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June 5thThe argument in one line.
Manifestation fails not because people want the wrong things, but because they have the order of creation backwards — the internal state of already having must come before any external reality can shift, and all eight mistakes in this video are variations of that single inversion.
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- You have studied manifestation or law-of-attraction material for months or years but still feel like something fundamental is not clicking.
- You have done affirmations, vision boards, and visualization but the external results are not materializing.
- You feel stuck at the same financial, relational, or creative ceiling despite genuine effort and good intentions.
- You want a structured, numbered breakdown of where the process breaks down rather than vague inspirational content.
- You are comfortable with spiritual or metaphysical framing — vibrational frequency, identity work, the three planes of existence.
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- You are looking for tactical business systems, productivity hacks, or evidence-based psychology — this is entirely a spiritual and energy-based framework.
- The presenter's use of quantum mechanics, scripture, and vibrational language as explanatory models will frustrate rather than resonate with you.
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The presenter argues that manifestation fails because people have the order of creation backwards: waiting for external outcomes to generate internal states, when the internal state must come first. Drawing on Hermetic philosophy, quantum mechanics, and Genesis, she identifies eight specific breakdowns — from draining creative energy on old habits, to letting circumstances define identity, to bypassing the aligned action that cements a new self. The antidote throughout is identical: shift who you are energetically, and your desired reality has no choice but to correspond with you.
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00:00 – 04:04
01 · The Energetic Framework
Establishes the core mechanism: you emit a frequency, reality corresponds with that frequency, like attracts like. Everything before something exists physically must first exist vibrationally.
04:04 – 17:25
02 · Mistake 1 — Focusing on Having
Unpacks the Be-Do-Have order of creation via the three planes (spiritual, mental, physical). The error is waiting for external outcomes to generate internal states. The antidote is reversing the sequence entirely.
17:25 – 26:17
03 · Mistake 2 — Staying Addicted to Your Old Reality
Attention is creative power. Old habits drain the creative battery that visualization and identity work require. Prescribes attention detox plus daily meditation as the tangible fix.
26:17 – 33:41
04 · Mistake 3 — Not Defining Your Desires
A meaningful vision is the coordinates you give infinite intelligence. Without it, the path cannot unfold. Personal story: January 2024, large sheet of paper, no timeline, decided — and now lives it.
33:41 – 39:37
05 · Mistake 4 — Trying to Change Reality as Your Old Self
The avatar exercise: define the precise version of yourself who already inhabits your desired reality, then collapse the gap by being them now. Nothing changes until you change.
39:37 – 44:48
06 · Mistake 5 — Acting as an Effect
Letting physical circumstances define identity perpetuates a feedback loop. The break: observe without being defined. Personal story: 800 euros in account, felt nothing, account never went that low again.
44:48 – 49:59
07 · Mistake 6 — Trying to Figure Out How
Your logical mind can only offer pathways it has already traveled. A reality you have never experienced is outside its range. Surrender the how — a different version of you will inhabit that reality and already knows.
49:59 – 53:41
08 · Mistake 7 — Resisting the Path as It Unfolds
The path looks like triggers, shadow work, and difficult circumstances — because it is intelligently designed to remove incompatible parts of you. You are either learning or earning. Accept the school.
53:41 – 59:15
09 · Mistake 8 — Bypassing Action
The passive trap. Energy work is not a permission slip to stop doing. Aligned action is how you cement a new identity into your nervous system and show reality that you have changed. It is non-negotiable.
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- Things cannot give you feelings — you are the one who creates feelings, which means waiting for the external outcome to feel a certain way is structurally backwards.
- The correct order of creation is Be, then Do, then Have — not the reverse. This is sourced directly from Genesis: be fruitful, multiply, have dominion.
- Your attention is your creative power. Whatever you sustain attention on, you sustain in your reality. Attention is not passive — it is generative.
- An attention detox is not about discipline; it is about reclaiming the creative battery that old-reality habits have been quietly draining.
- You cannot define your circumstances until you stop being defined by your circumstances. The feedback loop only breaks when you stop letting what you see determine who you are.
- Your logical mind can only produce pathways to places it has already been. A desired reality you have never physically experienced is, by definition, outside the reach of your current logic.
- The path to your desired reality is intelligently designed to remove the parts of you that do not correspond with who you need to become — which means difficulty is the mechanism, not the obstacle.
- Bypassing action is the passive trap: discovering energy work feels like a permission slip to stop doing, but aligned action is what cements a new identity into the nervous system.
- The avatar exercise works because the version of you who already has your desired reality is a specific, concrete person with specific habits, beliefs, and standards — not an abstract feeling.
- Physical reality is less than 1% of what exists. The visible electromagnetic spectrum is a fraction of the total. What you see with your eyes is already a narrow read on what is real.
- Deciding means cutting off every other possibility. Not hoping, not wishing — deciding. The word itself contains the commitment.
- A meaningful vision creates pull motivation, which is self-refueling. A vision built on external validation creates push motivation, which depletes. The difference determines how far you go.
Eight ways to stop blocking what you want.
WHAT TO LEARN
Every mistake in this video is a variation of the same structural error: trying to produce internal states by getting external things, when the causal arrow runs the other way.
01The Energetic Framework
- Your energetic frequency — shaped by beliefs, emotions, and identity — is what determines what can pass into your experience. Changing your frequency is the actual mechanism of change.
02Mistake 1 — Focusing on Having
- Waiting for a result to feel abundant, loved, or successful is structurally backwards — the feeling must precede the result, not follow it.
- The physical world is an effect of the mental plane, which is an effect of the spiritual plane. Trying to cause change at the effect level without shifting the causal level will not work.
03Mistake 2 — Staying Addicted to Your Old Reality
- Your attention is a generative resource, not a neutral one: wherever you direct it, you sustain more of that thing in your experience.
- An attention detox is not a digital-wellness habit — it is a reclamation of the creative energy you need to build something new.
04Mistake 3 — Not Defining Your Desires
- Without a defined vision, you have no coordinates and no pull motivation. The vision does not need to be fully believed — it needs to be decided.
- Defining a meaningful vision — one that excites rather than impresses — activates dormant capacities and keeps the process self-fueling rather than self-depleting.
05Mistake 4 — Trying to Change Reality as Your Old Self
- The version of you who has your desired reality is a different person with specific habits, beliefs, and standards. Becoming them is the work; the results follow automatically.
- The avatar exercise makes this concrete: write down who that person is in detail, then begin living as them today rather than waiting for conditions to change first.
06Mistake 5 — Acting as an Effect
- Letting a bank balance, a rejection, or a setback define your identity keeps you in a feedback loop that perpetuates the very circumstances you want to escape.
- Physical circumstances are echoes of past energy, not causes of future identity. Observing them without being defined by them is what breaks the loop.
07Mistake 6 — Trying to Figure Out How
- Your logical mind can only generate paths to places it has already been. A reality you have never experienced requires surrendering the how to a version of you that does not yet exist in your awareness.
08Mistake 7 — Resisting the Path as It Unfolds
- Difficulty on the path is not evidence you are failing — it is the mechanism by which incompatible parts of your identity are removed before you can enter the next version of your life.
