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How to Tell Better Stories with Matthew McConaughey

A 25-minute video-call conversation in which Matthew McConaughey hands Dean Graziosi a working framework for persuasive storytelling, then proves it live with one 8-minute story about a wrestling challenge in a Malian village.

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Big Idea

The argument in one line.

A story only earns its keep as a persuasion tool when it follows three steps — tell it, teach the lesson buried inside it, then ask for a specific action — and the gap between a forgettable story and an unforgettable one comes down to staying personal, earning the pause before the punchline, and letting the teller's own fear or vulnerability show.

Who This Is For

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READ IF YOU ARE…
  • You use stories in business, marketing, or leadership and want a repeatable structure instead of vague advice to 'just be a good storyteller.'
  • You're a coach, speaker, or course creator trying to turn a personal experience into a teaching moment that ends in a specific ask.
  • You're building an on-camera personal brand and want to learn how to be vulnerable without losing authority.
SKIP IF…
  • You want screenwriting or scriptwriting craft specifically — this is oral, persuasive storytelling, not screenplay structure.
  • You're looking for a tactical marketing or funnel breakdown — the framework is philosophical, not a step-by-step campaign builder.
TL;DR

The full version, fast.

Dean Graziosi and Matthew McConaughey break down what makes a story persuasive rather than merely entertaining. McConaughey traces his storytelling instinct to losing family dinner-table airtime as the youngest of four, then explains how he built entire movie characters by writing their subjective inner world beyond what was on the page. The centerpiece is his story of accepting a wrestling challenge in a Malian village, used to demonstrate a three-part framework: tell the story, teach the lesson inside it, then ask for a specific action. The craft lessons that follow: keep it personal, earn your pause before the punchline, and let your fear or vulnerability show — that's what makes an audience trust and remember you.

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Voices

Who's talking.

00:13guestMatthew McConaughey
00:00hostDean Graziosi
Chapters

Where the time goes.

00:0000:26

01 · Cold open, WiFi banter

Dean introduces McConaughey as one of the best storytellers of all time. The call is glitchy; they joke about a soccer trick-shot video before settling in.

00:2602:26

02 · The family dinner table

McConaughey traces his storytelling instinct to being the youngest of four at a house full of good storytellers, losing his nerve on his first attempt, and slowly earning the confidence to hold the table.

02:2605:19

03 · Writing a character's subjective story

McConaughey explains building entire character backstories off a single well-written line — Dazed and Confused, Wolf of Wall Street, A Time to Kill's closing summation — by writing subjectively from inside the character rather than objectively from the script.

05:1906:18

04 · The story-teach-ask framework

Dean names the three-part framework he and Tony Robbins have taught for decades: a story alone can motivate without moving anyone to act, unless it's paired with a lesson and a specific ask.

06:1814:52

05 · The Mali wrestling story

McConaughey's long personal story: a dream sends him to Mali chasing a musician, he hikes into Dogon country, and in a village called Benjamatu a stranger named Michel challenges him to a wrestling match in front of the whole village.

14:5219:44

06 · Breaking down the story

Dean and McConaughey unpack why the story works: it's one scene of a life, not the whole timeline; the real moment is the decision to accept the challenge despite fear; and treating people well quietly builds an 'army of allies.'

19:4423:43

07 · Craft rules for telling it well

McConaughey lists the habits of a good storyteller: keep it personal, earn your pause before the punchline, be willing to be vulnerable and laugh at yourself.

23:4325:27

08 · Close and course pitch

Warm sign-off, Dean thanks McConaughey for taking time away from his son, then pitches McConaughey's Road Trip course and the Mastermind membership.

Atomic Insights

Lines worth screenshotting.

