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Ed Lawrence · YouTube

Why Growing A Personal Brand Is An AWFUL Idea

A 17-minute case against the freedom myth — and the one framework for doing it anyway.

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Big Idea

The argument in one line.

Personal brands are sold as a path to lifestyle freedom, but they function as a high-paying job you can never fully quit — the only durable exit is converting peak attention into lasting trust before the fall-off arrives.

Who This Is For

Read if. Skip if.

READ IF YOU ARE…
  • You are considering starting a YouTube channel or content presence and want an honest picture of the workload and cost before committing.
  • You already have a profitable business and keep hearing that a personal brand is the missing lever — and you want to stress-test that belief.
  • You are a few years into building a personal brand, your growth has slowed, and you are wondering whether to push harder or pivot strategy.
  • You want a framework for when to hire, what to build first, and how to sequence a sustainable content operation.
SKIP IF…
  • You have already committed to personal branding and just want tactical content creation tips — this is strategy, not production advice.
  • You are looking for a quick-start guide; the honest answer here is that there is no shortcut.
TL;DR

The full version, fast.

Personal brands rarely become lifestyle businesses because the founder becomes the marketing and can never fully step away. Scaling costs $30-50K per month in skilled talent, attention inevitably declines due to hedonic adaptation and format churn, and for some business owners the brand-building effort actively damages core revenue. The durable play is to build trust rather than chase virality, let the fall-off happen, and monetize residual reputation — then launch something that no longer requires your face.

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Chapters

Where the time goes.

00:0000:24

01 · Hook

Hormozi and Diary of a CEO still grinding despite massive wealth — raises the core question about whether personal brands deliver freedom.

00:2402:25

02 · Reason 1: You become the marketing

The lifestyle business dream vs. reality chart. Income rises but time never drops. You cannot remove yourself from the machine the way a traditional business owner can.

02:2503:45

03 · Reason 2: It builds a second full-time job

Compares the gardening business (delegatable from day one) with content creation (research, film, edit, trends, comments — all non-delegatable at the start). Multi-platform makes it worse.

03:4505:50

04 · Reason 3: Scaling costs a fortune

Top YouTube strategists charge $25K/month. Full-stack team runs $30-50K/month. The workaround is becoming the strategist yourself first — but that takes years.

05:5007:40

05 · Reason 4: Attention always falls off

Hedonic adaptation, format copying, and trend cycles mean very few maintain peak reach for more than a few years. Examples: MrBeast, Andrew Tate, Tim Ferriss.

07:4009:15

06 · Reason 5: It colonizes your thinking

The Maldives villa moment. Every experience becomes potential content. Sam Ovens quit YouTube because he did not want to lie in bed editing videos in his head.

09:1510:40

07 · Reason 6: It can damage your real business

Case study: a business owner making hundreds of thousands per month who started chasing personal brand content — business performance declined in direct proportion to content time.

10:4012:55

08 · Should YOU do it? The trust argument

Pivot: the right person still wants to after hearing all of this. The fall-off does not kill you if you built trust. Income doubled when views declined because he monetized the audience already built.

12:5514:08

09 · Solving the time/lifestyle problem

Sam Ovens as the rare clean exit: used personal brand to launch Skool, then empowered other creators to promote it so his face is no longer required.

14:0817:29

10 · How to start from zero — 7-step playbook

Forget lifestyle business, think media company. One platform. Trust over virality. One great product. Content foundations. Hire once traction exists. Build multiplatform machine last.

Atomic Insights

Lines worth screenshotting.

  • With a personal brand, you do not hire a marketing department — you become one, and that position is never truly vacatable.
  • Most people fail at personal branding not because the content is bad, but because they accidentally built a second full-time job.
  • Top YouTube strategists charge $25,000 a month and are not even managing the whole system — the full stack runs $30-50K monthly.
  • Hedonic adaptation means audiences normalize your content until what once felt exciting becomes just another post from someone they used to watch.
  • When someone blows up with a new format, everyone copies them — so the thing that made you internet famous soon becomes cliche.
  • The fall-off phase is often when personal brands earn the most, because they can finally focus on monetizing trust instead of chasing attention.
  • Trust compounds far longer than attention — people buy years after their last view based on value received at peak.
  • The goal of a personal brand is not permanent virality that consumes you; it is trust that continues to pay you long after your peak.
  • If attention falls and all you built was attention, you have nothing left — if you built trust, the fall-off barely matters.
  • Building everywhere at once is advice for people with money already in the system — beginners who spread thin usually collapse thin.
  • One really good product people recommend to their friends is more durable than a perfect content system with no product behind it.
  • The moment you start thinking of your personal brand as a media company, you stop asking how to do everything yourself and start asking who.
Takeaway

Trust is the asset; attention is just the acquisition channel.