- You are either learning or earning. Accepting the learning phase rather than resisting it is what accelerates the earning phase.
09Mistake 8 — Bypassing Action
- Aligned action cements new identity into the nervous system. Stopping all action because you found energy work is the passive trap — a physical body was given to you for a reason.
Terms worth knowing.
- Be-Do-Have
- The presenter's name for the correct order of creation: you must first embody the state (Be), which naturally generates the right actions (Do), which then produce the desired outcome (Have). Most people invert this to Have-Do-Be.
- The Three Planes
- A Hermetic framework: the Spiritual plane (Source/God, highest vibration), the Mental plane (thought, imagination, beliefs), and the Physical plane (matter, perceivable by the senses). The physical is caused by the mental, which emanates from the spiritual.
- Avatar Exercise
- A self-definition practice: connect to your desired reality, then exhaustively describe the specific version of yourself who already lives there — their habits, beliefs, emotional baseline, standards, and daily behaviors. Then begin embodying that version now.
- Attention Detox
- A 3-day (or longer) practice of identifying all habits, platforms, conversations, and consumption patterns that drain creative energy, listing them explicitly, and replacing each with something aligned with the new self.
- Acting as an Effect
- The mistake of treating physical circumstances as a cause — allowing what you see in your external reality to determine your internal identity and emotional state, which perpetuates the exact circumstances you want to change.
- The Passive Trap
- The tendency in manifestation communities to interpret energy work as permission to stop taking physical action — using the concept of energetic alignment as a reason to be passive rather than a foundation for more effective action.
- Integration Phase
- The transitional period after a shift in identity where the new self is showing up but external circumstances have not yet changed. The presenter frames this as the training ground where you teach reality that you have changed, not a sign the work is not working.
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20:00productThe presenter's membership community (module: Detaching from the Illusion)
36:40bookChristian Larsen quote on a great aim exposing dormant powers
44:48bookBible — Genesis (be fruitful, multiply, have dominion)
47:01bookBible — Matthew 19:26 ('With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible')
48:30linkVideo on masculine energy and rebalancing (linked in description)
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04:30
“You have to be it before you can have it.”
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“Call your energy back. Call your energy back. Call your energy back.”
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“Decide means to cut off every other possibility. I do not wanna hear it. I do not wanna know about it. I am putting my stick in the ground.”
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“You cannot define your circumstances until you stop being defined by your circumstances.”
45:32
“Every time you take your big delusional desire and you bring it to your logic, you kill that thing from unfolding in the way that it is supposed to unfold.”
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“You are either learning or you are earning. If you have not earned your desired outcome yet, it is because you are in a season of learning.”
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00:00So today, gonna be walking you through the eight mistakes that are keeping you invisible to your desires.
00:07Because you see, you are energy. Your body is energy. It's made up of particles that are vibrating at a particular frequency.
00:15Your thoughts have a frequency. Your emotions have a frequency. Your beliefs carry a frequency.
00:21So you overall energetically as a being, you are emitting an extra electromagnetic field around your body constantly.
00:28That has a frequency. And then everything in this universe has a frequency as well. And before something can exist physically, it has to exist vibrationally.
00:36It has to exist energetically. So we, through our energetic frequency, we correspond with certain potentials in the field where everything exists.
00:46And when we energetically correspond with them, we begin to collapse those things into matter, into material form in our experience of reality. And so the number one thing that you have to get right if you are going to manifest something is you have to start vibrating in resonance energetically with already having that thing.
01:08That has to become your energetic frequency. And so the eight mistakes that I'm gonna be sharing with you today are the eight things that are causing you to come out of that harmonious vibration.
01:20And therefore, the energy of your desired reality, it cannot pass through you and to you and into your experience because you don't energetically resonate with you.
01:29It has to go around you. Okay? Because that is essentially how manifestation occurs, by the way.
01:34You're here. You're emitting a particular frequency. Okay?
01:39And that which resonates with you vibrationally according to your energetic frequency passes to you, through you, into your reality, into your life because it cannot tell the difference when it's the same energy. This is why like attracts like.
01:53When you're vibrating at the same energy of that which you desire, it can't tell the difference between you and it. And so it can pass to you and through you. So the energy that you are embodied in and the frequency that you are emitting is what you experience more of always.
02:09And so manifesting your desired reality is essentially shifting your frequency and shifting your energy to correspond with that which you desire.
02:19So the moment let's say let's just represent the energy of your desired reality as this green type of energy. Let's just say that's the frequency. That's the energetic vibration of your desired reality.
02:29Let's say it's joy, abundance, freedom, confidence, etcetera, etcetera. You essentially have to become that, okay, energetically.
02:45And the moment you become that energetically is the moment that that energy can start to pass to you and through you and into your reality. So this is why a good person like my cute guy here, he can have all the best intentions. He can be trying really hard.
03:00He can be working really hard. He can be consuming all the content, but he still can't have his heart's desires.
03:07It's because he's not working with the laws of the universe, and he's not getting an energetic resonance with that which he desires. Therefore, he cannot have it. You have to be it before you can have it.
03:16Okay? So let's get into the eight mistakes. So the first mistake that you've been making that's been keeping you out of energetic alignment with that which you desire is you've been focusing too much on having.
03:28So this focusing on having is a mistake that I see most people make when they begin to learn about manifestation and they begin to realize that they can create their own reality. They go, oh my goodness.
03:40The law of attraction is real. It works. I'm creating my reality.
03:45So I'm gonna change my focus. I'm gonna say, I want this thing.
03:48I'm gonna start saying affirmations and focusing on the thing that I want, the thing that I want, the thing that I want. Because when I get this thing, then I will be good enough, then I will be happy, then I will feel rich, then I will feel loved, etcetera, etcetera.
04:04Okay? So most people are focusing on the thing or the outcome to give them a state of being that they feel they currently lack.
04:28Okay? So this is most people's experience. When I manifest a $100,000, then I will feel rich.
04:35I'm gonna focus on, you know, becoming rich and famous, and then I will feel good enough. I'm gonna attract my dream partner, and then I will feel loved. The danger in this focusing on having is if this is your way of operating, you fundamentally have the order of creation backwards.
04:54You're not doing it properly. You have it upside down. Okay?
04:57Because the thing is, things cannot give you feelings. And the actual correct order of creation is as follows.
05:06It's be, do, have.
05:14Not have, do be. Be do have.
05:21So you have to be abundant internally. You have to be loved and loving internally before you do the actions that correspond with that energetic state, before you can have the physical outcome that corresponds with that state.
05:36Okay? And I'm gonna just break down the order of creation for you guys again just so you really get this. So we exist across three planes.
05:43The Hermetists call these the three great categories of life manifestation. So essentially, we are existing in an infinite universe where there are infinite energetic potentials existing as waves of possibilities.
05:55The physical world, the material world that we are embodied in right now is less than 1% of what exists. You can see this when you look at our senses. Right?
06:05What we're having here is a sensory experience. That is what we call reality. Reality is essentially a gathering, a grouping of particles that are vibrating at a particular frequency that is perceptible to our five senses.
