Modern Creator
Why Modern Creator?
Joe Hudson | Art of Accomplishment · YouTube

You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How

A 14-minute breakdown of what defensiveness really is, why it is never about you, and five moves for seeing through it.

Posted
yesterday
Duration
Format
Talking Head
educational
Views
6.4K
364 likes
Big Idea

The argument in one line.

Taking things personally is never about the other person — it is a defense mechanism protecting a part of yourself you have not yet accepted, which means every trigger is an invitation to grow rather than a threat to survive.

Who This Is For

Read if. Skip if.

READ IF YOU ARE…
  • You get defensive in feedback conversations at work and want to understand the mechanism, not just manage the symptom.
  • You are a manager or team lead who has noticed that defensive reactions slow decisions and generate drama in your team.
  • You are doing inner-work or therapy and want a concrete, body-based framework for what non-defensiveness actually feels like.
  • You have been told 'don't take it personally' your whole life and were never given the actual how.
SKIP IF…
  • You are looking for communication tactics to deflect criticism — this is about internal transformation, not better deflection scripts.
  • You prefer written long-form content; the value here is in Hudson's live storytelling and examples.
TL;DR

The full version, fast.

Taking things personally is a three-layer event: emotionally it is defensiveness rooted in shame, intellectually it is the belief you have been insulted, and somatically it fires a fight response. Hudson's central claim is that none of it is ever actually about you — other people's reactions are projections of their own conditioning, not verdicts on who you are. He offers five moves for seeing through it: anchor to your own judgment rather than others', respond to triggers with wonder, examine what specifically you are defending and to whom, open your body to the feeling instead of clamping down, and simply say 'ouch' out loud. The unexpected payoff is that consistent practice erodes the ego's self-definition, and you eventually stop taking your own critical inner voice personally too.

Free for members

Chat with this breakdown — free.

Sign in and you get 23 free chat messages on us — ask for the hook, quote a framework, find the exact transcript moment, generate a markdown action plan. Bring your own key when you want unlimited.

Create a free account →
Chapters

Where the time goes.

00:00 – 01:11

01 · Cold open: the lazy son

A coaching story — a client's trigger at his son's laziness dissolves when he sees his own childhood pattern of seeking attention. Sets up the thesis.

01:11 – 03:52

02 · What taking it personally means

Three layers defined: emotional (shame/defensiveness), intellectual (feeling insulted), nervous system (fight mode). Core claim: it is never about you.

03:52 – 05:59

03 · The benefits of not taking things personally

Less triggering, better communication, access to solutions, less drama, more self-acceptance.

05:59 – 12:12

04 · Five moves for seeing through it

Anchor to your own pride, wonder, examine what you are defending, somatic openness, say ouch.

12:12 – 13:59

05 · The left turn: ego dissolution

Not taking things personally in the world erodes self-definition. Eventually you stop taking your own inner critic personally.

Atomic Insights

Lines worth screenshotting.

  • Taking something personally is always a moment of shame — you are defending against something you believe would make you bad.
  • It is called 'taking it personally' because you think it is about you, but it is never about you.
  • Other people's reactions are made of their own upbringing, their own emotional state, and their own too much caffeine — not your worth.
  • When you stop defending, you gain the ability to ask questions instead of fighting, which is where solutions live.
  • Shame stagnates everything — every time you take something personally, the system slows down.
  • Wonder is the fastest dissolvent: ask what exactly made the other person react that way and watch the charge leave the room.
  • If you are defending yourself, you are refusing to see something that is, on some level, true about you.
  • The question 'what am I defending?' is not meant to be answered — it is meant to be sat inside until it opens something.
  • Saying 'ouch' out loud is a vulnerability that runs directly counter to the insult and also runs a live experiment on whether the other person actually wants to hurt you.
  • Every time you do not take something personally, a small piece of ego — your self-definition — is destroyed, and that destruction is freedom.
  • The final payoff of practicing non-defensiveness in the world is that you stop taking your own inner critic personally.
  • You cannot control what other people think of you; you can only control whether you make yourself proud.
Takeaway

Every trigger is a blind spot with a door in it.