  • A story only drives action when it has three parts: the story itself, the lesson extracted from it, and a specific ask — facts alone just make people fall asleep in a presentation.
  • Writing a character's inner life subjectively — what they'd buy at a gas station, what they do on weekends — produces more truthful performances than following only what's written on the page.
  • In the Dogon village McConaughey visited in Mali, being lifted up by villagers after a wrestling match had nothing to do with winning or losing — it meant he had 'handled' the challenge with respect.
  • The most tellable part of any life story is a single decisive moment where fear says no and the body moves anyway — that scene, not the whole timeline, is what makes it a story.
  • How you treat people quietly builds an 'army of allies' that can show up decades later, whether or not you ever measured the effect at the time.
  • The best storytelling advice is counterintuitive: don't rush the punchline — the uncomfortable silence right before it is what makes the payoff land.
  • Letting yourself look foolish or scared inside your own story is what makes an audience trust you, not what makes them doubt you.
  • Data speaks to the brain, but only a story speaks to the heart, and only the heart moves people to actually do something.
  • A three-line role can become a career-defining performance if the actor writes 90% of the character's story silently, off the page, before ever saying the written line.
  • The fear of not knowing what would have happened is often a stronger motivator than the fear of the challenge itself.
Takeaway

Three moves that turn a story into a persuasion tool.

STORYTELLING CRAFT

A story only changes someone's mind when it's built to teach and ask, not just to entertain — and the delivery habits that make it land are learnable.

  • Use the three-part structure on any story you tell to persuade: the story itself, the lesson you pull out of it, and a specific ask for what to do next.
  • Write from inside a moment subjectively — what you were actually thinking and feeling — instead of narrating events objectively from the outside; specificity is what makes a story feel true.
  • Tell one scene, not your whole history. The single decisive moment where fear said no and you acted anyway is the part worth telling, not the surrounding years of context.
  • Earn your pause before the punchline instead of rushing to fill silence — the brief discomfort of not knowing what comes next is what makes the payoff land.
  • Let your fear, embarrassment, or uncertainty show inside the story. Vulnerability is what earns trust, not what undermines authority.
  • Treat how you handle people as a long-term investment — respect shown once can return as unexpected support years later, whether or not you tracked it at the time.
Glossary

Terms worth knowing.

Story-teach-ask framework
A three-part structure for persuasive communication: tell a story, extract the lesson from it, then explicitly ask the listener to take an action based on that lesson.
Subjective character writing
An actor's technique of inventing a character's inner world — routines, tastes, unspoken thoughts — so choices come from inside the character's point of view rather than strictly from the words on the page.
Dogon Country
A remote highland region of Mali known for villages built along cliff faces, where McConaughey backpacked and hiked between settlements during the story he recounts in the interview.
Resources

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Quotables

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You gotta have a story, then you gotta teach them what you learned through that story, and then you gotta ask them to do something towards that.
The whole framework in one sentence, no setup needed.newsletter pull-quote↗ Tweet quote
12:51
Not won or lost, handled.
A three-word twist ending to an 8-minute story — instantly quotable on its own.TikTok hook↗ Tweet quote
17:29
I don't own that. You own that. No one owns that but you.
Sharp, aphoristic line about audience ownership of a story's meaning.IG reel cold open↗ Tweet quote
20:27
Earn your pause. Earn your punch line.
The single most repeatable piece of craft advice in the conversation, four words each.TikTok hook↗ Tweet quote
21:01
Data speaks to the brain, but it's not a great story. Stories go to the heart.
Clean contrast statement, works cold with zero context.newsletter pull-quote↗ Tweet quote
22:48
Being able to laugh at yourself while you're telling the story is very important too if you can do it.
Simple, actionable craft tip stated in plain language.IG reel cold open↗ Tweet quote
Topic Map

Where the conversation goes.