06:20So visible light goes into our eyes and is processed through refraction and sends electrical signals to our brain, and that's what we call vision. That's what we see at sight. Right?
06:29The things that we see as real and reality. That's what that is. And visible light, what we can process, is less than 1% of the entire electromagnetic spectrum of light.
06:39Same with our other senses, same with sound. We're perceiving a very limited range of particular frequencies through our senses, and then our senses are basically interpreting that information and sending it to our brain.
06:53And that's what we call reality is what we're perceiving through that whole experience. Okay?
06:58So the physical world is a tiny portion of the entire spectrum of what exists in vast reality. And as well as that, the physical plane is one of the densest planes.
07:10So if you wanna think of this in terms of dimensions, if you wanna think of it in terms of planes, whatever floats your boat, but this is the three d world or the physical world. Beyond this, there are higher vibrational planes.
07:20There are higher vibrational rounds in existence. And you can know this because if you think about the physical world so let's just represent this with shapes.
07:29This has somehow become my go to. Like, the physical world is not a causal world.
07:35It's not the origin point of everything that exists. So if you even think logically about that, it's like, okay.
07:43There has to be something higher. There has to be something beyond our senses that created that which we are experiencing.
07:50There has to be something that created my body, my brain, the wind, the trees, my eyes, my senses, and the consciousness that is inhabiting this body and that is firing into this brain and making me have thoughts on the mental plane.
08:06Right? So there is a source of all creation. That source is the spiritual plane, or God, or source consciousness, or the all, or whatever you wanna call it.
08:19When you're wanting to get the order of creation correct so that you can actually use it effectively in your reality and make sure you're aligned with it energetically, then you have to become aware of where everything was even created from.
08:33It's created from the ultimate source, which is god or the spiritual plane. Okay? Everything is an emanation of this source energy.
08:42Everything is contained within this source energy. Everything is this source energy. Okay?
08:48So that is the highest vibrational plane. And from there, essentially, we are existing in a vast sea of consciousness that exists in different forms depending on its rate of vibration, depending on its frequency.
09:02And so kind of a middle form of consciousness is what we call the mental plane. You know that the mental plane is real even though you can't touch it, see it, because you're thinking thoughts all day long in your mental field.
09:15You can imagine things. Right? You can use your mind.
09:19You have intellect. You know you're existing on the mental plane because you're experiencing it constantly. But it's not the same vibration as the physical plane, so you can't touch it with your senses.
09:29Because all the physical plane is is energy vibrating at a frequency that we can touch, feel, experience with our senses. So the mental plane is the realm of thought, mind, imagination, etcetera, etcetera.
09:47And then the physical plane is the world of matter. Its particles vibrating at a frequency that is perceptible to our senses as we know. Okay.
09:55Now here's where it gets interesting. Right? When we think about the order of creation, the physical world did not create the mental world.
10:03That would not make any sense. No. Just like the mental world didn't create God or source.
10:09Because source is a higher form of consciousness than the mental field is, than thoughts, our personal thoughts.
10:16Right? Even though man was created in God's image, and therefore man has the same creative faculties as God, we have creativity.
10:24We have imagination. We have the ability to create pictures in our mind. Man was created in God's image.
10:30We are still not creating God. We are still just a fractal of that energy.
10:36Right? So a higher form of consciousness is never going to be created by or defined by a lower form of consciousness.
10:46And in the same vein, the physical world is a lower form of consciousness than the mental plane. Therefore, the mental plane is the cause, and the physical plane is the effect.
10:58And even if we think about this logically for a second, you guys, let's bring it back. Okay? So this is how this is how cause and effect works beyond the physical world.
11:06But cause and effect in the physical world, you might be thinking, okay. If I just take more action, that's usually how we think about it in the Newtonian sense. I'll just take more action, and then I'll get more results.
11:14Action equals results. Action equals results. But at a particular point, you can keep taking action and keep taking action and keep taking action.
11:22All of a sudden, you're capped out at the amount of action you can take because action is a component of physical reality because you're using your physical body to do it. And then you need to change the type of action that you're taking in order to get a different result.
11:37Because there's people out there who are running 6 figure per month month businesses who take less action than you do, but they're taking the right actions. What's the difference between you and those people?
11:51They've shifted on the causal realm, on one of the causal realms, which is the mental plane. They've changed what they're holding in the mental field. They've changed what they're focusing on, their thoughts, their beliefs.
12:03That changes their perception, which changes the actions that they can even perceive to take. And then they take action differently, which causes a different result in physical reality.
12:14Okay? And so the order of creation is be be it in your mind, in your self-concept, in your identity, in your thoughts, in your beliefs, in your energy, then do from the aligned energy with that which you desire, and then you will have.
12:36But you have to be it first. Why? Because you having higher faculties, you are the cause, and the physical world is the effect.
12:46So for mistake number one, focusing on having, the antidote is to reverse the way that you're looking at your situation and manifestation. It's not about having. It's not about getting something in physical reality so that you can feel a certain way.
13:01It's about realizing that you're the creator being. You're the higher form of consciousness. You're the one creating your emotions, your state, your beliefs, your thoughts, what you're focusing on, what you're picturing in your mind.
13:12That is what's connecting to a particular outcome, a particular potential in the infinite field of potentials that exists. That is what's causing you to energetically resonate with that thing, and then that thing starts to materialize into your reality in physical form. Quantum mechanics has shown that electrons, the things that make up what we call physical reality, before they become particles in the physical world, they exist outside this 1% world in the 99% field as waves of potential, just energy, energetic waves, not existing in one particular state, existing in many possible states.
13:47Meaning, it's possible that this can become a particular energy or a particular form, but it hasn't become that form yet. And then quantum mechanics showed us in the double slit experiment that when these waves of potential in the field are observed by an external observer, they begin to behave as particles.
14:07I e, they begin to change and go from possibility to form.
14:16What does that show us? You, as the higher form of consciousness, existing with mental faculties gifted to you by source and creative consciousness.
14:28When you observe an energetic potential with all of these tools in your toolbox, imagination, thoughts, beliefs, emotion, intuition, when you start harnessing that energy and using the powers that you have by existing on the mental plane, don't you think it's amazing that you have all of these assets available to you on the mental plane?
14:47When you actually use them to focus your energy on your desired potential, then you are observing that thing and it can start to become form.
14:57And so everything that you have materialized in your reality up until this moment, you've materialized it because you've been observing it constantly, probably on autopilot. And it's not just about saying, I want this thing and thinking about the thing, but still feeling the same, still believing the same, still viewing yourself the same.
15:16It's about shifting your energy so that you already feel like you have the thing.
15:23That is how you actually correspond energetically with it. That is how you actually fully observe it energetically. And that is when that thing will start to become a physicality.
15:32So if you've come into this space thinking you're going to focus on having and when I get the money, if I can manifest this thing, if I can manifest that, then I will feel loved, then I will feel good enough that I'm sorry to to shake you and wake you out of that, but that is not ever going to work. Manifestation is not about having something externally.
