transformation in someone because Identity shifting most people think is about being someone else, right? So what most people do is they try to be positive They're like, oh, you know, you just got to think positively you're being a a negative nerdy, dude It's not that.
The reason negative things are coming up is because within your psyche, something is arising that needs to be dealt with. And don't get me wrong, when I first started, I thought that too. And that's why I was frustrated with the lack of results.
Because there was always a part of me that was sabotaging me. There was always a part of me that held me back. There was always this voice in my head that said, you can't do it.
And that voice was so strong, it paralyzed me from taking action. And I felt like an imposter. right?
How do you become a 21, 22 year old going on YouTube and starting to make these videos without feeling, you know, like, Oh, I'm competing against this person, that person and Tony Robbins and this guy and that guy, like there's so much more experience than me. How do you do that? This is how, this is how you get out of your own way to be able to share your own unique organic message.
So you can make your mark on the world. And we were all meant to do that, but it's because we can't be who we were meant to be. And so this process will show you how to do that.
Before I get into that, let's understand the mechanics of how reality is created through identity, okay? So if we have this circle we're going to call reality right now, how is reality created? Have you ever wondered?
Well, at the most surface level, people think it's the manipulations. We manipulate, we put pieces together here, here, and then reality is created. I take action on my business and I make money.
Yes, that is absolutely true. At the surface level, It's very true.
It is, right? You take action, you grow your income, you change your relationship, you, you know, you quit your bad habits, whatever it is, you're taking action. That is most certainly true, but that's only one piece of the puzzle.
What influences the actions we take? It's the predominant thoughts that we think the thought feeling combination or attitude that we have. Let's just shorten it for thoughts.
The thoughts that we think move us to taking certain actions. If I think positively, I will. most likely take positive actions.
If I think negatively, I will most likely take negative actions that will create more negative thinking in my life. Is this true or no? If I think positively, then I will probably take positive actions to enhance humanity.
If I feel joyful, I'll probably take positive actions. I'll probably do something nice for someone. If I'm miserable, I probably will not do something nice for someone.
I will just focus on surviving and taking for myself. Right? What influences the predominant thoughts that we think it's the beliefs that we hold to be true.
These beliefs, just a semantic way of saying thoughts that have become deeply ingrained, but these are beliefs that we have. that we notice like, yes, I believe that people should be part of this religion or this, you know, I believe that this, um, right wing or left wing is the, you know, the, the way to go. And this is the right president or wrong president.
And the economy right now is a bad place or a great place to start a business. You have certain beliefs about it. So you have two types of beliefs and two types of thoughts.
You have beliefs about yourself, self view, and your beliefs about the world, the worldview, your paradigm and your identity. When beliefs, however, become really really strong guess what happens they become convictions what is a conviction a conviction is just a very very consolidated belief it's become so consolidated that we operate from them we never question them we question every single belief except the ones that we hold to be true very very dearly those we never think to question that's what a conviction is conviction you will never ever question now you have convictions that are true about the world and how the world operates and you have convictions that are true about yourself.
I'm pretty sure if you could change your conviction about the laws of nature and you believe you could levitate, you would probably levitate. But it's hard to do that because we made a certain agreement before coming into this world that these are the laws of this particular parallel universe. There is a parallel universe where gravity doesn't perform or work the way that it does in this world, sure.
So how did change happen when conviction was so deep? Awareness. Awareness is how change happens.
when conviction runs so deep. What I mean by that is the following. When you can look at something very, very objectively, the object that is being observed is no longer the subject.
If I can look at something, I am not it. What's happening right now is the convictions that you're operating from, you are it. You don't even know you're wearing a mask, do you?
This is just the way that I am. Oh, introverted? That's just the way I am.
Oh, I'm not the kind of person who posts on social media. Oh, I'm not the kind of person who speaks to strangers like this. Oh, I could never do that.
Hello. Why not? Oh, I'm too old to start a business or I'm too young to do this or I'm too, I don't have this skill.