WHAT TO LEARN

Personal brands do not fail because of bad content — they fail because founders treat attention as the goal instead of the mechanism for building something that outlasts the peak.

  • When you build a personal brand, you become the marketing department — which means you cannot delegate your way out of it the way a traditional business owner can.
  • Most personal brand failures are really disguised burnout: the creator built a second full-time job without realizing it, then ran out of fuel.
  • Scaling a content operation to multiple platforms costs $30-50K per month in skilled labor — the only cheap alternative is becoming the strategist yourself first, which takes years.
  • Hedonic adaptation is structural, not personal: no matter how good your content is, audiences normalize it over time, and the format that made you famous will eventually become cliche.
  • The fall-off phase often generates more revenue than the peak phase, because you finally shift focus from getting attention to monetizing the trust already built.
  • Trust outlasts virality by years — people buy based on value received at peak, long after they stopped watching regularly.
  • For a profitable business owner, chasing a personal brand can actively reduce business performance if it steals focus from the highest-leverage lever: the existing business.
  • The sequencing matters: master one platform, build one product, build the team, then expand to multiplatform — doing it in reverse burns money and people.
  • A media company mindset changes the core question from how do I do all of this to who does each part.
Glossary

Terms worth knowing.

Hedonic adaptation
The psychological process by which audiences normalize what once felt novel. Applied to personal brands, content that once felt must-watch gradually becomes background noise as viewers consume more of it.
Fall-off phase
The period after a personal brand peaks in views when attention declines. Counterintuitively, this phase often generates more revenue because the creator shifts focus from getting attention to monetizing already-built trust.
Trust vs. attention
The distinction between surface-level reach (views, viral moments) and the durable credibility that makes people buy, invest, or recommend long after they stopped actively following a creator.
Resources

Things they pointed at.

Quotables

Lines you could clip.

01:17
You become the marketing.
Three words that land the whole thesis — no setup needed.TikTok hook↗ Tweet quote
03:30
Most people don't fail at personal branding because they are bad at making content. They fail because they accidentally build themselves a second full time job.
Reframes failure in a way that hits immediately — every creator has felt this.IG reel cold open↗ Tweet quote
07:43
Your entire business depends on something incredibly unstable — human attention.
Clean declarative punch; works as a standalone statement.newsletter pull-quote↗ Tweet quote
12:52
Trust compounds far longer than attention.
Aphorism-length, tweetable, contrarian to the views-obsessed creator world.Twitter/X post↗ Tweet quote
12:04
The goal of building a personal brand is not permanent virality that consumes you. The goal is to build trust and reputation that continues to pay you long after your peak attention phase.
Full-sentence thesis that reframes the whole game.IG reel cold open↗ Tweet quote
The Script