15:51It's about having it internally, and then the external reflection of what you perceive as reality changes automatically. That is manifestation.
16:01Because you're the creator being, and everything that you see in a physical world is just a byproduct of your energy. That is all. So the antidote and how you get over this mistake, you stop focusing on having when I have this thing, when I have the thing.
16:14No. You focus wholeheartedly on being. You want to get love in your reality, focus on being love internally, then you will get it in reality.
16:25You want to get money in your reality, focus on feeling wealthier and more resourced internally, then you will get that in reality. You want to get success to make you feel confident in your reality, focus on feeling confident first and removing all the blocks that are stopping you from feeling and being confident now, And then you will start to energetically resonate with a reality of confidence, of success, whatever that looks like for you.
16:50The good news is the moment that you do shift this, and the moment that you do start being the energy that you wish to perceive in reality, because the only energy you could ever perceive in reality is that which you are, the moment you start to do that and embody it, the moment you become the sunshine, is the moment you start to see it externally.
17:09So it's gonna save you a lot of time, a lot of heartache, actually a lot of effort wasted on the wrong things. When you take the reins back and you take responsibility and you realize you're the creator being and the moment that you shift your energy, that is the moment your perception shifts, and that is the moment your reality shifts.
17:26Okay. Now that you know the order of creation and you've cleared that up and you're never again gonna say, when I get this thing, then I will feel you. Gonna know I'm gonna feel it now, and then I'll get the thing.
17:34Now that you know that, congratulations. You know more than 99% of people. You've actually just stepped into the role of the creator being that you were designed to be.
17:43So congrats. The second mistake that may be keeping you invisible to your desires is staying addicted to your old reality.
17:51Okay. So this one is so simple and so obvious, but it's one of the biggest ones that keeps people struggling to manifest.
18:00If you can't focus on what you prefer because your focus is so tied up in what you don't prefer, then you won't be able to shift your energy and start resonating with the reality that you do prefer.
18:13Okay? And a lot of people, when they get into this space, they find it really difficult to create a vision, to get clear on what they want, to do the inner work, start becoming the version of them that can have what they want because their focus is so tied up in the old reality, in old circumstances, in old habits.
18:36And that addiction and that attachment to the old reality is very energetically draining.
18:44So I want you to think of it like this. You have creative consciousness. What you direct that creative consciousness at matters.
18:52What you pay attention to is really, really important. Your attention is the gate through which information gains access to you and your subconscious mind, where it can program you and start to program your experience. Also, what you're directing your attention at constantly, that begins to grow.
19:09You sustain that in your reality the more that you focus on it. Why?
19:14Because you're the creative consciousness that's creating your whole experience. Okay? And the most important thing to know, when you're starting to shift your energy and you want to shift to another reality, if you're trying to do that from a place where you're still very much addicted to putting your attention on all these things that don't serve you and that drain you and that keep you energetically stuck at the same level is it's also draining your energy to be like this.
19:39Okay? So let's just say you have a particular amount of energy every single day. You actually have a tremendous amount of energy within you.
19:48You have a tremendous amount of creative potential within you. But when we go throughout life and we pay attention to news, to gossip, to drama, to things that don't serve us, to scrolling, to watching TV, to all of the stuff that is just draining us, Essentially, if we start the day with an energetic battery up here, but we're on autopilot, addicted to our old reality, our old conversations, our old consumption, whatever it is we're doing, our energy gets drained, our life force gets drained, and then we're down here.
20:22And then we're wondering why we don't have the capacity to visualize our dream life or to create something new. Your is drained from your addiction to your old reality, from your addiction to your old habits.
20:39You need that energy if you're gonna create something new. It's your creative it's your creative power.
20:45You need that. It's nonnegotiable. Okay?
20:47And so this is the one of the most tangible and practical steps that you cannot miss when you're trying to manifest a new experience into your reality. You've got to recharge your creative power by taking your attention back off all of the things that no longer serve you.
21:08You have got to learn how to control your attention and control your focus if you want to start becoming a master manifester.
21:18Because whatever you focus on, you're basically sending your creative energy into that thing, and you're creating more of it. And so if you have no awareness as to what you're focusing on or no control on what you're focusing on, you're misusing that creative power left, right, and center when you could harness that and put it on what you want to experience more of.
21:39This is why module one in my community is literally called detaching from the illusion. And one of the the main things we do in there is we meditate. We call our energy back.
21:47We call our energy back. We call our energy back. We regulate the nervous systems.
21:50We do an attention detox. Right? Because if you're going around here on low battery and I tell you to visualize your dream life, you won't be able to.
21:59You don't have the energy to do it. So this is one of the most tangible first steps, especially if you feel like you've lost clarity, even if it's not your first step, even if you have successfully manifested things, you're stuck again and you have lost clarity specifically and you feel like you're just drained and you don't have the energy to create something new, please start to control your focus and call your energy back from everything outside you that has been draining you, that you have on autopilot been feeding your attention and life force into.
22:32That's your energy. That's your resource. Call it back.
22:36Tangibly how you can do this. This is how you start refilling this battery. You do something like an attention detox.
22:43So in the community, we do it for three days where essentially you list out you become aware of all the things that have been stealing your energy without you realizing it, little things like scrolling certain conversations, etcetera, etcetera. And you commit for three days or however long you wanna do it. You may end up doing it forever like a lot of people do.
22:59You commit to whenever you notice that you're starting to pay attention to this thing or do this thing that drains you, you pull your energy back and you let it go, and you focus on something else. So you can write a plan of the thing a list of the things that are draining you and then a list of replacement habits or things that you're gonna focus on instead.
23:15That makes it a lot easier. And then the other thing I've written here is focus control. Okay.
23:20For me, the best form of training your focus and training your mind is meditation. It's the most direct form. If you sit down and close your eyes, your brain, your thoughts are gonna run away with you.
23:31They're gonna go on autopilot. They're gonna focus on certain things on autopilot. Meditation gives you the space to notice that you're not just what you're focusing on.
23:41You're the observer of those thoughts. And when you start to realize that you're not just the thoughts, you're the consciousness, the observer behind the thoughts, then you start to realize that you are the one who's actually in control of those thoughts.
23:54You are the one who can essentially take that conscious awareness off one potential or off one thought or one thing you're focusing on.
24:04You can take it and put it on something else. That is what meditation allows you to do. So that's what I mean by focus control.
24:11Because that will break your addiction. Like, every day we wake up, you guys, and we remember who we are. We remember our personality traits.
24:19We remember what we're stressed about. We remember what we're worried about. We remember all our limitations.
24:23We remember all of this stuff on autopilot. Then we have a certain chemical reaction in our bodies. That's a certain emotional baseline that we're also addicted to.
24:32So all of this is the known familiar stuff that we become so habituated to, that we just stay entrenched in it and stay addicted to it. If you wanna drastically change your life, if you wanna achieve your dreams, that familiar baseline that you're addicted to has to go.
24:49It has to go. And so you've got to consciously, especially if you can meditate in the morning, it's even better.
24:56Take your awareness back from these thoughts, from these beliefs, from this perspective that you have.