I would never be able to do that. Why not? Why not?
Why not you? Why them? Why not you?
You see the stories of other people and then you're like, Oh, that's easy for them. They have something that I don't. I used to always believe that I wasn't meant to be rich.
I always believed that to be rich, you either had to be born rich or you had to know someone who is rich and then you can get rich. The rich people, they are closely guarded and they keep to themselves, their societies and their families, which is true, but it's almost impossible to be self -made rich.
You just couldn't do it. I believe that because it gave me comfort. It prevented me from putting myself out into the world.
It prevented me from having to take those risks because guess what? The biggest risk is the risk of letting yourself down the risk of trying all of those things and not achieving them and coming to the realization that it was never the thing. It was you this whole time.
It's because you kept yourself stuck here because you believe that. because you had this conviction. This is the number one reason people never transform because they never look under the hood.
They never take the curtains, the show curtains off. They never question their convictions. How do you do this?
Two -step process. Whenever a thought occurs, investigate that thought, especially if it's a triggering thought, especially if it's a thought of limitations. So for example, when you think I can't do this, or now is not the right time to do this.
We have a desire, right? You have a desire. And then whenever that desire comes up, There is an excuse or a limitation.
Ask this question next time that happens. To whom does this thought occur? We're doing this ancient Indian yogic process of self inquiry.
Sri Ramana Maharshi taught this method. It's called self inquiry. To whom does this thought occur?
This is a realization question. The realization is this identity that we're operating from. It's not us.
There is an identity. I am not it. You say I am quasi or I am this person.
You are not it. It's simply an acquired identity, but we need to look at the identity. This is the very first thing we do with our paid clients.
We teach you how to take the mask off. You have to take the mask off before the possibility of a shift can even happen. Unless the mask is off and you can see yourself for your true nature, which is that I am.
Not I am this or I am that. Simply I am. The formless, the boundless existence behind I am this and I am that.
So the first question, to whom does this occur? The second question, who am I? If you ask this question right now, you'll feel this sense of relief, this sense of peace.
Who am I? To whom is this thought occurring? To me.
The natural answer is to me. Who is this me? Who am I?
And you realize there is a watching of this I. Therefore, even this I, I am not. Whatever can be watched, I am not.
If I can watch myself, my hand, I'm not my hand. There is a hand. There is existence.
You want to get to the realization where you can say there is this identity. There is a part of myself. Have you ever noticed how it's so easy to coach someone else but not yourself?
Why? This is why. Because you can never take an objective look at yourself because you're so deeply identified with yourself.
Guess what happens when you do this practice of awareness? They've studied the brains of mystics and they've noticed that mystics are naturally. Naturally at these alpha theta, you know, um gamma low low delta brainwave states They function between those naturally they're formless and there's this network in your brain called the default mode network which is responsible for the The sense of identity that you have theirs aren't active at all that mode never lights up for them Why because they've become formless they've become for complete awareness.
They are everywhere at the same time. The consciousness is non -localized to the body. For us, the consciousness is very localized to the body.
The more you are in beta brainwave states, the more alert, anxious you are, the more it's localized within the body. So with this practice, you train yourself to take a step back. And what you'll feel is the state of emptiness at first.
That is bliss. The state of emptiness is bliss. It's peace.
One of the highest states one can achieve. It's not moving up and moving down, right? It's not highs and lows like dopamine.
Dopamine goes up, it goes down, goes up, goes down. You consume something, caffeine makes you high, drugs, whatever it is, makes you high. Then you go down.
There's a price to be paid. With anything exogenous, external, there's always a price to be paid. But when you can recreate these feelings yourself internally, You create your internal warehouse of it.
There is no price to pay. So ask yourself these two questions next time. Anytime you have a desire and immediately you try to pursue this desire.
Oh, I'm not good enough to do this. Stop fighting that voice. Instead of fighting, we're replacing fight with watch.
There is a watching that exists. This. Task will be done dispassionately.