00:0000:26sparseCold open and WiFi banter
00:2602:26steadyFamily dinner table storytelling roots
02:2605:19denseWriting character backstory as an actor
05:1906:18denseStory-teach-ask framework
06:1814:52denseThe Mali wrestling story
14:5219:44denseBreaking down what makes the story work
19:4423:43denseCraft rules for telling a story well
23:4325:27sparseClose and course pitch
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I got a pretty cool special guest that's coming to join us today. I'm so honored. We'll be talking about the power of storytelling.
If we can tell an elegant story that captivates people, what do we get? We get their attention, and you get people to take an action. And our guest today, I believe he's one of the best storytellers of all time.
Can we all give it up for mister Matthew McConaughey?
He's unfortunately having a little bit of WiFi issues. What's up, man? Everyone's heard stories of WiFi.
I'm off in a location with my son on a set. I had it all set up, but electricry is getting the best of me.
I
saw a video two days ago of you kicking a soccer ball into a little net. Was was that was that real, or is that 200 tries, or did you just nail it? Second try, Dean.
That was Second try.
I
probably wouldn't have made it if I if I if I knew how hard it was to make the shot. Anyway, thank you for sharing that. Good seeing you.
Hey. So today we're talking gonna talk about storytelling a little. I think we just have fun, light conversation about it.
But the first question I had was, we talked about it earlier. I love your stories. It's one of the reasons your book is so captivating.
It's one of the reasons Road Trip is so captivating. Did storytelling start in your family? Was that something you grew up around, or is it something that you fell in love with?
The dinner table was where the stories were told.
And my dad was a great storyteller. My older brother was a tremendous storyteller. My other oldest, second oldest brother, was a very good storyteller.
My mom was a pretty good storyteller. I was the youngest.
I was looking to find the confidence to pick a a silent moment between them talking and get one of my stories in. And I remember one night, I I felt I heard the gap in the conversation, and I entered it with my story.
And I got overexcited that I found that I had time that I I I choked. And I fumbled the story, and I I I got in a rush, and I I anticipated the punchline, and it wasn't good. And my family looked at me with no empathy and was like, and just moved on.
And I was like, damn it. I missed my chance. Well, I came back and I kept trying to get chances and finally started to give have the poise and the confidence to tell stories at the table when I may had my time and tell them well and became a pretty good storyteller.
Stories transcend into business. It's part of your art. It's part of my art when I'm live on camera or I'm doing my thing.
It's a part of influencing if you wanna subtly influence someone you're doing business with or influence your kids. So if you grew up fighting for your space at the table for the storytelling, your dad was a great storyteller, your brother was a great storyteller, I love that.
And I wanna ask you to tell a couple of them if you don't mind because I just love hearing them. But I was I was just thinking, because storytelling was such a part of you, have you ever had a movie role where they wrote a story for you and you knew you could tell it better?
Maybe that's a weird question because I don't know how that works. I don't know if you can
a 100%. Look. Let me go back to the first movie I ever did, Dazed and Confused.
There was three lines in that movie. It ended up working three weeks. Why?
Because I created a story for my man, for my character, Warriors. Now the story was based off of one beautifully written line, and and and and most scripts have this with the character.
There'll be one line that I go, who is that? And so I wrote the scenes that I was put in to go without lines written.
I was telling his story. Someone who thinks that way, I know what they're buying in seven Eleven. I know if they have some change in their pocket.
I know when they're going home at night, what they're doing on the weekends. It it tells you a world about about a character. You know?
I I Wolf of Wall Street was a hat, was a page. I extended that character's story into four pages. But let's remember, it's always coming from what the writer wrote in the first place.
Of course. The writer wrote the seed of the idea. I'm expounding on it and riffing on it because it's about getting subjective, looking through the eye of the character.
I think that's one of the key things about any storytelling. And that's my basically, my job as an actor, to look through the lens of the character I'm playing and how they see the world. So in writing and in storytelling, I think one of the keys is to play in your mind and in your heart each character as you're talking about them subjectively, not objectively.