25:03Start to question the way you're looking at things. So when you meditate and the reason I love meditation for this process, for breaking this addiction, is because it's almost like your consciousness is going down a pathway that's been well trodden. So it's easy to see.
25:16Your brain is gonna conserve energy, so it's gonna use the the familiar pathway. Right?
25:23When you meditate, you see that happening, and you can begin to catch your consciousness.
25:29You create the space to catch your awareness before it goes down that pathway and put it down a new pathway. And at first, you're gonna feel resistance because this new pathway, it's not as well trodden. It's not as easy to walk.
25:40But because you have that space and you're able to observe rather than just be in the thoughts, you have the power to do that. So rather than staying addicted to the old reality, you need to create space and separation from your old reality by controlling your attention, do a detox, and begin to control your focus through things like meditation.
26:00Okay. The third mistake, keeping you invisible to your desires, is not defining your desires.
26:11I always say, it is much easier to let go of the olds when you have a clearly defined new to hold onto.
26:22Okay? So if you're trying to let go of your old life, your old circumstances, your old financial situation, whatever it is, but you haven't defined the new, what you want, then you're gonna not really have anything to hold on to that's going to pull you out of your old circumstances.
26:40Also, if you don't put your stick in the ground and define where you're going, if you don't give those coordinates to the infinite intelligence, to the universe, then the path can't start to unfold to get you there. You have to be the one who decides it and defines it.
26:54Okay? And I'm gonna give you a caveat when you're defining your desires. You want to be defining a meaningful vision.
27:01You wanna make sure the things that you're writing down actually mean something to you, are actually fulfilling to you in some way, are not just about external validation or approval. Because a meaningful vision, what it actually does is it brings you into alignment.
27:20It removes all the parts of you that aren't really you, and it creates more energetic coherence with who you really are and your intention of your higher self for you in this lifetime.
27:32And as well as that, if you define a meaningful vision, no no matter how crazy or delusional it seems that genuinely excites you, it is going to empower you unlike anything else. There's a quote that I love.
27:44I won't remember the full thing, but it's by a man called Christian Larsen, I think his name is. And he essentially spoke about when a man has a great aim or a great purpose that is so much bigger than him, he will discover himself to be a larger man than he ever thought he could be.
28:04Dormant powers and faculties and innate talents come to life that he never knew were there before. That is what a meaningful vision will do for you.
28:14It will illuminate your potential.
28:18It will expose every part of you that's blocking that potential, and it will get you into your most empowered self. Because there's two types of motivation. There's push and there's pull motivation.
28:29Push is that grit, that discipline, that grind. You need push. But you will not go as far as you could go if you have push and pull motivation.
28:39Because pull motivation is that type of motivation that's so much bigger than you. When you know what you're doing is bigger than you, it gives you intrinsic drive, intrinsic motivation.
28:51So, essentially, it's like a self refilling battery. The more you work towards this thing, the more you think about this thing, the more it fuels you and drives you, which means you will go a whole lot further than someone who's chasing a non meaningful vision, a vision that's been created for external validation or other reasons that are just not really aligned.
29:12I can literally smell your question through the camera. How do I know what's a meaningful vision? How do I know what's aligned with me?
29:17I can't even think about that. You will not be able to connect to your meaningful vision if you're disconnected from yourself. How can you know what you want if you don't know who you are?
29:26Okay? So if you're really struggling to figure out, oh, I don't even know what's meaningful to me, start to get to know yourself first. Start to build a relationship with yourself first.
29:35Come home to yourself and your energy. Start to journal. Start to talk to yourself.
29:40Start to meditate. Okay? And start coming out of survival mode is the other thing.
29:45So start to know yourself. Start coming out of survival mode. Because if you're in survival mode, you are not in creator mode.
29:51You will not be able to visualize. A lot of people that are like, I can't visualize. Yes.
29:54It's because you are in fight or flight mode in your nervous system. So you've got to regulate your nervous system, signal safety to your body, come out of fight or flight, and then your visual components, your visualization, that capacity will come back online.
30:08You'd be amazed how quickly it'll come back online. And then once you're there, you don't need to have a five year, ten year plan, but just something that is meaningful to you that you can hold on to and define.
30:20Just start there. So write down. Maybe you wanna start with an income goal.
30:23Maybe you wanna start with a project you wanna work on or something you wanna launch, whatever it is, or something you wanna change in your environment. Maybe you wanna move. Just start with what you have.
30:33And once you define something, you wanna do something really powerful, which is to decide decide that that's where you're going.
30:49This is what I did, you guys, back in January 2024 when I was still living in my mother's house in Ireland in the tiny spare bedroom, and I was making a couple of thousand euros per month on my marketing agency.
31:03I was super out of alignment. I was completely alone. I was single, and I was like, I cannot keep living this way.
31:10Something needs to change. I'd had three toxic relationships. I just knew my life was so far from what I wanted it to be deep down inside.
31:17And one day, on the 01/11/2024, I took a large sheet of paper, and I wrote down where I wanted to go.
31:27I didn't put a timeline on it. I didn't put a time frame on it, but I just said, this is where I'm going.
31:36And I wrote down YouTuber. I wrote down community. I wrote down mindset content.
31:41I wrote down amazing opportunities. I wrote down beautiful, supportive relationship. I wrote down living in Spain, living in the palm tree, da da da da da.
31:49And then I wrote down all the emotional states that I corresponded to these experiences. I wrote it all down on a big sheet of paper.
31:56And I was looking at that, you guys, and I was like, I have no idea how that's gonna happen, but I'm deciding that this is where I'm going.
32:05I am deciding. What does decide mean? Decide means to cut off every other possibility.
32:14I don't wanna hear it. I don't wanna know about it. I'm putting my stick in the ground.
32:19These are the coordinates of this matrix that I'm going to. This is the energetic section. This frequency is exactly where I'm heading.
32:26I don't know how I'm gonna get there, but that's where I'm going. I said that on the 01/11/2024, and then I was taken on the craziest journey, the craziest path, and now I live in that reality.
32:38Okay? And it it felt like it was a thousand miles away. Only, like, 1% of me believed in it at the time.
32:44That's all you need. You don't need to believe in it. You just need to decide that no matter what, no matter even if you feel like it's impossible, that somehow, someway, because you know what's in your highest good, that's where you're going.
32:57Which takes me to the fourth mistake that keeps you invisible to your desires.
33:05Trying to change into a new reality as your old self. Mm-mm.
33:11Mm-mm. You are your reality.
33:15The self and the reality are one and the same. You, who you are, your identity, yourself, has a particular energetic frequency. That frequency dictates what you're perceiving externally as reality.
33:25It's what you're corresponding with in the external world. And you are not just this old self, this old character that you've been playing. You're also the player of the character.
33:35So you have the power to change the character that you've been playing and therefore change the outcome that you get. Remember, you guys, the order of creation is b, then you can do, then you can have if you're wondering where I'm getting that from, it's from Genesis.
33:50Be fruitful, multiply, and have dominion. It says it right there early on in the Bible.