Whatever it is you set to do, set out to do, like we have clients who want to post on social media, make videos, they feel like an imposter. What gives me the right to do this? I'm not good enough.
Limitation. This too is watched. This too is observed.
The task that was originally intended is carried out dispassionately. You don't have to be so passionate about doing the task that you set to do. Be passionate before, when you make the plans.
But when you're doing it, be in pure intention. It's kind of like making a sandwich. Achieving your goals should be like making a sandwich.
You want to make $100 ,000, a million dollars? It's like making a sandwich. Simple.
It's done. The choice has been made. That, by the way, the dispassionate intention, kind of like moving your hand.
You make the intention, you move it. You move your fingers, right? But if goals should be more like that, that's when you tap into outer intention.
It's this muscle, that... belongs to you, but does not belong to you at the same time. Right?
So key is awareness. Two questions you can ask around awareness at the right time. Desire rises limitation also arises within consciousness.
There is a watching nonjudgmental watching and a dispassionate carrying out of the action. If you'd like to take this teaching deeper, by the way, we have this identity shifting bootcamp. that will show you how to go deeper into identity shifting.
It's a five video series. You can join our exclusive email list to just access that. You can click right here or just go to realitycreator .com slash list.
That's our exclusive email list where I can share stuff that I can't really share on the channel itself because of YouTube's platform limitations. So just go to realitycreator .com slash list and immediately upon joining, you're going to get full access to the identity shifting bootcamp, which will walk you step by step through the identity shifting process that...
Literally clients have gotten prospective clients, clients who aren't even paying clients of ours, just watch our stuff for free. They've gotten transformation just from watching this. Okay.
So it's fully free for you to access. All you need to do is follow this link. The next part I want to talk to you about very, very important, how to create subconscious receptivity, make your subconscious receptive.
Only way to do that. Only way to make your subconscious receptive is by first mastering awareness by learning how to access. these alpha brainwave states so let's get to how to access alpha brainwave states right now if you're watching this video up until this point i commend you because most people probably have clicked off um but if you're here you're committed to making a transformation and for that a special gift for you we're going to be going through this meditation the heart and mind coherence accessing your alpha brainwave states together that's one of the most powerful brainwave states you can access because that is the bridge between your conscious and subconscious and that's something i've been using for the last four years ever since I've discovered this meditation.
So before we get to that, I want to explain to you the importance of becoming receptive in your subconscious mind. Because if we don't know the right times, this phenomenon called chronobiology, the right times in our biology, when our brainwaves are the slowest, we can't do the right kinds of work to impress the subconscious mind.
So what we're trying to do in our work is we're trying to make impressions on the subconscious mind. And the only way to do that, again, I described to you is to lower the resistance of the conscious mind to accessing this subconscious so therefore we must have this heart and mind coherence we might we must have the mind open up its gates so that there is access to the heart and the reason why you can't experience the life that you want to experience is because your heart and mind aren't in alignment with that one part of you wants it another part of you doesn't another part of you believes that you won't have it you're scattered in different directions and one way you'll know this for sure is whenever you think about your goal you have these resistances right these unconscious resistances and these blocks that are coming up and you don't know how to deal with them that's why this is happening so understand that morning and night like right around the time you wake up you're just coming back to consciousness you have alpha brainwave states you your brain isn't isn't an alpha brainwave state at night time right before you fall asleep your brain just as you're about to drift off to sleep
your brain again enters the alpha brainwave states. These are the two best times, like right around five to 10 minutes around when you're waking up five to 10 minutes before you fall asleep. These are the best times to do any kind of vision work because these are the best times to impress your subconscious mind.
Now, a lot of people ask like, should I fall asleep with tapes in or audios in? In my experience, I haven't found a lot of benefit to that though. I have done it.
I can't say that I have. uh but what i have noticed is if i'm listening to affirmation tapes and feeling getting into the the state like neville goddard says the wish fulfilled neville goddard was great by the way when you get into the state of the wish fulfilled right before sleep and morning when you wake up which is what we advise our clients to do and after working with 1500 clients this is what works when you do this the shift will happen in your life okay five to ten minutes right around the time you're waking up do your vision work, setting an intention for the day or any kind of vision work that you have and five to 10 minutes right before you fall asleep, right?