WHAT TO LEARN

Taking things personally is not a character flaw — it is a navigation system pointing at the parts of yourself you have not yet made peace with.

  • When you get defensive, you are not responding to what the other person said — you are responding to a part of yourself you believe would be shameful to admit.
  • Asking 'what am I defending, and to whom?' is not a question to answer — it is a question to sit inside until the charge dissolves on its own.
  • Wonder is the fastest route out of defensiveness: genuine curiosity about why someone reacted the way they did collapses the fight response faster than any counter-argument.
  • You cannot control what others think of you, but you can shift the reference point from their judgment to your own — asking what you would do to make yourself proud removes the sting from most criticism.
  • Saying 'ouch' out loud when something hurts is both a release valve for your own nervous system and a real-time test of whether the other person actually intends harm.
  • The long payoff of non-defensiveness practice is not a thicker skin — it is a smaller ego, which means you eventually stop fighting your own inner critic the same way you stopped fighting external critics.
Glossary

Terms worth knowing.

Taking it personally
The defensive response that fires when you interpret someone else's words or actions as a verdict on your worth — rooted in shame and the belief that you need to protect a version of yourself.
Wonder
A deliberate practice of responding to triggers with genuine curiosity rather than defense — asking what the other person's reaction reveals about their experience, not yours.
Somatic opening
The practice of physically relaxing the body's clamp-down response when triggered, making space for the felt experience rather than suppressing or fighting it.
Ego dissolution
The gradual erosion of rigid self-definition that Hudson describes as the long-term payoff of non-defensiveness practice — the self becomes more fluid, less defended, and less at war with itself.
Resources

Things they pointed at.

00:41productArt of Accomplishment Connection Course ↗
06:50productArt of Accomplishment Connection Course ↗
Quotables

Lines you could clip.

00:37
“Every time you're taking something personally, you have an opportunity for that level of growth where you get to see through some blind spot that you've had for years.”
reframes defensiveness as opportunity — no setup needed→ TikTok hook↗ Tweet quote
02:57
“They call it taking it personally, which means you think it's about you, and it is never about you.”
tight quotable thesis statement→ IG reel cold open↗ Tweet quote
07:45
“On some level, everything that anybody says about you is true.”
counterintuitive single line, delivers the whole argument→ newsletter pull-quote↗ Tweet quote
12:31
“Every way we define ourselves, we're boxing ourselves in to some degree.”
philosophical kicker for the ego dissolution section→ TikTok hook↗ Tweet quote
The Script

Word for word.

Read-along

Don't just watch it. Burn it in.

See every word as it's spoken — crank it to 2× and still catch all of it. The same dual-channel trick behind Amazon's Kindle + Audible.