33:54That is the order of creation in Genesis, in the Bible, as said as stated. So first, you have to be before you can do, and then you have to do before you can have.
34:05I was schooled on this, you guys. So I wrote down in January 2024, YouTuber, all of this stuff.
34:10Right? I was forcing in an old identity for quite a while until I realized that that was not gonna work. And I remember clear as day when I came up with this practice, it changed the game for me.
34:22I remember I posted a couple of videos on YouTube, and they weren't doing well. And I have this whole self sabotage thing happen. And then I realized, wait a second.
34:30These videos are not that good. They're not that good. They're not at the standard that they need to be at for me to have the results that I would like to have.
34:38So the way that I was doing content creation was misaligned with what I wanted to have in my results.
34:45But I had this light bulb moment of like, wait. The way that I'm doing it up the way that I was doing it up until that moment was the only way that that old version of me knew how to do it. And if I wanted to do it differently, I had to become the version of me who already knew how to do it differently, who was already more successful at it.
35:07So I had this huge light bulb moment, and I did exactly what you need to do if this is you and you're trying to operate from an old frequency, an old identity, an old mindset, is you need to realize that who you are here and who you are in your desired reality are two totally different people.
35:28It's a totally different version of you. The moment that you become that version of you is the moment that the path starts to unfold to that desired reality, but not a moment before. Nothing changes in your reality until you change.
35:39And we spend a lot of time worrying about the how and trying to force in the old self when the only thing you actually need to focus on is becoming the version of you who's already there. So the most direct path to manifest a change in your life is to take the vision that you just defined in the last step, connect to it, see it, feel it, visualize it, and then notice who are you in that reality.
36:02What does this version of you talk like, walk like, smell like, think like, act like? What do they believe? What are their standards?
36:10What are their boundaries? How do they dress? Who is the version of you who is there already?
36:16And this is where I came up with the avatar exercise.
36:20So you connect to that version of you, and then you define all around their habits, their traits, their emotions, beliefs, standards.
36:38When I did this, when I first realized this and I first did this and I connected to the version of me who was doing well on YouTube rather than every video flopping, I realized, wow.
36:49This version of me is totally different to the version I've been acting as. This version of me meditates every day. This version of me reads every day.
36:58I was not even reading back then. This version of me brainstorms different ideas and spends more time writing and and processing information. This version of me takes bolder action.
37:09This version of me makes sure the camera is set up properly and the lighting is set up properly. This version of me records more consistently. Right?
37:16And then traits, it was like consistent, dedicated, disciplined, calm, humble, and so on and so forth.
37:23So I had these huge lipo moments when I first did this on how different the version of me who had what I desired was from the old version of me. So I wrote it down on a whiteboard at home, and it was filled like it was loads of little stuff, big stuff, what time she got up, what food she was eating, her attitude, everything, everything.
37:41And I looked at that. And once again, I said, I decided. I'm like, right.
37:45From this day forward, I am becoming that version of me because she knows what to do to have the results that I desire.
37:54So all I have to do is become her. When I focus on the being, the doing and and the having will look after themselves automatically. Just like you guys.
38:03Just like who you're being right now. You don't need to think about what you're doing. You don't need to you don't need to figure out how to do what you do or how to have the results that you have.
38:12Let's say for example, you're in a very limited financial situation. You're you're struggling financially. Who you're being naturally corresponds with the actions that you take to keep you in a reality where you're struggling financially.
38:25It keeps you naturally corresponding with the doing of certain actions and the having of certain outcomes that you don't prefer because it corresponds with your being. It's the same thing for your desired reality.
38:36As soon as you get the being, the doing and the having look after themselves automatically. And this literally is what happened to me. I started showing up as this version of me, and everything started to change.
38:45And I've redone this exercise a thousand times since then, and it's changed my life every single time. Because honestly, the only reason that you want particular outcomes in reality, you want to have things, is because it represents the growth in your character. So why not go all in on becoming that character now because that's the part of the process that is most meaningful anyway.
39:05This one, I've done entire videos about this one, is acting as an effect. Okay?
39:11This goes back to the order of creation, but this is a little bit deeper. You might be motivated right now to change your identity and do the avatar exercise that we just did and start stepping into that version of you. But the one thing that slows people down time and time again, they set all these intentions, they get all excited, and then life comes and slaps them in the face, and they take it.
39:31They take the slap, and they let it define them. They let it default them back into their old state, back into their old identity.
39:41And so this is one of the biggest mistakes that keep people out of energetic alignment with their desired reality is they continue to be defined by their old circumstances and their old reality. They continue to take their old circumstances as law, as definitive.
39:57Right? And I always give this example, but, essentially, people stay in this feedback loop of I see a particular number in my bank account.
40:03I see lack. I believe in lack. I feel lack.
40:07I think about lack. I identify with lack, and then I see more lack.
40:16Effectively, they're saying, when I see lack, that means I am lack. They take that energy on board. They treat their circumstance as a cause when physical reality is never a cause unless you say it is, and they treat themselves as an effect.
40:31They allow themselves to be defined by something that is a noncausal component of this universe. And the only way to break that feedback loop is to say, I see lack in my physical reality.
40:41I realize that this is an echo of a past energy that I've been embodied in. And now that I have the awareness that I have and the tools that I have, I am going to shift my energy today knowing that I am the creative consciousness here.
40:58And as soon as I shift my energy, my identity, my focus, my thoughts, and my beliefs, what I perceive in external reality in my circumstances will start to shift immediately. With that new awareness, you can say, I see lack.
41:11I am no longer going to be defined by lack because I realize I am the one who's creating these circumstances. I break the feedback loop. I don't say I am lack.
41:20I say I am abundant or whatever it is that you wish to define yourself as. So you stop acting as an effect, and you start acting as the cause that you are.
41:33You are the cause. You remember that you are the cause, that you are the creator being, that you are one with the creator god. So, of course, you have creative faculties.
41:41You've gotta start believing in your energy, in what you can see in your mind over what you see with your eyes. Because what you see with your eyes is just a past energy that's been frozen temporarily in physical form.
41:55The only thing sustaining it and keeping it alive is your reaction to it and you being defined by it, you staying in energetic resonance with it. That's perpetuating the cycle of it. So please remember me saying, you cannot define your circumstances until you stop being defined by your circumstances.
42:13And I told this time and time again, but this is how I shifted my financial situation. This is the last hurdle for me.
42:19I had the worst money mindset ever, you guys. It was my kind of my last hurdle in reality.
42:25Everything else was changing, but money I just couldn't grasp. And I really was learning the power of my energy, the order of creation, how physical reality is just so temporary, and it's just a byproduct of our energy. And we're just having this mirror feedback loop constantly.
42:39And I looked at my bank account knowing this, having this new awareness, and there was €800 in there, and I felt nothing. Before, it would send me into a spiral.
42:48Oh, who am I? I'm never gonna be good with money. No.
42:52This day, knowing the power of my energy, of my identity, of my focus, I looked at that, and I said, this is no longer relevant because I've shifted my energy, my identity, my state, my narrative, my focus, everything.