When you feel drowsy, you're about to drift off into sleep. Now, the key is anytime you feel like you're getting into manipulation mode, the ship is burning and you're trying to save it. The house is burning.
You're trying to save it. Don't let it burn. Let it all burn.
Create something better from the ashes. Remember, with reality creation, we're not trying to change our reality by any means. We're choosing what we want in the next moment.
If you look at the quantum space, anytime we get into change mode, we're getting into manipulation mode. We're fighting. We're fighting.
We're fighting what is instead of choosing what is wanted next. So the lowest resistance way of getting to what we want is by creating the internal attitudes, the internal reality. aka the identity of what we would like to experience in our inner world.
When we hold that strongly enough, it will be reflected in our external world. Now, this doesn't mean you won't be met with challenge, but you will have the strength to persist through these challenges. You will have the right attitude to be able to persist through these challenges.
If right now you feel lifeless and you're drained, it's not because you're on the right path. It's because you're not aligned. So there's a difference between being aligned and actually being on the right path, but challenges are showing up.
And that is the main difference. We want to turn inward and our focus is on influencing reality indirectly. That way we operate in the nonlinear realm.
If you're in the linear realm, you're always trying to manipulate and trying to get something. Best time to do vision work is morning and night. And the best way to do vision work.
the best state brainwave state to do vision work, all of your visualizations, all of the affirmations, anything you do for me, I love doing visualization. I've made countless videos on visualization, but I must get into this, this alpha brainwave state. However, there is a method via which you can connect to this alpha brainwave state, get into lower brainwave states throughout the day.
What you'll notice is throughout the day, you are going to be predominantly like especially around noon you will uh like noon to 3 p .m there's a slump right the midday slump and this happens less if you do not consume caffeine your energy levels are more stable or you don't consume anything inflammatory for lunch so those are two things i've done i don't drink any coffee i only drink tea and if i consume any kind of caffeine it's very very rare that i do it'll be from tea like today no caffeine yesterday day before like I don't remember the last time I drank any kind of caffeine.
Honestly, it must have been like a week ago. Maybe less. But I've become less and less dependent on coffee.
Like I was drinking two cups a day, maybe three. And this was last year. Like this year, I just completely quit drinking coffee.
And any kind of coffee I drink is decaf, right? With zero caffeine. What I've noticed is with coffee caffeine, there is a jitteriness and it immediately gets your brain into beta state.
And those are the brainwaves. I'm not saying those are bad. Those are necessary, but those are for junk work, right?
It's like you want to, it's for shallow work. There's deep work and shallow work. Deep work is when I'm creating a video like this.
I want to get into not just alpha brainwave states, but maybe somewhere between alpha and beta so I can get into flow. And when you get into flow, you're kind of in this sweet spot, this zone. I'm not sure if it's gamma brainwave states, but I'm definitely sure it's not beta, that franticness.
Whenever you feel frantic, like you're moving from one thing to the other, you can't wait to check something, you're craving something, right? That craving is beta brainwave state. So typically during the middle of the day or towards the end of the day when I'm like even exhausted around 5 p .m.
Let's say I'll use that time to do admin work. That's predominantly when I'll do administrative work. That doesn't require deep thinking.
Morning is when I reserve for deep thinking, visualizing, et cetera. And at nighttime, again, I do more creative work because brainwaves start to slow down right after sunset. They start slowing down a little bit more right after sunset.
Now, There's chronobiology. We're using biology to our benefit.
But there is also a way in which we can manufacture, if you will. We can create those states by doing this one particular form of meditation, the heart and mind coherence meditation. So if you will bear with me, we're going to go right onto my trusty couch and we're going to do this meditation together.
And I promise you, you're going to come out of this other side. You're going to feel like a different person. So with that.