metaphoranalogystory
00:00So recently, I was coaching a man who had just done the exercise in the connection course. It's all about getting triggered and how to make great use of being triggered. And he was talking about how he got triggered by his son whenever his son was lazy, and we were exploring it.
00:13Then I was like, well, how about you when you were a kid when you were lazy? What what what created that? And he stopped for a minute and he said, oh, I was trying to get my dad's attention because he would only give me attention if I wasn't doing the stuff I was supposed to be doing.
00:28And then he saw it. He saw that that's what his son was doing. And this whole trigger, this whole, like, taking it personally just evaporated in his system.
00:38Every time you're taking something personally, you have an opportunity for that level of growth where you get to see through some blind spot that you've had for years and years and years. So as we talk about how to not take things personally, the first thing I wanna do is talk about what it means exactly.
00:53The second thing that I wanna talk about is what are the benefits of not taking things personally. And then I wanna talk about ways to not take things personally, ways to see through it all. And then last, I wanna talk about that weird left turn that happened to me and to so many other people when they make it a practice of not taking things personally.
01:12So what do I mean by taking things personally? The the most obvious thing is it means that you're getting defensive. It means that you think that there's something that you need to defend about yourself.
01:22So if you're taking something personally, it is a moment of shame. You're thinking, oh, I would be bad if that were the case for me, or I can't admit that that's the case for me, and I need to defend myself. What it means intellectually is it means you think that somebody's insulted you.
01:40That somehow or another, if they think of that or if they assume that that that that somehow that's an insult. It may or may not be an insult, but you definitely think it's an insult. So that's what it means intellectually.
01:51Nervous system wise, it means that you're in for a fight. It's like, okay. There's something that's happening here that I can't allow.
01:57I'm not gonna allow that. And so your nervous system gets amped up. The other thing that's important to realize is that they call it taking it personally, which means you think it's about you, and it is never about you.
02:10I remember this time where it was one of my first times teaching, and I had one of my mentors with me, and we were teaching this thing together.
02:19And somebody was just calling me a horrible teacher and that I was bad, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. And I was starting to take it personally. I thought it was about me.
02:29And my mentor leaned over, whispered in my ear, and said, it's not about you. And I heard the truth, and I was like, oh, right.
02:40This at this moment, this person is projecting their dad onto me. I saw the whole thing, and they're looking for the fight that they got with their dad.
02:48It was my job to draw a loving boundary and to just show up unperturbed in that situation. And I couldn't have done it if I thought it was about me.
02:57And the weird thing is at some point you realize, oh, it's never about me. Meaning that I could do something like call you a dickhead. I could be like, you're a dickhead.
03:09And one of you out there in the world would be like, oh, I guess you're right. I mean, I can see how I'm a dickhead.
03:15And somebody else would be like, yeah. What the hell is wrong with you? You called me a dickhead.
03:20And somebody else would be like, yeah. I don't know. I I don't know why I'm a dickhead.
03:24I wanna stop being a dickhead. So whatever your reaction to me is, it isn't about me. It's about your reaction.
03:34And so when I'm taking something personally, I'm taking somebody else's moral judgments personally. I'm taking somebody else's upbringing personally.
03:41I'm taking somebody else's emotional state personally. I'm taking somebody else's too much caffeine, too much alcohol personally, and it's just not about me.
03:52Now let's talk about the benefits of having a life where you aren't taking things personally. And that's pretty obvious. Right?
03:59First of all, pretty hard to get triggered. And when you get triggered, you're excited.
04:04Like, today, if I get triggered, I get super excited. That's why I love having teenage girls because I'll tell you, if anybody knows how to trigger me, it's those teenage girls. And so I love that because every time I'm getting triggered, I can say, oh, wait.