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00:00The Diary of a CEO host Stephen Barley and Alex Hormozi are worth hundreds of millions of dollars, yet they still publish thousands of pieces of content every single month and spend an insane amount of time planning and producing it, which raises an interesting question. If the people who have already made it can't stop posting online, is building a personal brand actually freedom, or is it one of the most demanding business models of all time?
00:23So in this video, I wanna show you the truth about what it actually takes to grow a personal brand now, and these are all based on having grown my own multimillion dollar personal brand, as well as helping hundreds of others do the same too. I'm also gonna help you work out if you should actually grow one, as well as reveal why it could be hurting your business if you're already trying.
00:39So let's start with the first reason I think personal brands are a dangerous business model for many people, and it all comes down to this chart. When I first started building a personal brand, this is what I thought would happen. You post content and your audience grows and you start making money, and eventually, you are working four hours a week sipping pina coladas on the beach somewhere.
00:59So income goes up, and then the time you have to work goes down significantly. That is the dream. Right?
01:04But for me, and most personal brands I know, it looked more like this. So the income, it did go up. However, the amount of time I had to spend working never really came down.
01:15Because with a personal brand, you become the marketing. Now, this also just so happens to be the exact same thing that makes personal branding so powerful, but the downside is growth is heavily tied to your personality getting attention and always trying to keep it.
01:31So if you disappear for too long, your business growth could slow down because you're no longer bringing new attention into your ecosystem. And that means you can't ever really fully remove yourself from the machine in the same way that traditional businesses eventually can.
01:44And it's why a lot of personal brands work very hard long after becoming very successful. Meanwhile, I know people that have a traditional business, and these guys are worth millions, they and could disappear for weeks or months, and their company just keeps running because 100% of it is run by other people.
02:01Their face isn't required, and that's the first reason a personal brand is an awful idea for so many people because it is often sold to you as a lifestyle business. In reality, most personal brands never become true lifestyle businesses because the founder usually has to stay involved in some meaningful way.
02:18But why else does the amount of time personal brands have to work never really seem to drop to that lifestyle vision that many of us imagine? Well, think about how traditional businesses that are not led by personal brands work. I'm gonna use my first business, a gardening business, as an example.
02:33So this is what I had to do to create freedom. First, I needed to get clients, so I just put a leaflet.
02:40When I had no money, I delivered them myself. And then when I had money, I hired someone to do it for me. That grew the business year after year.
02:47And by my early twenties, it allowed me to buy a property, and I had a nice Mercedes a and pretty good lifestyle. Then once I had enough clients, I could just pay someone else to do the work.
02:57Now, you compare that to when I started to build my own personal brand. So I sold my gardening business, and I decided that I was gonna try and be internet famous. And now what I had to do was research ideas, I had to write content, I had to film, I had to edit, I had to study analytics, I had to respond to comments, I had to keep up with trends, and I was just on one platform.
03:17If I had then tried to post content everywhere, like the strategy that's often pushed, I would have needed to manage all of that stuff multiple times across Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn, Twitter, and email too.
03:29Can you see the problem? Right? Most people don't fail at personal branding because they are bad at making content.
03:35They fail because they accidentally build themselves a second full time job. Now you might be thinking, alright, Ed. There's an easy solution here.
03:42Just hire people to help you. And you're right. That is the solution.
03:45But this creates another problem people massively underestimate when it comes to growing a personal brand. So let's say you wanna do the multiplatform strategy that everyone recommends online, where you post content to YouTube and Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, everywhere.
04:00To pull that off, the first thing you're probably gonna need is to hire someone to oversee this giant system. And this person will probably think about things like strategy content, what gets posted where and when, what gets repurposed, what's working, what isn't, and then how this strategy evolves over time.
04:16The thing is, there just aren't that many people who are genuinely elite at growing these kind of creator led businesses because it's such a new industry still. And the people who are very good are either famous personal brands themselves or they know how valuable they are.
04:31So experienced strategists and operators can get expensive very quickly.
04:36Just to give you an example, top YouTube strategists charge about $25,000 a month, and they're not even managing the whole system. Then what you're gonna need is some video editors, because if you are serious about video, you're gonna have to cut up a lot of content.
04:49And on top of this, you're gonna want a VA to post things and look after email and just take a lot of this work off your hands. On top of that, we've also got software and tools that you need to pay for to keep the system running.
05:01So before long, what looked like just posting stuff online starts to resemble a full blown media And the reality is hiring a team who's actually good enough to help is probably gonna set you back about 30 to $50,000 a month now, and it's why Cody Sanchez and the top personal brands are spending millions every year growing theirs.
05:19Now, let's be fair. Some people absolutely build personal brands for far less than that, but usually, that's because they became the strategist first.
05:29So they learned what works. They learned how to structure content. They learned how to measure.
05:32They learned how to get attention and keep it. And then what they've done is trained cheaper people to execute their own system, which is a very viable route. But no matter which way you go, it usually means learning the game yourself before things will become much easier to scale.