43:06And I will never see that again in reality from this moment going forward because I will never shift my energy back to that place again. And my bank account has never been that low again.
43:17It will never be that low again. Why? Because my energy was never that low again.
43:20Alright? So do not fall into this mistake.
43:26It's a very lucrative trap that the external world lulls you into. We fall for what we see with our eyes, not realizing we're creating it all in the mind. Don't act as an effect.
43:36Act as a cause. It's who you were meant to be. And within that last one before we move on, you have to be okay being a new self in an old reality for a little while.
43:47So you're gonna spend a little bit of time, like, showing up as this new version of you trying and failing, defaulting. I call this the integration phase or, the training ground of the new self. And you're gonna, for a while, be showing up as this new self, and you're like, why is nothing changing?
44:00You have to allow for that period of time where you're bigger than your circumstances so that you train reality and you show reality that you are different energetically. And just let that be the case for a while, that is where you're teaching reality that you have changed.
44:14It's not the time to fall back and submit to your circumstances. It's the time to stay strong in your new identity no matter what's going on outside you. And in fact, a negative circumstance or usually a circumstance that would usually trigger you back into an old way of being is the perfect opportunity for you to now respond as the new self.
44:36The sixth mistake that is keeping you invisible to your desires is trying to figure out how. There's a verse in the Bible that always comes to mind with this.
44:46With man, this is impossible, but with God, all things are possible. Listen to me right now. Every single time you take your big delusional desire and you bring it to your logic and you try to say, but how is this gonna happen?
45:02I need to figure out a plan. You kill that thing from unfolding in the way that it's supposed to unfold.
45:10Why? Essentially, with man, that represents with your logical human minds, with the programmed logic that you have been operating within for your whole life.
45:22This delusional big desire, yes, it will be impossible. Why? Because your logic can only give you ways how based off what you physically have experienced up until this point in this lifetime.
45:35Logic essentially scans what you've experienced physically and pulls from that and gives you ways how.
45:43But if you are going to a reality that you've never experienced physically that's very different from what you've experienced physically, then your logic cannot give you a way how. It will tell you it's impossible because it hasn't been possible for this version of you's logic up until this moment.
46:02But what's logical for this old version of you and what's logical for the version of you who's already at your desired reality are totally different. Just because it's not logical to this old version of you, it doesn't matter. This old logic, this old version of you is not coming with you to this to this dimension, to this reality.
46:22So it doesn't matter if they think it's impossible. It doesn't matter if they can't figure out how. This old version of you doesn't need to figure out how because they're not coming with you.
46:31It's going to be a different version of you. You won't need to figure out how. You just need to become the version of you who already knows how.
46:42So surrender the how, Because every way how, even if your logic does give you a way how, every way how that your logic gives you is probably gonna be a really limited way how.
46:54When actually, if you surrender and you let this thing unfold as it needs to unfold, it will unfold exactly in the best possible way.
47:04When you surrender your logic and get out of the way, you let the creative force of the universe perform miracles in your life.
47:12Think about it. Okay. Think about just the non logical things that happen in this world.
47:18Childbirth, trees converting sunlight into oxygen so we can survive. This whole existence is not logical, you guys.
47:27This whole existence is a divine miracle. There is divine intelligence at work constantly all the time.
47:35It's how you're even here having this experience in the first place. Nothing about this is logical. Nothing about this is logical at all.
47:43So when you try to take a miracle, a big miraculous vision to your logic, you immediately kill it. You immediately just dampen it.
47:53If you want miracles to unfold in your life, you have to let go of logic and start believing in miracles. Start perceiving that this whole experience is already a miracle. It makes no freaking sense.
48:06The best things don't make sense. So let go of how. That's usually be coming from a lack of trust in yourself or a lack of trust in your ability to correspond with this thing.
48:16Focus on becoming the version of you who can correspond with that thing that will help you trust more, and then surrender to the divine intelligence that is performing this miracle that we call life and is creating everything in this reality already behind the scenes.
48:30Knowing that as soon as you shift your energy, that is going to be the component that starts to orchestrate everything behind the scenes so that you can start to experience this thing physically.
48:40It's not gonna really be you who figures it out. Not all of it. I can't tell you guys.
48:44Like, back in January 2024, if you had told me the past to my desired reality was gonna look the way that it would look, I never ever ever ever would have been able to guess that. But I surrendered, and I let it unfold, and now here I am.
48:59Which brings me to the next mistake that is keeping you invisible to your desires, resisting the path as it's unfolding.
49:09Wow. If somebody could have told me this a couple of years ago, I would have saved so much time. I would have collapsed time and shifted my energy so much quicker.
49:16So please open your ears for this one. This is what the path to your desired reality is gonna look like.
49:27Okay? So you're here. You're going here.
49:33You're heading to a different sector in this matrix. It's a different vibration, so you're getting into a different version of you who's in the vibration that corresponds with that sector in the matrix. Okay?
49:42So, essentially, your new reality is just a mirror reflection of your new self that you are going to be stepping into. Great. Amazing.
49:49We have that by now. We get it. Okay.
49:51Now the path to you becoming that version of you and therefore entering that dimension, that reality, is never going to look like how you think it's gonna look.
50:01So you may as well stop trying to anticipate that right now. The path to your desired reality, to the desired self that's in that reality, is very intelligently designed to remove all the parts of you that do not energetically correspond with the version of you who's there already.
50:22So you're here. You have all these different parts of you internally. You have all these different beliefs.
50:27You have these different traumas. You have these different, like, protector aspects, shadow aspects, and that all is impacting your energetic vibration.
50:36And that's what's keeping you corresponding energetically with your old reality. And so you've put your stick in the ground. You're saying, this is where I'm going.
50:42You started the process of doing the inner work, and the path the path immediately starts to unfold when you do that. You don't know it at the time, but that's exactly what happened even back in January 2024 when I wrote down my desires.
50:54The path started immediately. I couldn't I just couldn't see it because I was in resistance, and I didn't know what the path I expected the path to look like something which it didn't look like at all.
51:05My path looked like tons of shadow work, tons of being triggered, tons of self sabotage, all of it.
51:13So you're essentially gonna have moments throughout your journey where you're progressing, you're shifting, you're feeling empowered, you're taking more aligned actions, things feel like they're moving, it feels great.
51:23And then you're gonna have these seemingly low moments where you might be purging, you might be triggered. Those triggers happen along the path right when you're about to break through to another layer, another level, another version of you to purge and clear out parts of you that do not energetically correspond with this next version of you.
51:42Why? Because when these things are within you, they continue to distort your frequency and keep you from alignment with that version and that reality. Okay?
51:49Now, how this actually looks tangibly, it's just gonna depend on you and your life. Like, specific nuanced patterns and things and circumstances and triggers, and maybe your friends are saying something you don't like, or maybe you're getting feeling vulnerable, showing up in a certain way all of a sudden, or maybe this this thing is happening in your family, and you're like, why is this happening?
52:10What's going on? This is the path. This is the path, my love.