04:19There's something about me that I'm not seeing, some part of myself that I'm not accepting, some part of myself that I still think is shameful. And I can unlock that, and there's so much freedom on the other side of it. But the other benefits are pretty amazing in the fact that you can communicate with people so much better.
04:36When they get upset with you, you can just ask questions like, oh, what's going on there? What's happening? It also allows you to see solutions that you can't see if you're taking it personally.
04:45Imagine you're the head of sales and somebody who's in the head of marketing is like, it's your fault that we're not selling stuff. And you're thinking to yourself, no. It's your fault that you're not giving me a pipeline of people to call.
04:58And if you get defensive, then you're in a fight. And but if you're not defensive, you're like, oh, hey. Obviously, yeah, we're not selling.
05:05We haven't made our numbers. And how what could be really helpful is for you to provide this pipeline because it's very hard for us to sell if we don't have anybody to call. And it's a whole different conversation than if you take it personally.
05:16So you're so much more productive when you're not taking stuff personally. Also, so much less drama.
05:22So many people that I see operating today, when they take stuff personally, everything slows down. Because on some level, shame stagnates things. And all that's happening when you're taking something personally is that you're saying there's something in me that I'm ashamed of, and so it just slows everything down.
05:38If you wanna see solutions that you wouldn't have otherwise, not taking stuff personally is super great. And then you get the benefit of the fact that you get to see parts of yourself and embrace parts of yourself that you haven't before, and so there's less of a war with yourself, and everything just operates so much smoother.
05:56So luckily, there are many ways to not take things personally. The first one is just to understand that no matter what you do, somebody is going to not like it.
06:08Somebody's gonna like it. Somebody's gonna think you're cool. Somebody's gonna think you're butt.
06:13Like, all of those things are going to happen whenever you do anything at all. So one thing is just to realize that there's no way you can control what other people think of you.
06:26So what you can control is what you think of yourself, is to ask yourself the question, oh, what would I do in this situation to make myself proud? Where you reference your own judgment rather than somebody else's judgment.
06:42Because if you're making yourself proud, it makes a lot less of a difference what other people think, and so it's harder to take things personally. So that's one. The second is to use wonder.
06:52This is something we do in the connection course all the time, which is respond to a trigger with wonder.
06:59Well, if somebody says to me, you're a butthole. I could barely say butthole. Yeah.
07:05I would be like, well, like, no. I'm not.
07:09Who what's wrong with you? Why would you call me that? That's one thing to do.
07:11But the other thing to do is like, oh, well, what is it exactly that I did that made you call me a five year old slang? Like, what what did I do? Like, I don't I don't I don't understand what would make you feel that way.
07:24Or I could ask even a deeper question, which is like, yeah. I can totally see how I'm a butthole. What do you think I should do about that?
07:32What do you what do you think is making me be a butthole? Like, I could do that as well. And you can see, like, right away what dissolves in yourself and in the other person when you use wonder.
07:45Because on some level, everything that anybody says about you is true. Like, I can absolutely see some way in which I'm a butthole. I can absolutely see some way in which I am a nice person.
07:55I can absolutely see a way I'm incompetent. I can absolutely see a way that I'm competent. If you're human, all of it is a description of you.
08:05And so to defend yourself is to say, oh, I can't see this thing that's very true about me. And that leads me to another one that you can do is you can start really paying attention to what you're defending specifically.
08:19Like, are you defending something that's real? Are you defending just an idea of yourself? Are you defending what what you think about yourself?
08:29Are you defending who you think you are? Like, what is it specifically that you are defending?
08:37Right? So if somebody says to me, you don't know what you're talking about, Joe. Well, I'm gonna have to be honest.
08:44Yeah. Of course, I don't know what I'm talking about. Like, I I don't understand the complete universe and everything around it.
08:49I know that the thought pattern that I have here that I'm sharing with you today will be different in a decade, of course. Of course, evolution happens. So, of course, I don't know what I'm talking about.