05:47So either way, the cost of growing a personal brand usually gets paid through a large time investment or a large financial investment or both. And then there's the next issue, which most people forget to mention, and that is that even once you've grown a personal brand, spent a ton of time and effort on it, it will eventually slow down a lot.
06:05And I think the best example of this is how it happens in Hollywood in the music industry. So you remember Taylor Lautner, right? This guy.
06:11He was like the biggest heartthrob in the world for years. Where is he now? And then you think about the band LMFAO.
06:18You couldn't escape him, like, twenty years ago. Musicians, actors, movie stars, people who were once household names, they peak and they fall off, and this is true for many personal brands. So we look at MrBeast.
06:27His views are now coming down, and they're maybe half of what they once were. Andrew Tate's public interest, look at this on Google Trends, it's massively in decline. Tim Ferriss too.
06:35The truth is very few people managed to maintain the exact level of reach and attention that originally blew them up for more than just a few years. And this is incredibly hard to avoid because of something called hedonic adaptation.
06:49What that means is, people quickly normalize what once felt special to them. So your content can go from the most exciting thing in the world to, just another post from that person I used to watch, simply because audience have consumed it so much, it no longer feels special. But also, when someone blows up their personal brand with a new format or style, everybody copies them.
07:09So that which made you internet famous soon becomes cliche, and people move on to the next new hot thing or format, as the one they used to love slowly dies out.
07:18In 2022, YouTube was all about b roll and fast paced editing. Then in 2024, it became about stripped back authentic content.
07:25And now in 2026, it's starting to change again. And the only real way you can fight this is by constantly reinventing yourself, which is what Madonna was famous for doing, and it kept her culturally relevant for many years.
07:38So this is the danger of personal brands. Your entire business depends on something incredibly unstable, human attention.
07:45And human attention constantly chases novelty. Bringing us on to the next problem, which does something very weird, and it actually changes the way you will see the entire world day to day if you attempt this. Now, if you've experienced this, please let me know in the comments because almost everyone I know has says the same thing happens to them.
08:04So let me give you an example. I recently went to The Maldives and I walked into the villa and I went, wow, this would make such a great background for a video.
08:11And then I went to an event in London and I thought, this would make a really interesting vlog. And then you're chatting to someone and they say something interesting and deep down you're thinking, that would be a good tweet. What happens is over time, growing a personal brand stops becoming marketing, and it starts becoming deeply tied to how you experience your day to day life, which is why so many creators eventually burn out.
08:32Because growing a personal brand lives up here rent free. And years ago, I asked Sam Ovens, the founder of school, if he would ever go back to making YouTube videos, and he said no, because he didn't wanna lie in bed at night thinking about how he could have made a video better when his attention should have been focused on building the actual business itself.
08:48The truth is when you start to grow a personal brand, you will catch yourself thinking about how any experience or any moment or any conversation could become content rather than actually being present in it, and it can take over your entire life. So much so, this can actually then start to damage your business. And I have seen this happen many times.
09:05So one example was someone making hundreds of thousands of dollars a month, but they didn't really have a personal brand. And they've seen all these podcast clips and creators online saying, you need a personal brand. Attention's the new oil.
09:17You're running out of time. So they started thinking, I need to do this too. So instead of focusing on the business, they spent three days every week doing hooks, planning content, filming videos, looking at analytics.
09:28And ironically, the more attention they gave to growing the personal brand, the worse their business started performing. And this is where personal brands can become dangerous for some business owners because a lot of people have been made to feel like attention itself is the solution to all of their problems, where really the highest leverage thing they could do is fix and improve their business first.
09:47So if personal branding is just a high paying job that you can never really quit, it costs a fortune to scale, and eventually your attention will fall off, is it actually worth it? Well, here is my honest answer after doing this for the last five to six years, and having helped a lot of other people do it too. For most people, I think the day to day reality is it would make them completely miserable, especially if you don't actually enjoy making content because it's the job.
10:15A traditional business would probably make most people happier. But for a very specific person, I think growing a personal brand is gonna be one of the best things they ever do because if it does work for you, there are very few business models where one person can build so much leverage in a niche so quickly. But who is that right person?
10:33Well, I think if you can get to the end of this video, hear out what I'm about to show you, and you still think to yourself, you know what? I wanna do this, then it's you. So now let's look at why personal brands are a great idea in spite of everything I've just shown you so you can make that choice for yourself.
10:47Starting with the elephant in the room, and that is that personal brands nearly always fall off. The thing is, you actually want that to happen because falling off only kills your business if all you built was attention instead of trust. So let me show you what I mean.
11:01So back in 2022, I had this big breakout moment. I was getting millions of views a month, and then eventually, felt the platform changing, and my views, they felt harder to get because the style that I'd kinda come up with became cliche, and everyone was copying it. So I shifted my attention towards the actual business and providing more value and helping the audience that I'd already built rather than obsessing over continually to increase the amount of attention I got.
11:25And weirdly, my income doubled, and then it doubled again. Because the fall off phase is often where personal brands and even musicians can make a heck of a lot of money.