A lot of times, all the writing I do will bring me right back to what was originally in the script. In A Time to Kill, The Final Summation, I worked on that final summation with the writer Akiva Goldsman for four months.
We ended up what I ended up setting in
the courtroom was basically the first thing he wrote, and that'll happen sometimes. I love that. You know, we we talked about it.
We had we we got to spend some time together working on your course, which was so much fun. What I love about a story, and it's a framework Tony and I've been teaching for decades, is that if you really wanna get someone to take an action, to learn something, if you just hit them with the facts, you can overwhelm them.
We've all been to presentations or a PowerPoint presentation and you're half asleep. And we've also had really motivational stories by people, but they don't lead anywhere.
Right? And then you could be motivated, you could learn some stuff, but if you don't take an action in that moment, sometimes it's just good listening or good reading. And what I loved about green lights before we ever talked, before we ever had a conversation, I love what you did in road trip, is we we've been teaching us, like I said, for decades, is to get someone to do something, to learn, to change, they got you gotta have three elements.
You gotta have a story, then you gotta teach them what you learned through that story, and then you gotta ask them to do something towards that. And I'm not sure if you you you have your own ways.
I love subjective, objective, the way you look at it. But as I listened to your stories before I knew you, I'm like, that's the ingredients. Like, the stories got me captivated.
What the hell did he learn by being in Australia? Oh, I could start appreciating right now even though it sucks.
Right? Like, there it had all the elements. Right.
Fact, one one of my favorite, if if you don't mind sharing this, I love the wrestling match in Mali. It had so many incredible elements in there.
But I'd love for you to share that, then maybe we could break it down a little bit. I had had a a
second dream. You know what kind of dream if you read Green Light?
And one of the elements in the dream was I was supposed to go to Africa. So one night, while staying in a little motel hotel in Dublin, Ireland, I was listening to one of my favorite musician, Ali Farquhar Ture.
And I was like, oh, where's Ali from? I looked it up, Nia Funke, Male.
I said, I'll go find him. That'll be my point on the map of which I'll chase.
So I go to Male. I have a one way ticket to backpack. And I find him four days in, and then I end up going hiking into the Bongi Agora where these where these beautiful villages are spread out, you know, 10 to 15 miles apart from each other at the base of these cavernous canyons on the on where the river the river runs.
And we would hike from village to village each day. Well, one of these villages, Benjamatu, this is about day fifteen, long enough where I really felt like I felt at home now.
I've been there long enough where I had the rhythm of Africa and the rhythm of the hikes. I show up at this village after after a 15 mile walk. And it's about sundown, and I lay down and I start stretching from the day and everything.
And all of a sudden, I hear the village, the ambiance of the village coming close to me and getting loud, and it's about 40 people. And there's all this excitement.
And it's in Bambara, the language. I don't know what it means, but you can tell there's excitement over the village, and it's getting very near me.
As that happens, I look up, and through these people, villagers that encircled me, steps out this large man built like a tree trunk with a burlap sack wrapped around his waist.
Okay. And he's got a very serious look on his face, and he stands above me and looks down at me.
The village is very excited. I don't know why. He points at me, points to his heart, and then points over to the left.
And as he does that, the villagers start to scream. And I recognize this is some sort of challenge. And I already know that they like to wrestle in Mali, and and I'm like, okay.
I think this man is challenging me to a duel of wrestling. As my heart starting to beat going, no way.
My body's getting up to accept the challenge. And then all of a sudden, noticed I'm standing up in front of him and point to him, then I point to my heart, and then I make a move to the left to where he pointed to a large dirt pit.
And the villagers go crazy. And I'm going, what are you doing? At the same time, I'm telling myself, don't do this, but you have to do it because at the very least, it will be a great story.
So I walked to the pit. The chief comes in.
Now about a 100 villagers have surrounded on the outside, on the outskirts. The the chief holds our hands up, introduces us, puts our hands down.
