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Eleven and a half minutes of Tony Robbins compressing four decades of stage material into pattern, energy, influence — plus the three-decision focus model that drives all of it.
April 26thSteve Jobs at WWDC 1997 — absorbing a hostile crowd question, then delivering the focus principle that would rebuild Apple.
Steve Jobs's 1997 WWDC answer to a hostile question about OpenDoc delivered the principle that rebuilt Apple: focusing means saying no to almost everything, including things that are genuinely interesting.
Focusing is not about saying yes to the right things — it is about saying no to almost everything. In this 1997 WWDC clip, Steve Jobs absorbs a hostile question about killing OpenDoc and delivers the principle that rebuilt Apple: a company with eighteen teams going in eighteen directions produces less value than the sum of its parts, regardless of how good the individual work is. The decision to kill OpenDoc was not about whether it was interesting technology but about whether it fit the direction Apple was actually committing to. The cost of real focus is that you anger people, take bad press, and accept the lumps without defending yourself publicly. The result is products where the whole is greater than the sum of the parts.
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Black title card opens the clip. Audience member immediately challenges Jobs about killing OpenDoc. Jobs confirms it dead, then pauses.

Jobs acknowledges the real pain of the people whose work was killed. Admits Apple had lousy engineering management. People going in 18 different directions — good engineers, lousy management.

Jobs introduces the farm metaphor: animals going in different directions, total less than sum of parts. Sets up the need for a fundamental direction reset.

The pivot: focusing is not about saying yes — it is about saying no. Delivered quietly but with full conviction.

When you say no, you piss off people. They talk to the press and you get shitty articles written about you. Jobs says Apple has been taking lumps like an adult and he is proud of that.

Calls out people who left who had not done anything in seven years acting like the company will collapse. Closes the loop: focus is about saying no, and the result will be great products where the total exceeds the sum of the parts.

Returns to the original question. Not great technology. Did not fit. The rest of the world was not going to use it. The OpenDoc team was trying to rewrite it in Java anyway — which was basically starting over. No sense.
In a 3-minute clip from 1997, Jobs explains why focus is defined by what you kill, not what you start — and why the backlash from saying no is part of the deal.
“Focusing is about saying no.”
“The total is less than the sum of the parts.”
“Good engineers, lousy management.”
“The result of that focus is going to be some really great products where the total is much greater than the sum of the parts.”
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In 1997, Steve Jobs returned to an Apple in freefall and faced a packed WWDC auditorium of developers whose work he had just killed. The question from the crowd is blunt: what about OpenDoc? His answer takes three minutes and becomes one of the most-replayed leadership clips in history.
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