Let's get right to the meditation. Okay, welcome to the heart and mind coherence meditation. Over the next few minutes, we're going to dive deep and really attain this connection between our mind and our heart.
And after this, you're going to maybe feel powerful emotions come up, things that may have been suppressed for a while, or you're just going to generally just feel joyous. But one thing's for sure, you're going to feel relieved and you're going to feel this connection with you that you haven't felt before. let's get right to the meditation to begin with i want you to close your eyes and take a deep breath in and count till six on the in -breath and exhale for six seconds we're going to follow this cadence of breathing six seconds on the inhale six on the exhale Take another deep breath and relax.
Feel your thoughts slowing down. Feel your mind slowing down.
And now, I want you to place your hand on your heart.
Take a deep breath in on the count of six into your heart.
Feel a connection to your heart And now I want you to think of a person in your life that you love very much Imagine a big ball of light Originating from your heart You send it out to this person Now think of two other people And send them each this ball of light Thank you, thank you, thank you Think of people in your life Who have wronged you Who have betrayed you and you feel hurt you felt hurt by them Send them love Thank you, thank you, thank you See that they didn't mean to hurt you.
They were hurt themselves.
And they were just retaliating.
See how much everyone loved you.
And now give yourself love.
You're proud of yourself for making it so far. I can't believe what you've gone through to be here today.
You've worked so hard. You've given so much. You deserve the best.
Give thanks to yourself. Thank you. Thank you.
You're so amazing.
You're so powerful.
Feel a deep connection to yourself.
A deep love for yourself.
Feel your heart growing stronger and stronger with every breath you take.
And now think about one thing in your life, one big goal that you have, one big problem that you're trying to solve.
And feel in your heart what it feels like to have solved it. And how it gets solved by itself.
And give thanks for its solution. Thank you. Thank you.
And notice that once it's gotten solved, everything just gets better and better and that you needed to go through this.
How this was a secret lesson that life wanted you to teach. And that life is taking care of you every single step of the way.
And that God never abandoned you. He was always watching after you.
Give thanks. Thank you. Thank you.
I love you.
Tell yourself you love yourself. I love you. I love you.
And I love you.
I love you so much.
On the count of three, you're going to wake up into a new reality. As a brand new person.
The kind of person who lives from love.
The kind of person who responds with love.
The kind of person who creates with love. No more battle. One more fight.
Everything that was yours, that is yours, come to you and has come to you.
You're going to wake up in three. Three, two, one.
Slowly open your eyes.
All right, that was the meditation. And I'm sure you're going to be coming back to this. I want you to take a moment to look around you right now and feel this new feeling of what it's like to have that sensation in your heart and live from that place.
I want to share something with you. Over the last six years, I've been able to achieve financial abundance in my life, mainly because of this hemispheric synchronization. What I've gone and done is developed audio tapes that will allow you to achieve brainwave synchronization.
If you use for a period of 30 days. So if you want to access that, just go to reality creator .com slash mind wave, or click on this button right here, and you'll be able to access it. I've never shared these publicly before only with paid clients, but I'm sharing them with you right now.
If you'd like to access them, what we need to do is go on this site. But what I've noticed is if you look at some of the most successful people, the wealthiest people, the happiest people it's they are that way because they don't have gas and brakes on at the same time they don't have two parts of their brains or psyches acting against each other there is a an alignment or a synchronization of the two hemispheres of their brains and that's exactly what i believe i've been able to accomplish with these with the help of these audio tapes so if you'd like to access them all you need to do is go to realitycreator .com mindwave and end this battle between the two selves once and for all and i'll see you in the next page thanks
The Hook
The bait, then the rug-pull.
The opening sells permanence. Using an addict who quits only once they stop seeing themselves as a smoker, the host splits reality into having, doing and being and puts identity at the bottom of all three. Everything after is about how to swap that identity on purpose, built from about a dozen earlier videos into one 90-day program.
Frameworks
Named ideas worth stealing.