The wrestler's name was Michelle. He gets down and he lodges his head into my collarbone and gets like a bull holding me by the waist. So I lodge my head into his collarbone, opposite collarbone, and he hold his waist, and we're like two bulls facing each other now.
Right? Like this in the middle of this dirt pit. And all of a sudden, hear the hear this chief go, which when the villagers all start screaming, I I find out that basically means ding ding.
It's on. Well, I start to think, you know, my leverage in my family as a wrestler was always my lower body.
My my legs and and and everything. And I start to think, I'll have to get him low because this guy's really big. Oh, top.
Well, as I'm down there circling, I noticed this guy's legs are like tree trunks. I'm like, this is not my advantage anymore. I don't think I can get him low.
But we circle, we circle, we circle. He pins me. I flip him off.
I pin him. I get him in a headlock. Body slam.
It's going on. There's no hitting, but there's heavy wrestling. Blood has been drawn.
And all of a sudden, the chief steps in and separates us from what was I don't know if it's over or what. I've got I had a beard.
My things talismans in my beard have been ripped off. So there's blood coming down my neck, my knees, my shins are bleeding, and I was covered in sweat, basically hyperventilating. And I'm looking around, the crowd's going crazy.
And I look at Michelle, the guy I'm wrestling, and he's just stone faced. Barely a glisten of sweat on him, and he's just looking at me. And I'm like, oh, shit.
That's when the chief goes, yeah. Meaning, round two.
So Michelle grabs my waist, lowers his head into my collarbone. I do the same. We're off.
We twist. We flip. We go all over the place.
It's a great match. And all of a sudden, chief steps in, separates us, and the crowd comes in and starts and hoists me up and starts going, which was the name I was going under, David.
And is David Mbambara. And as I'm being lifted up going, wow. What's this all about?
I see Michelle take off running, leaving.
So I'm feeling like they'd anointed me at being victorious. This is when I learned a story that, no, they don't measure in wins or lost.
They were lifting me up because I quote, unquote, handled Michelle. Not won or lost, handled.
And that I was getting the appreciation from the moment I accepted the challenge. That was the victory to them and for for me.
So that that night felt great.
The next day, when I went to go walk the next 50 miles to the next village, waiting on the outskirts of the village was Michel. He held my hand and walked me 15 miles to the next village without saying a word and then walked back on his own.
I found out he had done that out of respect because white men named Dauda had accepted the job. Of which I also found out Michelle, they the villagers all thought that Michelle would have white men named Dauda on his back in ten seconds.
Because Michel was not only champion wrestler of this village, Michel was champion wrestler of this village and tree village back. So they had said, you did good, Douda. The the the the ending beautiful part of this story is I went back there unannounced six years later.
Michelle had four kids now and a busted hip. He walked with a big limp.
So there was not going to be another wrestling match. But the next day, six years later, when I went to walk to that next village, guess who was waiting for me?
With a limp behind the same tree he had waited for me six years prior to walk me 15 miles to the next village holding my hand, Michelle.
Wow. So when I hear a story like that, not to not to break down a beautiful story or story, but some people feel, hey. I that sounds amazing, Matthew.
Even if I had the same experience, I don't know if I could tell it that way. I when I take and say story teach to have somebody take an action. Right?
It's really a scene of your life. It's not the whole story. We didn't know about your first movie.
We didn't know about the rejections you had or when you moved to Texas or your first child. Like, we just knew that one slice when you said I had a dream, a specific dream, and I decided to go to Molly.
Right? It was a scene of your life. So when you repeat that story, have you been doing stories so long that that has become natural, or is there a little bit of a framework you think through?
The moment that even allowed that to become a story. The moment
that would lead to me if I go back tomorrow that he would still see me embrace and walk me 20 later. The moment was when I was on my back, and he challenged me, and my heart started racing, and my mind said no, and my body said, oh, we gotta.
That was the moment. That's when nothing comes alive. It was a very scary decision.
It also I had the little thing in my head going like, oh, if you don't do this, you will regret finding out what would have happened.