09:01But if I don't say that, I'm like, yeah, of course, know what I'm talking about. What do you I mean, I have billionaires coming and listening to me.
09:09I have famous people from all over the world calling up. I have hundreds of people show up. Of course, I know what I'm talking about.
09:14I'm having an effect on all these people. Like, what am I defending? And who am I defending it to?
09:21Am I actually defending it to the person across from me? Do I or am I defending it to myself? And those two questions and it's not to answer the questions.
09:31It's to really be in that question in the moment. Oh, what am I defending? And you'll notice just that question, which is a form of wonder, starts opening things up.
09:41And who am I defending it to will open things up because at some point you realize, oh, I'm defending against myself.
09:50I'm trying to make sure that I think that way. And and so there's so much more freedom in nondefense.
09:59Oh, of course. It's of course, that's true.
10:02How could that not be true about me? Another way to do it is to really pay attention to your somatic experience. When you're taking something personally, you're gonna clamp down.
10:12Like we talked before, there's an emotional defendantness. And what happens if you actually make space for it in your body? I know this doesn't make a lot of intellectual sense.
10:22It's not supposed to. It's your body. Your body doesn't make a lot of intellectual sense.
10:27But just see what it's like to go like, oh, I'm gonna open up to that reality. Of course, there's some truth to that reality. It doesn't mean I have to act on that truth.
10:35It doesn't mean that I have to believe that truth. It doesn't mean that I have to believe all of that truth. But, of course, there's a way of seeing the world that way that makes sense to somebody or they wouldn't be saying it.
10:46So what is it like to actually allow an an open somatic system into that?
10:53The final way to make it so that you're not taking it personally is to just announce how it makes you feel, which is almost always ouch. Ouch.
11:04Just simple ouch. Because that act of vulnerabilities flies in the face of the insult.
11:13Oh, ouch. Like, now they know, oh, that hurts you.
11:18Now let's see what they do. Because part of the idea that I'm gonna take it personally is that they want to hurt me. Right?
11:26That they want to make me look bad, that they that they aren't respecting me. And if I say, ouch, one thing that happens for me is that I admit the hurt of it so my body relaxes. But what happens for me also is I'm doing a very mini experiment that says, oh, do they really wanna respect me or not?
11:44Right? If I say ouch twice and they keep on attacking, wow, apparently, they really wanna hurt me. And now I know something.
11:50Now I know, do I want to work with them right now? Do I wanna be with them right now?
11:54Or maybe even, wow, they are really in their trauma. This is really not about me because I know that person doesn't wanna be like an ass wanna be that level of an asshole. Right?
12:04So it's a very cool experiment to run, and it's remarkable how well that works in relationships just to say, ouch, when it hurts. Now let's talk about that crazy left turn that happens.
12:16What I started to recognize is that every time I didn't take something personally and I didn't have to do it every time. I didn't have to be perfect. I didn't have to be a saint.
12:24But every time that I did, I got a little more freedom because a little part of my ego was being destroyed. So when I mean ego, I mean the way that we define ourselves. And every way we define ourselves, we're boxing ourselves in to some degree.
12:39So if I started to just, like, allow this new part of me, what occurred was that my ego just started to dwindle. And then all of a sudden, I wasn't taking my own thoughts personally.
12:53Right? So oftentimes, the thing that we're taking personally the most is that critical voice in our head. It's like, oh, you should be smarter.
13:01And you're like, yeah, I should be. I'm gonna take that personally instead of, woah.
13:07Who, like, who are you talking to? You talking to me? Are you talking to yourself?
13:10Like, what's what's going on here? Or like, oh, that's just my mom's voice from a while ago. This has nothing to do with me.
13:17There's so many ways to not take it personally. My favorite is that it's just obviously not entirely true. There's not nothing that's entirely true about any of my thoughts.
13:28But all of that was seen not because I was looking through the critical self talk, but because I was not taking things personally out in the world. And so every time I had that opportunity, I became more and more excited to just let it move through me, to destroy my ego because it just made me more and more gentle with myself.
The Hook