11:36Say, for example, Blink one eight two, they can still sell out a great big stadium even though they're no longer culturally dominant. And that's the same with people like Simon Snake or Tim Ferriss. You might not have consumed a single piece of content from them for years, but you still trust them and you still value their ideas, and you would probably be very excited to work with them because the goal of building a personal brand is not permanent virality that consumes you.
12:01The goal is to build trust and reputation that continues to pay you long after your peak attention phase. And when you reach that point, you unlock the real benefits of a personal brand.
12:13Because thanks to the trust you once built, you get invited onto podcasts, and all the listeners will be your ideal buyers, meaning other people make content for you and distribute it for you, and you make money that way. People then invite you to invest in things like this delicious new tonic that I was asked to invest in along with much bigger names.
12:30You get invited to speak at events, and most people, I believe, earn more in the fall off phase because they can finally focus on monetizing the audience they build rather than focus on always trying to get attention. In fact, I've had loads of people buy my products after not watching anything from me for years based on value I gave them in 2023 because trust compounds far longer than attention.
12:54So that sounds good. Right? But what about the fact this takes just so much of your time and you can never really create a 100% non dependent on new lifestyle?
13:02Well, there's ways around it. So if we look at Sam Ovens, the founder of school, I think he's one of the very few people that's actually pulled this off. And I believe that if he never appeared online again, school would continue to grow for a very long time because all he did was he used the trust and reputation he built years ago through making YouTube videos to launch something that no longer requires his face or his visibility.
13:24In fact, what he did was smart. He used his personal brand and network to attract and empower other creators to promote it for him, so he's using their face instead. And that is something you can do when you are very well respected in a niche.
13:36It's actually crazy. I spent a while trying to find examples of other people who have done it as well as him, and honestly, there are just not that many people who have stopped making content even though they could. Tony Robbins, Russell Brunson, Alex Hall, Moses, Steven Barlow, they could all disappear tomorrow, and they'd be fine.
13:50But I also think a lot of people at that level, they enjoy this game, and they like building and creating and staying culturally relevant. So they keep playing, and they keep putting all their time into it because that is the lifestyle they want. But you probably don't wanna do that.
14:03I don't think many people do. So what if you wanna do this in a way that it won't consume your life forever? Well, if I was starting again from zero, this is exactly how I'd do it to avoid many of the problems we've talked about.
14:14So first, I would just stop thinking of this as trying to build a lifestyle business. Because honestly, lifestyle businesses via a personal brand, they exist after you've made it, when you can switch off. To get to that point, it's a huge amount of work.
14:26And I honestly believe there's hardly any real lifestyle businesses on this planet. It's just a nice thing to sell people. But instead, what I would do is I would think of it as this.
14:35I would set out to say, I am going to build a media company. Because the the moment you start thinking of it like that, you instantly think about building a team to help you scale your personality instead of focusing on this whole kind of, like, solopreneur idea where you do it all yourself, and that is a very time intensive trap you will fall into.
14:53Then I would only focus on one platform at the beginning, because trying to post absolutely everywhere is great in theory, and it's the advice people like Gary Vee will give all the time, but it's not for beginners.
15:04He's giving advice to people with loads of money to invest in that system. Really, most beginners don't have money, experience, or the systems to pull it off.
15:13So instead of spreading yourself way too thin, I would master one platform first. Now, personally, I would choose YouTube because, one, I'm biased. My service that you pay for helps grow YouTube channel.
15:25But secondly, because long form video, it builds trust better than anything else online, as well as the other benefits I'm gonna show you in a second. Then I would focus far more on building trust than chasing virality.
15:37Because attention gets you noticed, and the views are gonna feel really good. But leaning into it too heavily, it won't save you when that fall off does happen.
15:45So focus on trust because that's gonna pay you for decades. So I'd be thinking about always trying to make the most genuinely useful content, not just trying to trick people to click or trick them to watch for longer. And then I would make one really good product people recommend to their friends, so that when I was ready to scale, it wouldn't crumble under the pressure.
16:04And then I would master the foundations of what makes amazing content. Pretty much hooks, storytelling, creating frameworks, simplification, and build some kind of system that got me a result.
16:15Then once I had started to get some traction on a platform and the system was working well, I would hire people to help run that system with me or for me. If I had a ton of cash at that stage, I'd pay someone really good. If I didn't, I would train someone up to do things the way that I was doing them.
16:28And then once I had enough money, that's when I'd start building the big omnipresent, multiplatform social media marketing machine that puts you everywhere online. And I would outsource as much as I possibly could so that I was only left with the one thing I could obsess over and focus over that I genuinely love doing so I could finally become world class at it.
16:46And if you can do this, your earnings will go up, the amount of time you work will go down. And this is why YouTube's so powerful, powerful, because you can build one video into LinkedIn posts, shorts, clips, reels, tweets, emails, Instagram carousels, and now the cool thing is AI can help so much with that process.
17:04You might only need one or two team members to help you build and manage this system, whereas before, it took a heck of a lot more. So if you watched this entire video and thought, I still wanna do this, then you are probably the exact type of person who should. And if you wanna learn how to actually build a YouTube channel properly, one that gets you into the top 1% of your niche so you could generate view sales and leads, watch this video next.
17:24I'm gonna show you exactly how I've done it and helped hundreds of other businesses do it too.
The Hook