You know? I remember that yin yang in that moment. But the action of getting up and accepting that that challenge led to all the extra beauty that leads into that beautiful story, that makes it a story not about win and loss, about accepting challenges, that makes it about respect and lifelong respect for one choice, no matter the outcome that that would lead to the village hoisting me up.
I had no idea that that would lead to him waiting for me the next day as I left to walk me 15 miles. What hit me more than anything was the fear of not knowing.
Like, remember thinking like that is the thought I'm gonna have to myself. When I'm in a challenging situation, I borrowed that from you since the moment I heard it, and you reinforced it when we got to spend time together. And now I realize you say that all the time and it's part but I borrowed that from you.
And right now, there are so many things I'll start new and go, I don't really need to do that at this phase of my life, but the fear of not knowing will kill me. I gotta do it. Yeah.
Amen. I mean,
that's because there's no direct advice in that story.
There's not one part of that story where I'm saying, so this is what you should do.
None of us, I think, really love to get direct advice. We wanna find it. We wanna hear if they can someone can hear that story and see the metaphor and put themselves, their own position there in their own lifetime in to the subjective place where I was and see themselves in a similar situation, then you, the individual, make your decision to make the choice to take action or not to for whatever that predicament may be.
Then you own that. I don't own that. You own that.
No one owns that but you. That is an empowering feeling with all our decisions.
And you, you know, you know, I started this off talking about raising our kids. We try to I think we're all trying to do that. You know?
I mean, I give advice all the time. But when I when I do it well, I don't really give advice. I just say it in a way where they get to make a decision.
When I heard it today,
I got, like, tears in my eyes when you talked about him waiting behind the same tree.
And I thought, man, if you didn't take that action, you wouldn't have found that love, and that's his own kind of love. I love the fact that you walked for 15 miles without saying a word. Does the story have different meanings for you as you tell it?
It does. And you know one of the themes that I've been trying to talk to my children about that this story exemplifies,
our actions and our choices every day. What we do, what we choose to do, what we choose not to do, how we behave, how we treat others.
Wow. And I have proof that things that I've done that didn't have any measurement at the time, I didn't see it, but but I've gone places where people come to my defense because of how I treated them thirty years ago.
And so I'm talking to my children about how you treat. You know?
What was one example? Like, going at concert.
And that, you know, a security guard lets you in. It's a long line of people. Thank him.
Because there's gonna be a day where you're 20 people back in the line and he that same security guard is going, nope. That's it. No more coming in.
And he may look back and go, hey, You, Levi, come here. You're building an army of allies. And so that turned out to be example.
I have a friend. I have an arm I have an ally in Michelle.
We're building out a chance to build an army behind us and allies. And look.
We all there we all have enemies out there, but, boy, I don't think we can have enough allies behind us. So in ways like in our work or in relationships, our reputation can start to precede us, and that comes from choices that we've made in the past.
If we were consistent with those, we're building that army of allies that are for us. One last question I got. When you watch somebody who's a master storyteller like you,
There's a lot of people who have stories they wanna share, and they might be thinking, I don't think I could do it that way. What are a couple of things you could tell this amazing audience to improve their story? Before thinking about
how will it sound to the listener, Stick with what you know. What what what's personal?
Keep it personal. That you you invite everyone else in but be but by that, somehow personal it is to you.
When you see a good storyteller, they're not necessarily performing for you.
You see them having an experience in the telling of the story. That experience that that you they're having, that's what pulls you in.
Secondly, I would say, earn your pause. Earn your punch line.
If you tell the story well, you earn that pause before you deliver the coup de grace, before you deliver the punch line, before you deliver and here's the moral of the story, and here's what happened. Earn that punch line. Don't be afraid of that pause.
Because it gets quiet.