The bait, then the rug-pull.

A father could not stand watching his son be lazy. A coach asked him one question about his own childhood, and the trigger evaporated in real time. That story — told in the first 30 seconds — is the whole argument: every time you take something personally, you are not seeing a truth about yourself, and the moment you do see it, there is nothing left to defend.

Frameworks

Named ideas worth stealing.

01:12list

The Three Layers of Taking It Personally

  1. Emotional: defensiveness rooted in shame/insecurity
  2. Intellectual: belief you have been insulted
  3. Nervous system: body entering fight mode

A diagnostic for what is actually happening when you get defensive — useful for catching the pattern before reacting.

Steal forany coaching or leadership communication framework
05:59list

The Five Moves

  1. Anchor to your own judgment — ask what would make you proud
  2. Wonder — respond to triggers with curiosity instead of defense
  3. Examine the defense — what specifically are you defending, and to whom?
  4. Somatic opening — make space in the body instead of clamping down
  5. Say ouch — announce the hurt and run the experiment

Five escalating moves from cognitive reframe through to somatic and relational practice.

Steal forhandling critical feedback, conflict de-escalation, inner work practice
CTA Breakdown

How they asked for the click.

VERBAL ASK
13:10link
“Connection Course linked in description — no explicit verbal CTA at the close”

Soft — the Connection Course is mentioned twice mid-video as where this work is practiced, but there is no hard pitch at the close. Ocean b-roll outro with no voiceover.

MENTIONED ON CAMERA
00:41productArt of Accomplishment Connection Course ↗
06:50productArt of Accomplishment Connection Course ↗
FROM THE DESCRIPTION
PRIMARY CTAWhere the creator wants you to go next.
OTHER LINKSAlso linked in the description.
Storyboard

Visual structure at a glance.

name intro
hookname intro00:01
4-part outline
promise4-part outline00:57
definition slide
valuedefinition slide01:39
wonder move
valuewonder move06:54
what are you defending
valuewhat are you defending08:18
ocean outro
ctaocean outro13:53
Frame Gallery

Visual moments.

name intro00:01Frame at 00:15 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How00:15Frame at 00:27 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How00:27Frame at 00:36 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How00:36Frame at 00:48 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How00:484-part outline00:57
name intro00:01Frame at 00:15 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How00:15Frame at 00:27 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How00:27Frame at 00:36 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How00:36Frame at 00:48 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How00:484-part outline00:57Frame at 01:08 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How01:08Frame at 01:18 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How01:18Frame at 01:29 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How01:29definition slide01:39Frame at 01:52 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How01:52Frame at 02:00 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How02:00Frame at 02:12 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How02:12Frame at 02:21 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How02:21Frame at 02:32 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How02:32Frame at 02:44 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How02:44Frame at 02:53 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How02:53Frame at 03:05 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How03:05Frame at 03:14 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How03:14Frame at 03:24 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How03:24Frame at 03:34 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How03:34Frame at 03:45 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How03:45Frame at 03:55 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How03:55Frame at 04:06 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How04:06Frame at 04:16 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How04:16Frame at 04:27 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How04:27Frame at 04:37 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How04:37Frame at 04:50 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How04:50Frame at 05:00 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How05:00Frame at 05:09 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How05:09Frame at 05:21 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How05:21Frame at 05:30 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How05:30Frame at 05:41 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How05:41Frame at 05:52 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How05:52Frame at 06:02 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How06:02Frame at 06:14 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How06:14Frame at 06:22 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How06:22Frame at 06:33 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How06:33Frame at 06:43 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How06:43wonder move06:54Frame at 07:05 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How07:05Frame at 07:17 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How07:17Frame at 07:25 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How07:25Frame at 07:37 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How07:37Frame at 07:48 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How07:48Frame at 07:59 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How07:59Frame at 08:08 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How08:08what are you defending08:18Frame at 08:28 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How08:28Frame at 08:41 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How08:41Frame at 08:51 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How08:51Frame at 09:02 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How09:02Frame at 09:11 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How09:11Frame at 09:22 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How09:22Frame at 09:31 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How09:31Frame at 09:44 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How09:44Frame at 09:54 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How09:54Frame at 10:05 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How10:05Frame at 10:13 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How10:13Frame at 10:25 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How10:25Frame at 10:34 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How10:34Frame at 10:45 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How10:45Frame at 10:55 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How10:55Frame at 11:05 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How11:05Frame at 11:16 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How11:16Frame at 11:28 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How11:28Frame at 11:39 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How11:39Frame at 11:48 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How11:48Frame at 11:58 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How11:58Frame at 12:09 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How12:09Frame at 12:19 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How12:19Frame at 12:29 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How12:29Frame at 12:40 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How12:40Frame at 12:50 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How12:50Frame at 13:01 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How13:01Frame at 13:11 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How13:11Frame at 13:23 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How13:23Frame at 13:33 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How13:33Frame at 13:47 from You've Been Told to Not Take Things Personally. Here's How13:47ocean outro13:53
Watch next

More from this channel + related breakdowns.