The bait, then the rug-pull.

If the people who have already made it cannot stop posting, is a personal brand actually freedom — or one of the most demanding business models ever invented? That is the premise Ed Lawrence tests across 17 minutes, drawing on his own multimillion-dollar brand, its subsequent fall-off, and the income that doubled afterward.

Frameworks

Named ideas worth stealing.

14:08list

7-Step Personal Brand Playbook

  1. Forget lifestyle business — think media company
  2. Pick one platform (YouTube recommended)
  3. Focus on trust over virality
  4. Make one amazing product people recommend
  5. Master content foundations (hooks, storytelling, frameworks, simplification)
  6. Hire people once the system is working
  7. Build multiplatform machine last

A sequenced framework for building a personal brand without the common traps. The key insight is that multiplatform expansion comes last, not first.

Steal forAny creator planning their next 12-24 months of content infrastructure
11:00model

Trust vs. Attention arc

Attention peaks and falls off for every personal brand. Trust does not. The creator who survives the fall-off built trust during the peak instead of only optimizing for views.

Steal forContent strategy presentations, audience relationship frameworks
CTA Breakdown

How they asked for the click.

VERBAL ASK
17:09next-video
If you wanna learn how to actually build a YouTube channel properly, one that gets you into the top 1% of your niche so you could generate views, sales and leads, watch this video next.

Clean bridge to a follow-up video. No hard sell — the CTA earns trust by only targeting people who made it to the end, which the host explicitly calls out as the qualification test.

FROM THE DESCRIPTION
PRIMARY CTAWhere the creator wants you to go next.
Storyboard

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hook
hookhook00:00
reason 1 — lifestyle myth
valuereason 1 — lifestyle myth00:24
reason 2 — second job
valuereason 2 — second job02:25
reason 3 — cost
valuereason 3 — cost03:45
reason 4 — fall-off
valuereason 4 — fall-off05:50
reason 5 — brain colonization
valuereason 5 — brain colonization07:40
reason 6 — business damage
valuereason 6 — business damage09:15
pivot — trust argument
promisepivot — trust argument10:40
lifestyle exit model
valuelifestyle exit model12:55
7-step playbook
value7-step playbook14:08
CTA — watch next video
ctaCTA — watch next video17:09
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