Everyone goes, uh-oh. Did he forget what he said what he's gonna say? No.
I didn't forget what I was gonna say, or maybe I did. But here's a pause. Because every story needs an ebb and a flow.
Data speaks to the brain, but it's not a great story. Stories go to the heart.
Stories like food is a way to get to the heart. And a story that just makes sense mathematically can be like, wow.
That was great. Okay. I didn't do anything, but that's great science.
It's great data. You've gotta speak the human side. You gotta let people see themselves in that position.
In marketing, You gotta speak to the heart and don't be afraid. That's when I say stay personal.
Keep it personal. Play the subject. Be the subject.
Play play that part. So good. I'm taking notes like it.
Keep it personal. Earn your pause. Earn your punch line.
That is the best phrase I've heard. I've always had take take elegant pauses or pause at the right time. That describes I hope everybody got that.
You should put it in the chat. Earn your punchline. And I love the uncomfortable moment where you don't know, did he forget it?
Is she gonna share it? And then you hit it and it lands. So good.
And and, you know, the the word that I wrote down as you were saying those so saying those things is, and I watched you do it, is being vulnerable as well. Right?
If there's a part where you are vulnerable, don't skip over that part. Right? That's that's the juicy stuff.
Don't come into a scene
feeling so secure and stable. What we like to see in a performance and in life is someone being off balance but finding their balance in the story that they tell, in the scene.
So good. And then also lets people in and go, oh, yeah.
I know I'll be in off balance. Tell them that vulnerability, sharing that part where you're like, ah, and you won't believe what I did here. Being able to laugh at yourself while you're telling the story is very important too if you can do it.
Then you're having the experience of the embarrassment or the anger or whatever the saddest, whatever it is. Share that.
I was telling the rest of the story earlier. I got the chills again when I was talking about getting up to accept the challenge from Michelle. I got the chills again.
I was like, oh, because I went back there. And that when we are feeling alive telling the story
Yes. People feel alive hearing it. We've all been at a pivotal place in our life.
Make a left or make a right, you're out of fork. You can't keep going straight. You gotta go one way or another.
One way is a little scary, one way is a little comfortable, and thank God I took the scary route. Just like when you moved to Texas decided to shift movies, a scary route.
Right? I don't ever wanna lose sight of how scared I was the day I was at that fork in the road and knew I couldn't leave my life the way it was. There was no way to go straight.
I had to go one way or another, and you can get numb to the story. And it shares the principles, but it doesn't share the soul. So I just wanna say thank you today.
Thank you for taking the I know you're with your son. This was fantastic. So the Internet was a little blurry, but we could hear you perfectly and everybody's loving it.
Matthew, thank you so much. We'll talk to you soon. Everybody, give it up for Matthew McConaughey.
Appreciate it, Dean. Thanks a lot. I hope you guys got as much as I did.
I have so many sloppy notes. I didn't I just been writing on all over the papers on my on my page here. They're on note cards.
They're on a little piece here. I got some of my journal, but I'm gonna fine tune everything I learned today. Now I know the Internet wasn't the best, but how cool is it that he took an hour with us while he's away with his son trying to get a little time in as a dad.
He took that space. Um, for those of you new to our family, there's three other trainings with McConaughey, inner circles over the last year that we've done together that are all 10 out of 10. They're unbelievable.
And a bunch of you asked, so many of you have Matthew's course Road Trip. But if you'd like, it's probably one of the best selling courses in the history of the world.
It's an unbelievable course, and if you guys are interested, you can write this down. It's jointheroadtrip.com.
Anyway, guys, thank you as part of our mastermind family. Those of you who are here today, who have just joined in the last couple days, this is what we get to do every single month. But really don't forget, you have everything inside Mastermind.
A new course every month, new training every month, a library of over 80 courses, library of over a 100 inner circles. Anything you can ever think of is there. Training, g g, AI, and, uh, most of all, we just love having you a part of the family.
Thank you guys so much. I appreciate you. This was an amazing day.
Thank you, Matthew McConaughey. Thank you, everybody.
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