52:14I'm sorry, but it is. So a lot of us do not end up manifesting our desires because we think it's gonna be all roses in the garden and peaches, and I'm gonna get Lamborghini, I'm gonna get the thing that I want. It's gonna be amazing.
52:25We have way too many expectations of how it should look, and that causes us to resist how it actually needs to be.
52:33So you must accept the path that is unfolding, the way how that is happening live. There's a great phrase that I love.
52:42You're either learning or you're earning. If you haven't earned your desired outcome or your desired reality yet, it's because you're in a season of learning. Life will show you what you need to learn, what you need to evolve into, what you need to become aware of, what you need to let go of, what you need to step into.
52:59The question is, are you going to listen? Are you going to learn? Because you can't get to the earning if you don't go through the learning.
53:08So let life school you. That is the path.
53:12Do not resist it. As soon as you accept it and you do things like shadow work, honest self reflection, etcetera, etcetera, and you actually learn these lessons, that is really the stuff that's gonna shift your energy and shift your identity so that you can become the version of you that can have what you desire.
53:29And the eighth mistake that causes people to stay out of energetic alignment with their desires and therefore be invisible to their desires is they are trying to bypass taking action.
53:39This is something specifically I see in the spirituality manifestation space. We learn that our energy is powerful. Our energy is creating a lot of our perception, our results, etcetera, etcetera.
53:51And because perhaps we've come into this space having experienced a version of reality where we're taking a lot of action and it's not getting us results. We the pendulum kinda swings and we go, oh my gosh. Okay.
54:04Now I can let go of all of that. I can sit back and relax, and I don't need to take action. Because a lot of us have experienced a lot of pain and struggle and suffering from taking a lot of action, we develop an internal resistance to taking action.
54:19And so when we find something like manifestation, it feels like a permission slip to stop taking action and to just sit back and be passive. This is what I call the passive trap. I have a whole video on masculine energy and how to kind of rebalance this.
54:32I'll leave it down below. But you need to take action. Okay?
54:36And this action, action from alignment energetically, I just want you to know it's a totally different experience than forcing action when you're out of alignment energetically.
54:46You probably won't need to take as much action. It probably won't be action that feels as bad, but you do need to take action.
54:54Why would God give you a physical body if not for you to use it in this physical reality? So the order of creation for you internally, it starts with you and your energy, your beliefs, your identity, your thoughts, and then that shifts what you're focusing on, what actions you can even perceive to take in the mental field that changes when your energy changes.
55:14And then as soon as you can perceive an action to take from this new state and from this new perspective, you have to take that action. There is no manifestation without aligned action.
55:24And, typically, we have a lot of resistance to this because it's coming from a new energy. It's gonna be a new type of action, meaning it's going to be action outside your comfort zone. But that is the action that starts to reprogram your reality so quickly.
55:38So how you get around this? Start taking action that confirms your new frequency.
55:56No matter how uncomfortable it is, no matter how much you're old self resistant, you can trick your paradigm with action. If you have a new belief, you wanna cement that new belief by taking action that's in alignment with that new belief.
56:07If you have a new avatar that you just defined, that they have certain habits, you want to cement that new avatar by taking action that's in alignment with that new version of you, changing your habits, for example. If you've said that you wanna go to your next level in business, but you're still taking care of all the little meaningless tasks and you don't outsource them, You have to use your action to show that you're gonna shift to this new version of you who's at this next level in your business by having better boundaries, having better standards.
56:34You have to use your action. Your action is here to support you in creating your dream life, in becoming this dream version of you.
56:42So use it, please. You cannot be in your full creative power if you are not using that healthy, secure, empowering, masculine energy internally to take action on your dreams.
56:54Okay. So those were the eight mistakes keeping you invisible to your desires.
56:59The first one was focusing on having. Instead, you must focus on being over having because that is the correct order of creation. The second one is staying addicted to your old reality.
57:09You must start breaking that addiction by harnessing your focus, controlling it, and doing something like an attention detox. Take control of your attention and your focus. The third mistake is not defining a meaningful vision, not defining what you actually want.
57:24So you overcome that by defining your meaningful vision and deciding that that is where you're going. And if you're struggling to do that, you must connect yourself and regulate your nervous system. The fourth mistake is trying to change into a new reality while you're still an old version of you.
57:40Nothing changes in reality until you do. So define that avatar, the version of you that that has already achieved your desired reality, and go all in on becoming that version of you today. The fifth mistake is acting as an effect instead of a cause.
57:56So you have to be okay being a new self in an old reality for a while. You have to become bigger than your circumstances. You cannot define your circumstances until you stop letting them define you.
58:09So respond differently and rise above them. The sixth mistake is trying to figure out how.
58:17Realize your logical mind is only gonna give you ways how that are limited and based on the past, and you're not staying there. So don't worry if you don't know how. Surrender the how and just focus on becoming the version of you who already knows how.
58:30The seventh mistake is resisting the path as it's unfolding. Accept that you're not gonna know how it's unfolding and pay attention to the lessons that life is presenting you right now because that is the path.
58:43And the eighth mistake is bypassing action. Do not become passive. Do not sit back and just wait for things to come.
58:49You were gifted this action taking component of you because you can use action to confirm your new identity and your new frequency. It's a necessary part of manifestation, so do not skip it. So if you overcome those eight mistakes that we went through today, your energy will have no choice but to correspond with what you desire.
59:08Your desires will have no choice but to find you. That is all for this video, guys. I hope it helped.
59:12I love you all so much, and I will see you in the next one.
The Hook
The bait, then the rug-pull.
The title makes a precise claim: you are not failing to manifest because your desires are wrong or your effort is insufficient — you are failing because you are energetically invisible to what you want. Katie Clarke spends 59 minutes on a whiteboard proving that all eight reasons collapse into one root cause, and she gives you the exact repair for each.
Named ideas worth stealing.
04:04model
Be-Do-Have (Order of Creation)
- Be (internal state/identity first)
- Do (actions that flow from that state)
- Have (external outcomes that correspond with that state)
The correct sequence for manifestation, sourced from Genesis. Most people run it as Have-Do-Be and wonder why nothing changes.
Steal forany teaching on identity-based behavior change, sales, or personal development
07:00model
The Three Planes
- Spiritual plane (Source/God — highest vibration, causal origin)
- Mental plane (thought, imagination, beliefs — middle tier)
- Physical plane (matter, perceivable by senses — lowest vibration, effect)
Hermetic framework establishing that physical reality is downstream of mental reality, which is downstream of spiritual reality. Used to explain why inner work must precede outer change.
Steal forany explanation of why mindset shifts precede behavior or results changes
35:00concept
The Avatar Exercise
Connect to your desired reality. Define precisely who you are in it: habits, beliefs, standards, emotional baseline, daily behaviors, how you dress, what time you wake up. Write it all down. Then begin being that person immediately.
Steal foridentity-based goal setting, client onboarding, journaling frameworks
23:20concept
The Attention Detox
Three-day minimum practice: list everything draining your creative energy (scrolling, news, certain conversations), commit to redirecting whenever you catch yourself going there, replace each drain with an aligned alternative.
Steal forany content on digital minimalism, focus, or breaking unproductive habits
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