00:48model
Having, Doing, Being
Having: chasing objects to feel worthy
Doing: acting in order to have
Being: deciding you are worthy, then acting
Three levels of change. Only working at the being level produces results that stay.
Steal forframing any transformation offer around identity instead of outcomes
35:30list
Four Pillars of Identity Shifting
Awareness
Clarity
Creation
Coordination
Empty the current identity, define the new one, project it daily with attention and intention, then hold balance when challenges hit.
Steal fora four-module course structure
41:06list
Five-question current-self audit
What habits are not serving me?
What negative thoughts and feelings recur?
What qualities do I despise in others, and why?
What past mistakes do I regret?
How do I cope with pain?
A shadow inventory done before choosing a new identity.
Steal foran onboarding worksheet
48:36model
What + Why + Who = How + When
What: intellectual clarity on the goal
Why: emotional clarity on the reason
Who: identity-level clarity on who you must become
When all three line up, the method and timing are claimed to appear on their own.
Steal forgoal-setting prompts
59:21model
Attention and intention (film and script model)
Center attention: Who am I? Where am I? What am I doing?
Set intention: a 30-second vision of the next moment or goal
Unhook from the script producing your current life, then point at a different one.
Steal fora short daily ritual
1:17:45list
Incremental surrender
Locate the feeling in the body
Breathe into it through the nose
Give it a mental embrace and feel grateful
Exhale it out into the world
Breathwork for lowering importance when anxiety spikes, repeated 3 to 10 times.
Steal foran anxiety reset
1:21:19model
Self-reprogramming cycle
Thought
Thought plus emotion becomes belief
RAS-filtered confirmations turn belief into conviction
How a passing idea becomes an unquestioned hypnotic rhythm, and the same path run on purpose.
Steal forexplaining why beliefs feel like facts
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4x2 dynamic affirmations
Two affirmations each for health, wealth, relationships, spirituality
Present continuous tense
Third person
Read on waking and before sleep
Keep a confirmation journal
Affirmations built to flex as you grow, grounded each night with evidence.
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Three visualizations
Goal: life after it is achieved, multiple scenes, before sleep, plus who you are being
Process: performing the next known step well
Failure scenario: flip the goal, see life go on, then reframe to success
Goal visualization shifts the lifeline, process visualization speeds movement along it, failure visualization releases hidden resistance.
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Mirror cycle
99%: observe reality, form attitude, reality reflects it, repeat
1%: choose the image, observe proof, reality reflects it, strengthen the image
Same loop, different starting point. Start from the chosen attitude, not from current circumstances.
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Four ways of dealing with feelings (Hawkins)
Repression
Suppression
Expression
Surrender
Only surrender dissolves the feeling rather than storing or acting it out.
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Hourly shift routine
Unattach: Who am I? Where am I? What am I doing?
Vision for 30 seconds
Assume the shift has happened
Nightly inventory: % old self vs new self, score out of 10
Small course corrections every hour for 30 days.
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Three keys to passing the test
Keep importance low
BID: blessing in disguise
Let it burn
How to keep inner balance when reality rearranges itself after a big intention.
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Two-question self-inquiry
To whom does this thought occur?
Who am I?
Ramana Maharshi's method, used to watch a limiting thought instead of fighting it, then carry out the task without drama.
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CTA Breakdown
How they asked for the click.
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A nurse capped at $100-150K a year decided to think like a millionaire before any evidence of it existed, and turned a $1M year into $50M over six years.
An 18-minute case that self-concept, not circumstance, decides what you notice, expect, and eventually receive, plus the 30-day exercise Shaun Hines uses to rebuild it.
A self-development coach breaks 'leveling up' into two moves: giving yourself permission to want more, then visualizing the version of you who already has it.
A neuroconditioning specialist argues that most journaling only reflects on the past, and reframes writing as a daily rehearsal tool that trains the brain to notice a future it hasn't lived yet.
Spiritual coach Katie Clarke tells Lewis Howes that manifestation isn't about chasing outcomes — it's about becoming, internally, the person who already has them.
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